I am relatively new to the hobby but have had a number of dates, generally with good results. But since I am in my early 50's I have always chosen providers who are 40+. I guess it is due to my insecurity that providers in their late 20's and 30's would really not be that interested in a man of my age. I know that all dates are basically "fantasies", but with the older providers I have convinced myself that at least they are not turned off by a 50-something year old man. I'm thinking about trying a younger provider for my next date, but I am still concerned it might not be a good experience. I generally like longer dates-perhaps a shorter 2-hour date might be the best bet. Provider thoughts? Thanks in advance.
I am relatively new to the hobby but have had a number of dates, generally with good results. But since I am in my early 50's I have always chosen providers who are 40+. I guess it is due to my insecurity that providers in their late 20's and 30's would really not be that interested in a man of my age. I know that all dates are basically "fantasies", but with the older providers I have convinced myself that at least they are not turned off by a 50-something year old man. I'm thinking about trying a younger provider for my next date, but I am still concerned it might not be a good experience. I generally like longer dates-perhaps a shorter 2-hour date might be the best bet. Provider thoughts? Thanks in advance.
I don't think that will be an issue with most providers. Generally older men are considered more respectful, more interesting, and more likely to repeat. Treat her well and you won't have a problem.
There are far more women who say "No one under 35" than those who say "No one over 40".
There are many well reviewed providers that are young, hard bodied, and great performers in their 20's and 30's. You are missing out and depriving yourself. Fucking is not rocket science and the young providers perform just as well, if not better. They are more interested in your envelope and that you are clean.
Go for it. Treat yourself. That is why we hobby in the first place.
there are many hot as hell 20 thirty something Ladies Yet at the same time there are quite a few hotties in their 40s that are smokin hot! Some tighter than the average 30yr old sooo don't stereo type. On the note of the OPs post...Go for it! See who you want. Let them know when you make arrangements how old you are if they have no issue with it have a good time. There are plenty of super hotties in their 20s and 30s who would love to play with you.
If she is well reviewed, no matter what her age, you age will not make a difference. Some of us here have at least 10 years on you, and that doesn't stop us. Something about being with a twenty-something lady makes you feel young again.
there are many reasons we as providers choose to do this, and its not always the almighty dollar. It does come into play, but it's not for certain the deciding factor as to who to see. For Some of us age does matter, it matters with me. I see only Gentlemen in which the age group that I would date and I am far from the acception. No its not match.com but we too have preferences as to who we see, some more than others. Its a legitimate question and worth asking when making arrangements to ensure a better time had by both parties.
believe it or not, all 20-something yr old women aren't attracted to 20-something yr old men. in fact i find the very idea of my engaging in sexual activity with a guy my age (29) to be physically repulsive. i have always been exclusively attracted to men at least 10 yrs my senior, and to be honest my preference is around 15-20 yrs my senior. that is because i greatly enjoy the maturity, wisdom, "settled" nature, self-knowledge and life experience which most older men possess. this also translates to fantastic sex!
within the hobby i set my age requirements at 40+...and have received quite a bit of flack for it. i couldn't care less, i like what i like, and i am not in this to be an actress or provide a fantasy. i am here to serve the men who genuinely need the kinship, passion, attentiveness and comfort that i have to offer...men with whom i can develop a natural chemistry. and sorry but that is ONLY possible for me with the older gents. plus, being very subservient and service-oriented by nature, "father figure"/mentor-type relationships come naturally for me, as opposed to the typical modern egalitarian relationships. in other words, i want to spend time with men who can teach me a little something, who make me feel safe and protected in their company, and not one who will be looking to me for direction and guidance because he is in the same place in life mentally as i am (eek!).
so you need not feel any discomfort about seeing a younger provider...chances are you'll meet her ideal preferences anyhow.
It took me until I was in my late 40's before I was the sort of man you described- mature, settled (a great word), self- knowledgeable etc. In fact, it might have even taken me a little longer than that.
The fact that you even value those things in a man at age 29 is amazing to me. You definitely have maturity and self-awareness way beyond your years.
Like Lilli, my "sweet spot" is men 10-25 years older than myself (and always has been) for all the reasons she listed. I don't have "father issues"; I just very much appreciate the life experience, maturity, 'settled' nature of an older man. I consider ambition/success, confidence, charisma, intellect, culture and chivalry quite stimulating....and these qualities are hard to find in "younger" men (though it does happen from time to time).
