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Your own handle speaks volumes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Try quality over quantity and try less self gratification and less boards and less magazines. I highly suggest looking at providers that allow for more time to build some sort of relationship....possibly even a tantra provider............or even a CMT provider.

You are just focused on the wrong thing!!

Carpe Diem,
Summer of the Chicken Ranc

Unloved2098 reads

In other posts I've brought up a issue I started developing on and off this year with delayed ejaculation.  Although I'm enjoying the ride and trying not to focus too much on orgasm... I was wondering of any of you guys recommend any supplements.

Iv got no problem with endurance which is awesome but it would be nice to climax !!!!

I can rub one out on my own and even with a condom on.  only occassionally have issues on my own.  I'm pretty relaxed during a session usually.  Maybe I'm tok used to self stimulation.

I've seen a thread here mentioning maca root.  

I've also considered vibrating cock ring for more stimulation and/or prostate toy.  

So whether it's mechanical or supplement enhanced- what have you guys had success with.  Oh.. wondering if female condom would be better for more sensitivity on my part.

Input appreciated

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cocktail-party1713 reads

If so, then the issue is probably a mix of condoms and your masturbatory technique. Try out different condoms (including FCs - awesome!) and be sure to vary your masturbatory technique (switch hands, soften up, etc.) so that you don't get too used to one feel. Don't jerk off to soon before an appointment - you should be hornier and more sensitive. Try out different positions with the ladies to determine which work best for you - she'll feel tighter if her legs are together in any particular position (ex. lazy dog, legs on shoulders in mish). If she does a killer HJ/BJ, then just finish that way, or jerk it while she sucks the head.

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that brief time between the popularization of the pill and the advent of AIDS, and then after several years of marriage, I'd never worn a condom before starting in the hobby.  Once I did I thought I was going numb and would have to see someone whose name ended in 'ologist'   Turned out switching to ultra thins worked really well but there is nothing as good as the FC now.  It feels amazingly natural to me now... and now it's so much better when only one of us has to fake an orgasm ;)  

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Unloved768 reads

Hmm I'll have to try that. Actually had not seriously considered using an FC

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1705218688 reads

After some troubles with being only able to climax with a BBBJ (which is great) I found the a FC did the job with the ol' in and out. Maca root did nothing. A vibrator applied to the frenulum by my ATF worked too. Lot's of fun experimenting.

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mrfisher717 reads

Dehydration is a serious problem among most people, and that can be a cause of sexual dysfunction.  Make it a point to drink at least two quarts of water (not soda!) a day and see if that helps.

Here's a list of other things that I do to keep in shape:

Potassium (bananas and avocadoes)
Vitamin D supplements
ginseng
goji berries

Try them out and see.  They will be a lot less expensive than a doctor.

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Unloved592 reads

Definitely don't drink nearly enough water either.

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anavictoria673 reads

That and breathing, I make sure everyone hydrates and doesn't forget to breath. We tend to tense up and stop breathing which causes a lot of difficulty throughout our lives.  

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Dehydration is a serious problem among most people, and that can be a cause of sexual dysfunction.  Make it a point to drink at least two quarts of water (not soda!) a day and see if that helps.

Here's a list of other things that I do to keep in shape:

Potassium (bananas and avocadoes)
Vitamin D supplements
ginseng
goji berries

Try them out and see.  They will be a lot less expensive than a doctor.

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growup735 reads

I can cum easily when on my own, but with someone, it's very difficult, whether it be sex or BJ. I think it's the difference in stimulation, plus the mental hurdle.  

I often take the whole session trying. I feel bad because sometimes the provider thinks it's her; when it's just me!

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OCSummer588 reads

Your own handle speaks volumes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Try quality over quantity and try less self gratification and less boards and less magazines. I highly suggest looking at providers that allow for more time to build some sort of relationship....possibly even a tantra provider............or even a CMT provider.

You are just focused on the wrong thing!!

Carpe Diem,
Summer of the Chicken Ranc

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