Up till now, I have only done mostly 1 hour and 90 minute dates, with one 2 hour date. I assume the dynamic/mood is so much more fun and different spending the entire night with the lady. Will the gents and ladies give me pointers? Any helpful hints to make me and the lady enjoy our time together? Gents what do you like most about them? Anything I should be wary of or concerned about? Ladies, what do you like/dislike about them? Thank you all in advance!

and any other entertainment costs like movies or plays, and transportation to and fro.

As for the hotel, that depends.  If your typical date is an incall, then the cost is still with her.  If you normally have her come to you, then it's your treat.

Here's another tip about meals:  Eat lightly.  Fish is my main go to, and don't even think about Tex-Mex.

Stick with someone you have met and connect with. An overnight with a new gal you don't connect with could be torture for both of you.

If you see photos on my website, it is apparent that I don't skip meals. Lol.  

Iz this troo?

What is the etiquette on meals Courtney? Does the guy usually pay for all that too? And what about the hotel? Is this usually done on outcall or incall basis? And btw, I dont think you are fat at all! Curvy is very sexy and your pics look awesome! Thansk for your response!

I've said that I need to eat... and they stare at me with big eyes and say "What, again???"

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or you might have this on your hands....

Well that's not actually totally true. I have done them on a few occasions, but I didn't pay for them.  

Power bars and protein shakes make my stomach hurt. Bad. I can't do that meal supplement stuff. I am stuck crawling on all fours for hours - there are certain ingredients I'm allergic to.

Girl: "Feed me!"
Excited boy: "Oh my god, a talking plant!"

sounds like we share an appetite!  

Totally agree with you! Much better to be awake and enjoying your ladies company! Would have to also agree nothing like falling to sleep together only to wake up to next to her, especially if she likes to snuggle up close.
 

On another note, what's even worse is a weekend where you only get to have sex once. I told My last weekend guy that if he wanted a weekend, he couldn't deprive me in the 'sack' either. And he didn't. I think I waddled for two days after that lol!

Does the clock stop when she dozes off? LOL. I don't think so but maybe with your ATF it does? Guys can work out many deals so it wouldn't shock me.

What do you mean dont pay the MSRP? Are you saying the rate listed is not her true rate? Or are you saying something different? Thanks for your response.

He'll kick a few tires to see it it'll drives right and he may be too cool for school but he's a knuckledragger that doesn't get it. I've done a few overnighters and it isn't even close to what JD has laid out, reading?? Really?? Watch TV??Dude you must be one boring date. Yeah I know they flock to you for an overnighter because they're probably homeless and you're the only one who will put a roof over them, and you probably low balled them too, huh? So gang, just ignore this ancient man.
Plus no one cares how Jack plays...

You know, if the overnight rate is say 2.5 grand, offer half that, it starts off things on the right foot   Seriously, some of the guys, like Jack, negotiate the rates they pay and then there some other guys like me who will not do it.   Like Jack said, everyone can hobby their own way.    

You've told us guys who like overnights are stupid. And that you have this game down pat. We get it we get it. Why do you care so much how I spend my 'jack?' Come on. Let it go. I don't give a crap how you spend yours.

For that kinda nut, many, many women will be agreeable to a lower offer. You can make the girls week with an overnighter so you think she is really going to walk if you offered her $2500 on a $3000 tab? Not likely.

I have no dog in this hunt and what he posted was in response to someone soliciting advice. He also said he didn't care how other people spend their money and said people hobby differently than him. While his message might be repetitive, that doesn't mean someone who is new might not find his advice helpful.  

But I really liked your idea about breaking the date up into two parts, one at night and then see her the next morning. That actually makes a lot of sense. I notice there is quite a difference in price between an over night rate a lady will offer and a 4 hours and a 2 hour date added up. I think that is the option I will pursue for now. I see there is some downside to overnights I wasnt expecting. Thanks for your ideas and all your responses.

Playing blocker for Dunphy on this thread...but I don't think he meant it literally. TV..reading...etc...it's called hyperbole. His point is...are you sure you want to spend time with her doing mundane things AND paying for that? Maybe the answer is "sure, why not". But it worth thinking about. That 'overnight' is not going to be 6 x a two hour date in terms of it's energy or activity level. Is that drop off going to bum you out? When you start doing the math and it's an electric bill and a car payment while she's texting tomorrow's appointment? Maybe he won't care. Or maybe he never thought of that...

Priceless.  

And I don't disagree with several of his points. But my God, it's at least weekly this crusade of his. And even you the newbie has to admit you've heard it all before. It's nauseating.  

Things that have surprised me over time with overnights...
They like to chit chat while you're putting on make up, when you're taking a shower, when you're eating, text when you're running out to buy coffee, they like to be petted while you're walking together, complimented, listened to, ask questions, teach, answer questions, show you things, randomly poke your butt

That must be

I TOTALLY get it...and nothing would surprise me as far as what guys want and are willing to pay for.. But Dunphy is just offering HIS own advice...because it was solicited. And lo and behold...the guy gravitates to his thoughts. Isn't that what these forums are for???? It worked! The system worked!! Yeaa!!