...you too know where "the good stuff" is to be found. however as you say, there are some (quite few) exceptional 20/early 30-something yr old men who happen to possess many of these qualities, but for some reason it just has never pushed the same buttons for me as when in the presence of an older man. it is the difference between the desire to engage in casual but stimulating conversation, and the desire to do the same as i melt and purr against his chest. or put even more simply, with a confident, worldly, self-aware and intelligent older man my mind and body unconsciously scream, "mmmm SEX," and with a man closer to my own age, no matter his qualities, they simply do not.
I have always dated (even in my teens) guys that were older than me, and it seems the older I got the older they got! Heh...
I dated a few clients before that were win their 40s and 50s when I was in my very early 20s, and it was simply because we clicked so well! We liked the same movies, music, activities; and they were always past the game-playing stage.
And my work dates with older men were so much fun; they were always so sweet and such gentlemen! They never stayed too long, asked for extra things (like underwear, pictures, etc.), or tried to take advantage of our time together in any way. We always had a perfect time!
Don't feel awkward, hun! I'm sure there are many lovely ladies that can prove your theory wrong!
I realize that you'd like to hear from the escorts themselves, but I just can't help but poit out that I'm in my 60's and routinely see ladies in their 20's. I'm not handsome or anything special - I juust treat each lady with respect and act as a gentleman. Never been a problem, no lady has ever even asked my age when making the initial appointment, they all keep coming back, and age differential just seems never to have been a problem at all.
Get over your insecurity and keep your focus on the fact that this is not personal - it's basically just a business transaction.
50 - 60 is young. I expect to be still attractive to 19-21 year old providers when Im 65. A few weeks ago, a 21 year old provider mad sure I pop thrice. I'm seeing her Sunday. LOL.
Are you sure that you don't have some hangup yourself about seeing young women?
I'm no psychiatrist, but I think it is called projection when a person expresses concerns about what others think instead of stating what they feel about something, especially about a dicey subject as sex between young and old.
You may have hit on something mrfisher. Maybe it is because I have a 30-year old daughter that being with a younger woman makes me feel a little uncomfortable. I'll have to think about that.
My advice to you is do not let a lady being in her 20s stop you from contacting her because you think it is not a good idea.Do not be insecure I am 24 and I have no problem whatsoever with older gentleman.As long as he is respectful has the required info provided to set up an appointment there is no problem.I have seen gentleman in their 20s and gentleman who are in their 50s or 60s I have found that I had enjoyable escapades with both age ranges.I genuinely find myself attracted to men that are older than me they are well-versed in conversations,dress,and passion.Do not psych your self out on the age issue for most ladies age of an older gentleman is not a issue find a hot lady in her 20s contact her and have a wonderful time get the age thing out of your head.
Jaydalee knows. She's seen some friends of mine, and I can't wait to see her myself.
I got about 20 years on her, but when we talk she's as cool, funny and confident as any lady I know my own age.
Like mrfisher said, also. Don't put too much into it and over analyze the hell out of it. They're just ladies. WTF difference does it make how old they, or you, are.
I've ran the gamut from 18 to 43. No real preference in age. Just the way we treat each other, IMHO.
I'm 53 and I'm getting my brains fucked out pretty regularly by 24 year old. Is she turned off? Well, if she is she coulda' fooled me! Now, she's not my ATF, my ATF and most of my favs are over 30 but none of them are over 40 and none of them have any problem showing me a great time.
By all means test the waters. I think you will be pleasantly surprised.
most providers prefer the company of a "silver fox". It's the comfort of knowing we will be more appreciated more than, say a 20 - 30 something. I know a lot of providers who will ONLY see men over 35 at least so, really don't sweat it doll.
she was a few months shy of 19 and I had just turned 59. I have seen them from 18 to 47. Love all ages, and as far as I could tell, they enjoyed me as well. Never been turned down because I'm too old, and I'm just 2 months shy of 64 now. Relax, see who you want, and don't give a shit about their age. From what I have read, a large percentage of providers prefer their clients be over 35 or 40, regardless of their age.
i could go on at length, rationalizing my wild desire for older men (in particular, 40+; my first boyfriend was 49 to my 18), if i felt so inclined... their maturity, experience, their genuine interest in getting a glimpse inside of my soul ... what a powerfully sexy feeling it is when someone so much more experienced than i am tells me i have given them one of the best times of their life, or elicited a response that no one else had been able to prior ... how much fun it is to turn heads and cause questioning eyebrows to raise when we're in public together and hold hands or share a quick kiss... the way their presence makes me feel safe and small and tractable ...
but, all that stuff aside; i just find an age gap really, really sexy. i very distinctly remember reading Lolita around the age of 15 and, as creepy as certain parts of the story are, reading about Lolita & Humbert made me feel awfully funny. there is just something about it that really makes my motor purr. even in the civilian world, i most often find myself attracted to gentlemen who are 40+.
