Saw a young lady from BP last night. Checked phone number and pic and all seemed OK. She only does out call so I met her in public and we walked to my place. Had a great time. Here's the thing, before meeting I asked her rate and she quoted a very low $ for an hour. I expected upscale or worse, but, no, she was great (cbj not my preference but not unusual).........I'm seeing her tomorrow.......should I tell her to raise her rate? (She started just before Christmas after losing her job.....but has a friend in the biz) Norm here is 200 hr ....a few at 175........she was 120.

Has she asked you for your advice? If No, then I wouldn't bother.  If you want, you can tip her extra as an act of generosity.

but to grandfather you in!

maybe she needs you to be her pimp..

I remember you posting something similar a while back

Not very nice reply. Just asking a question. Take a xanax.

Give her a tip if you want, but never advice her on raising her rates.

See, if she follows your advice, and she loses her customers (regulars and future potentials customers) .. she will be damn angry at you for giving her lousy advise.  

There's a reason why she has that rate.  She probably chooses to be more competitive and get more clients than those who charges higher rates.   Don't mess it up.  

I  have seen a provider who works with two other providers and she charges $100 lower than the 2 other providers she works with - she's just as pretty and sexy (I think she's much better than the other two who charge more), but she chooses to have more clients. And yes, she's well aware that she charges $100 less and even providers better GFE services than the 2 other girls.  

Don't get involve in the rates issue.

You would think that makes sense...

He becomes a preferred customer. She makes the money he thinks she deserves...Maybe your on to something there. Of course, your assuming that most people here have a lick of common sense.

Let's see - the likely outcome is that she doubles what she charges you, and is pissed off at you because you basically told her she was being a cheap, stupid whore. Yeah, that sounds right.

I understand you are actually being nice and your advice will benefit her, but if she is any good at this one of the attractions to her will be that she likes the independence, self-determination, so she will probably not take well to being told how she should run her business.

Better to wait until she figures it out or someone else tells her and then you can accept the small increases she will try to get you to pay. Yes, I would tip her at least an extra 20 in the meantime, but not too much since that risks sending the same message that her prices are too low. Call me cynical, but that seems the best solution all around.

You want to do the right thing for her, but at the same time, she should reward you for doing that.

Giving a lady you have seen exactly once unsolicited advice in this area seems very presumptuous.  She's (hopefully) not a child,  don't treat her like one.  Are you willing to take any responsibiliity if your ( certainly generous and well meaning)advice turns out to be incorrect? I sure think (and hope) not.

If she asks, it's totally different.

I will join you there

Figure out she is lowballing and raise them when she has some client base.

Before you wind up on here seeing regular well reviewed providers asking for the reduced rate
just stay with her and tip her as you wish . We all started out less and guys told other guys about us
and once our performance was drawing attention and expenses for rooms kicked in , special wardrobe
and the such thee is no reason for you to encourage her to up her rates when she has no reputation in the
community . Review her that is better than any increase you can decide upon so that she will have  safety net of women to vouch for men . And her review will help the providers know that you are ok to meet. She had no cost other than gas she walked with you to your place. We want to hear from her too who knows you could have  pulled a Jeffrey Dommer. But you sound like a sweet man . Hope my advise has helped you .

Ang

On my way to see her now. Taking a nice gift. Thanks.

Sorry, I just stopped reviewing. I'll try to start again soon