Is that to plan this so called overnight or half night/ half morning thing you'll have to fined someone you're comfortable with, right? Someone that you maybe have seen before and will probably see her again but who'll probably won't see you again after you pull this off.So put yourself in the young lady's place, you have fun with her at night, then after all that she'll want to drag her ass back to you in the morning to continue with this party. Then she'll start to add the numbers and come up with her conclusion, that Hawkeye is one cheap fuck, almost like JD. Now you may get a "I'm not feeling well text" in the morning or "Hey I just got in from an long appointment after I saw you, and I ain't feeling you now"
Me personally, I don't think you're ready for an overnight or night/morning thing..way too green and not polished enough. Stick to 2 hours or 4 ....
So weed hopper, go off into the sunset and I hope that you have really learned somethng here.
Shit I got to get well soon, this cold is knocking the shit out of me....where's my meds?

Oh man...so many people are literalists. I won't debate the semantics of the phrase I used.

Oh thats right I dont! I asked for responses and got them. I didnt agree with all of them and some were very enlightening. I don't like JackDunphy's advice on bargaining but I did with breaking the date up into two. Is that allowed here hypergollygee??? And the last time I checked, i didnt ask you if you thought I was ready for anything, now did I Mr. Know Nothing? I'll determine when I am ready, thank you very much. Now, please go find your meds. All of them.

I'm giving it to you anyway. To create a post to ask is "Newbie" but it's cool, hence the green part. You'll know an overnighter with it hits you, and if you're ready.....you don't ask

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Needless to say, the date didn't go quite as planned lol. Oops

I hear those duck dynasty guys are loaded. Chaching!!! Lol

Don't forget that this should be FUN!!!

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Over the years I did many overnighters, but only when on the road.  My suggestions:  
   
 1) Do it with someone you have met before.  
 2) Do it out of town so you can enjoy dinner and time out on the town -- that is what makes it fun!  
 3) Pick a very nice hotel, and preferably a suite if you can afford it.  
   
Years ago a British lady I had previously met for a 4 hour dinner date suggested to me that instead of an overnight that we consider it as 2 dates.  We arranged for a long dinner/dessert AND then 2 more hours in the morning.  (She LOVES to sleep and she HATES to be woken in the AM, while I do not need much sleep.)  I arranged for a 2-room suite at a great old hotel.  She came up to the room, we played a bit before dinner, we then enjoyed a relaxing dinner which included heavy flirting and under-table fun. We hung out a bit in London, and had a wonderful 2/3 hours back in the room.  I kissed her goodnight and returned to my bedroom.  She showered and slept while I read and did some work before going to bed. The original plan was for me to wake her up in the morning... but she surprised me instead.  The 2 hours in the morning turned into a room service breakfast in the room and then a wonderful lunch in Mayfair.  
   
 Over the years I have done variations on this a few more times, with her and other willing ladies.  Frankly, she and I later met for a normal overnight also... and it was not as fun for either of us because neither of us slept nearly as well.  (This was when I learned how much she REALLY loves and NEEDS sleep!  I also learned that she is also a LOT more fun when she get at least 6 hours!!!  LOL)  
   
 Enjoy the fun!

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All of a sudden she's Dr this and Judge that at 1 am

What if she has a big rack, is her rack rate ok then? And which came first, big racks or rack rates and are you 100% it isn't pee? Do you like to pee on big racks or squirt on them?

Can you sue if you pay rack rates with a deposit and you show up and the rack is just medium?

I love overnights (indeed, actually multi-day trips) with my ATF. Have done several times and more in the works. What I love about it is we can spend so much time together doing all sorts of things and connect on a very personal level. Of course, it's great fun to have lots of time for unhurried intimacy. You have the luxury to be playful and try different things. It's also fun to dress up and go out to a nice dinner, or go shopping together with her on your arm, or go to a museum, or a play, or to cuddle on the sofa and watch TV, or to sit in a bar and whisper together. And yes, get plenty of sleep - you'll both be better off. Also, don't totally smother her; give her a chance to have a little 'alone" time -- she's trying to please you, and can use a breather I suspect. Treat her with the respect she deserves, like the lady she is. I also agree with those who say, be sure it's a lady you know really well and are very comfortable with, being yourself.  Of all the wonderful women I've had the privilege of seeing, my favorite is the only one I'd even consider spending an overnight with. And when I do, it's always incredibly special.

I don't know JD to be a lightweight? Quite the opposite actually.

I have done three, one with one provider, and two nights with another. I had spend 7 hours with the first one (our first time together) and then we did a two night overnight. This was almost 4 years ago and the memories linger. The other woman I did my first overnight with after only one previous one hour visit. It went very well. We did another overnight 4 months later and had another wonderful time.  

What you are proposing doing is completely reasonable IMO.  If any lady is crazy enough to construe this (6 hours of paid time over two days) as "cheap" (and I dare say most wouldn't) that reveals more about them then you.

Actually, sometimes it can be wonderful to watch a beautiful woman sleep...especially after great sex!

Sounds like a well planned , great time.