When I was 23 years old, I dated a man who was 49 at the time. Get over the idea that being in your 50's means younger women will no longer find you attractive because it just ain't so. Sure, some women may prefer men closer to their age, but certainly not all. From the time I was in my teens, I've tended to be attracted older men, and my preferences seem to continue adjusting upward as I grow older myself. My sweetie is 54, and he is quite simply, the sexiest man alive. In my (humble) opinion of course.
Furthermore, specifically with regard to this hobby, if you are in your 50's, you are probably on the younger end of the average age of most hobbyists. If a lady is truly not interested in seeing gents in their 50's and up, she's chosen the wrong profession.
So basically, if a younger lady interests you, go see her, and don't worry about whether your age is a turn off or not. If she has great reviews, that is all that matters. There is a stereotype that younger providers are more likely to be non-GFE, be flakes, etc. But, I really do believe it is just a stereotype. This is not the first time a topic like this has come up, and being a numbers geek, I did some research comparing average performance scores of providers listed in their 20's versus provider over age 30. I found that providers over 30 had a higher overall performance average than ladies in their 20's, but the higher average was very slight, not enough to be statistically significant.
So, do your research and see whoever catches your eye. You are only young once
Some what off topic. I am starting to shy away from young providers. I tend to look for late twenties and up. The young ones are more in to the money side and think we are lucky to be with them. Not all of them are that way it is just a trend I am sensing. I am older and haven't found it to be a problem. Some of the young ones like the experience factor. We know what we are doing. A lot of younger men are still trying to be porn stars and don't get the big picture. So go for the young ones if you want. I do love the smooth skin of a young woman.
Thanks to everyone, but especially the ladies, for the encouragement and advice. After reading all these responses, I guess I'll eat my wheaties and call a younger woman.
prefer a lady (age makes no difference to me) who enjoys the foreplay as much as the main event. If her performance is outstanding, based on reading her reviews), then she is on my radar for a date.
I have been with some very talented ladies in their early 20's, but most of my better experiences have been with older providers, meaning 30-45, I am in my early 60's.
I like the younger ladies. I just have my preferences as do lots of ladies by looking at their websites. Some say they do not see men under a certain age or some specify race preferences. I have yet to have been asked my age during the appointment setting. The younger ones i have seen have been very nice to me at 50. I have been tempted to hit some of the barely legal ones but so far have held off. Based on what I have experienced as long as your polite, clean and respectfull age does not seam to be a problem. I have read some reviews of a local provider that give an impression that she has an age bias. But she does not post any restrictions so it might be a YMMV. My vote go fot and post reviews for the rest of us good or bad.
... and I've seen many a 20 y/o who have been compassionate to my situation!!! So, check your insecurities @ the door & get in the game!!!! You will not be disappointed!!!!
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I am relatively new to the hobby but have had a number of dates, generally with good results. But since I am in my early 50's I have always chosen providers who are 40+. I guess it is due to my insecurity that providers in their late 20's and 30's would really not be that interested in a man of my age. I know that all dates are basically "fantasies", but with the older providers I have convinced myself that at least they are not turned off by a 50-something year old man. I'm thinking about trying a younger provider for my next date, but I am still concerned it might not be a good experience. I generally like longer dates-perhaps a shorter 2-hour date might be the best bet. Provider thoughts? Thanks in advance.
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however as you say, there are some (quite few) exceptional 20/early 30-something yr old men who happen to possess many of these qualities, but for some reason it just has never pushed the same buttons for me as when in the presence of an older man. it is the difference between the desire to engage in casual but stimulating conversation, and the desire to do the same as i melt and purr against his chest. or put even more simply, with a confident, worldly, self-aware and intelligent older man my mind and body unconsciously scream, "mmmm SEX," and with a man closer to my own age, no matter his qualities, they simply do not.
