My 18 yo daughter is heading off for her freshman year at college. I'm writing her a letter of encouragement, support and advice which I'll give her when it's time to say goodbye in a few days. One topic which she and I have never openly discussed is boyfriends/sex (any mention of the opposite sex is greeted with rolling of the eyes and a reproachful "Dad!"). She's very cute, smart, mature and has plenty of male and female friends. She also has a huge heart, full of kindness. I recognize that between her mother, school and friends she knows, in a technical sense, what's going on. However, she's never had a boyfriend and I'm 99.9% sure she's never engaged in any serious intimate behavior. She's always been a late bloomer and her focus has been school (very solid grades) and her social life (she's popular). The essence of what I'd like to impart to her regarding boyfriends and sex is that SO relationships and physical intimacy can be wonderful and not something to be intimidated about or fearful of or avoided due to our society's less than healthy and frequently contradictory sexual attitudes. My wish for her is to have a healthy, open-minded and enjoyable relationships and a like minded sex life without hang ups. I want her to know that physical intimacy is an important aspect of those special relationships to be thoroughly enjoyed equally and without shame.
We have a great relationship but how can I best avoid creeping her out or alienating her?
Ladies, how welcome would your Dad's thoughts and feelings have been to you on this subject?
Should I write about this topic or avoid it altogether?
I'd appreciate hearing primarily from the ladies here with constructive advice, suggestions or comments.
For those who intend to flame or turn the discussion into something else beyond my best intentions please move on to another thread. I will not engage and urge others to do the same. TIA.
remained a virgin until she married.
My oldest didn't.
My wish for both, was no pre-marital sex.
My oldest was wise enough not to get pregnant.
They both are married with children now and i'm very proud of them both.
The bottom line is, I love them no matter what.
They both have a strong faith in God and their lives are the better for it.
Good Luck with your daughter.
Does anybody else think this is a little creepy coming from a hobbyist and posted on this board? (Was your daughter a virgin when she married or is that like 'she had three shuddering o's before I stuck it in" ?
My oldest didn't.
My wish for both, was no pre-marital sex.
My oldest was wise enough not to get pregnant.
They both are married with children now and i'm very proud of them both.
The bottom line is, I love them no matter what.
They both have a strong faith in God and their lives are the better for it.
Good Luck with your daughter.
Some of these "posters" leave a pile on the floor, and expect us not to realize when we have stepped in it.
I think this is wierd
My oldest didn't.
My wish for both, was no pre-marital sex.
My oldest was wise enough not to get pregnant.
They both are married with children now and i'm very proud of them both.
The bottom line is, I love them no matter what.
They both have a strong faith in God and their lives are the better for it.
Good Luck with your daughter.
Posting about you daughters on fuck board seeking advise as to what to do.
Has this become Dear Abby advise board now?
Creepy!!!!
Where else to find unedited advice about sex and behavior than from a bunch of people , (ladies who sell it and guys who buy it). You can't get more real than this. And it is sex related.
Maybe if he had added "suck my cock" or "gag her with an 9 inch tool" at the end might have made his post a little more palatable for you.
Nah, not all guys here want to hear about that bs over and over ad barf either. It might actually disturb some of these guys to have to think about THEIR daughters in that context...turn of tables if you will, which is why I made the comment regarding "what if his daughter was behind the door of his next appt." You see, we are all dirty whores, and there is just no possible way any man's daughter would ever be that filthy lol. I don't like to think about my daughter being a hooker, so I can imagine what a guy feels knowing what naughty things he pays us to do.
"disturb some of the guys".....INDEED.
Your not a "dirty whore" no more than one of my girls would be, if they were providers.
Sure it's gonna hurt us (Dad's)....it's the way we are wired.
I wouldn't want to know about it....that's for sure.
You sound like a Great Dad. At this point you've done all you can. Giving her Sound Advice and hoping she makes the Correct Decisions regarding the opposite Sex. (or same Sex if that's her preference) She is going to have a few bumps in the Road, nothing you can do about that. Experience is a great Teacher in certain aspects in Life, Especially when it comes to People. All of us and including yourself had to learn about the opposite Sex through Real Life Situations both Good and Bad.
To you , daddys little girl ! What would I say if I had a daughter ? That she has a gift , her first time , and she should either keep it , or share it with someone special to her . When ? Not when he wants it , but when she feels the moment is right ! Will her heart get broken ? Probably , but you'll want her to know that you'll be there for her . That college is her time to grow in and for many aspects of her life and sex may be a part of it . But don't get caught up in what others are doing . She should focus on her studies and just like math , or history or science . Take relationships one step at a time . That if she does decide to have sex , have safe sex . