I'm a newbie to this hobby. So far nothing but positives, but lurking in my brain are a couple scenarios. I don't see anyone in my hometown, only on business travel, so running into wife/friends/etc isn't a concern (yet -- Cherry of VA's photos and reviews make it awfully tempting). What would you do if:
1. The provider turned out to be your niece earning college money?
2. On a dinner date a coworker sees you and comes over and starts a conversation. How do you introduce the 20-something "10" who wouldn't be caught dead with a 40 + geezer like me if not for $? (Refering to neusosis #1 I guess I could say she was my niece! LOL)
1. Say that I heard she was doing this and I wanted to find out for myself. Tell her I think it is ok and I won't tell anyone about it, but if she needs money or another job to give me a call. Then leave immediately.
2. Say that this is the daughter of a colleague you know from another city. You are considering her for an administrative position.
1. See Frank W.'s answer
2. Don't make dinner date's in your hometown. If you would like to have an intimate dinner with a provider, order room service!
Redneck version would be:
1. Provider turned out to be your niece--
"What do you mean you are going to not going to give me a family discount??"
2. Dinner date
Always go to family reunions to pick up your women-better food and better women
If she isn't good enough for the family, then who would want her? (LOL - or something to that effect.)