Not having a date.  Not engaging in "quality time" with a companion or Service Provider.  Not trying to live the role of Henry Higgins (or Svengali from what I've seen) by rising her above her unfortunate happenstance.  And not using the Benjamin Franklin Matchmaking Service For the Unrequited.

Just good, old fashioned, fucking a hot whore from time to time to celebrate life.  Anyone?

I'm with you, my friend. But this board is populated with the types of guys that see prostitutes to get affection and such. That's why there are so many postings about "deep french kissing" and such... As a result there are a group of guys who just read TER for the reviews but don't bother posting, because they will get drowned out by the guys who see providers as substitute girlfriends.

I'm able to have normal relationships with women - girlfriends, wife, whatever. I have never missed out on female companionship or affection, and get that kind of attention daily. Yet on this board I am consider "immature" because I don't see providers as girlfriends, and because I see the provider/hobbyist relationship purely as a transaction.

TER just isn't the board to have more "hardcore" discussions about providers and experiences. There are other boards more suited to that.

There is a big menu out there depending on what you like, and my appetite varies from time to time.

I'm glad to have such options.

My second experience with a provider was a PSE. I didn't really know what it was.
There was maybe two words spoken before the fun bagan. It was very erotic.
She is a kinky, dirty girl. Wish I could review her here, but something happened with her and ter.
There is something about fucking a complete stranger that just cannot be topped. Easy for her too. She didn't have to entertain my mind. Just my body.

it's difficult to do that with any regularity because for me it becomes robotic, mechanical and quite honestly boring.  After a while it simply become a question of how many ways can you recite the alphabet.  

There is nothing that can be done indefinitely (including, fetishes, doubles, triples, role playing, etc.) that won't eventually become routine and mundane.  If you go back to Jewish history, you'll come across a guy named Solomon who had 700 wives and the equivalent of 300 strippers at his beck and call every night (that's 3 different woman for each night of the year), yet at the end of his hobbying run, his conclusion was that life was meaningless.  

That's what makes variety the spice of life and what makes the OP spot on when he says that raw uninhibited, detached sex every once in a while is amazing...provided it's mixed in with a variety of other sexual pleasures.

Now go forth and fuck a hot whore... then make love to your ATF.  

i'm actually looking for one right now. one who will let me say, "suck it u dirty little whore"
i feel like getting nasty today!!!  ( any volunteers? )

Where are those boards that are are into those discussions

I'd like to know as well! Dudes here are weird about things...

If that's all I wanted, I would go back to the SWs.  I want "dates" now. I am all about the cuddling and kissing and talking and all that shit. Don't get me wrong. I want to fuck too, but I want the other "date" stuff.

On the other hand I don't fault or condemn anyone else for wanting something different. Some guys just want to fuck and go. Some just want a HJ. Some want to just talk. Some want to pay to get shit on!
Something for everyone out there.

My guess is that he tried it all at at the end of the day, he wasn't any happier than if he had done none of it, so he considered it all to be meaningless.  With that said, I have to think there were some good times, but at the end of the day it was too much of a good thing and the monotony of perpetual pleasure ended up giving him a totally jaded perspective.

So what's the moral of the story...

a) Don't read Jewish history
b) Be happy with who you are with when you are with them
c) Every once in a while go fuck a hot whore
d) all of the above

You guys call it PSE or whatever but anynomous fuzzing was the whole reason I got into the hobby! There is nothing hotter than opening the door and being used to be cleansed of all the bs that goes on everyday... What a relief! Then leave and go about your day... Truth be told, if I had more PSE times I'd feel obligated to spend OTC time, to find out more about Mr. Sexy that fuzzed the shit out of me, but that's just the submissive side of me talking! LOL!

She might not be the beauty queen, but she likes to just get down and dirty.

There was one from my past that reemerged recently, and she charges a very low rate for bodyrub, and usually that morphs into BBBJ and FS.  She is the very definition of butterface, but she has a banging body, and she is always down to fuck.

Yeah, sometimes you just crave a messy, greasy burger instead of something more refined you sit down with a fork and knife to eat at a nice restaurant.

it was the guys who wanted the girlfriend experience. Sure, if you want to fuck a hot whore we don't mind a walking ATM/wallet showing up and getting it done and leaving. I mean this can work both ways can it not?

And by hardcore, what exactly do you mean? I have asked this question and seem to get vague answers. What does a hardcore hobbyist want to discuss on here?

So here's to whores and walking wallets, a match made in heaven!!!!

..sure you great big walking wallet, I'll suck your dirty dick . just keep flinging the bills.

And I prefer walking wallet to john because whore is almost always a derogatory term so I feel that if you're going to be that way with the ladies I can use a somewhat derogatory term for the guys. Let's keep this fair.

So you start a thread about sex the way you want it with a whore. I am sure a couple of ladies could contribute with their view of that along with other guys who feel the same way you do. I am all for it!!!