She's denies it claiming she needed to use the flash light but I definitely heard a snapping sound. It was also day time. I confronted her but she got extremely defensive threatening to blacklist me for accusing her. She's a newbie still learning the ropes but the more I think about it this is a dangerous invasion of client privacy.  

What is her name?

WTF is it with girls behaving badly. Getting caught doing something wrong and then threatening to blacklist or pass on false information to other providers about the guy who calls them on their BS is just unprofessional. I don't get it. This is a business and there should be no tolerance for this type of bad behavior. Blacklisting is serious and providers who misuse it to settle scores should themselves be blacklisted. I'd NEVER see a provider who is not professional and I'd suggest other guys to avoid these girls as well. This is P4P after all, not High School.

I'd never "blacklist" to get even. It is just begging for escalation. Back channel and PM if you want, but there is a difference between warning others and posting names on the boards. Just my .02

Not on a local provider. He can post a warning on his regional board and link to her stage name if he so pleases.

"unfucked" that's a fanatic one. I'm still on the fence on this issue because something similar happened to me and she wasn't a new provider at all. It sucks when someone lies about you and threatens you. Imagine your phone going off at 4 am because someone you've seen dozens of times decides they want to threaten you (in writing too!) I get it. I do. Sane people do crazy shit when they are upset, hurt, angry, whatever. However, there is no room for making threats in P4P. We're all vulnerable here. I do this for fun and if I wanted drama I'd "date" in the real world not here.

i call bullshit on this one..

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That is absolutely RIDICULOUS!!!
When I do take credit card (not very often and normally only for certain clients) I ask for I.D to match the name to the C.C/signature and etc., but I do NOT take a picture....that crosses a line and breaks every discretion rule there is.

Exactly, or she just looses the phone, or the coke-head boy friend takes it and think there is $ to be made, or ... it goes on and on.

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I bet you aren't much of a homewrecker either.

and thank you for pointing out that the OP is trolling, I don't think any of us would have caught on without you. Your service to the community is duly noted.

And I agree with Robin and MacLeaker. Fancy that!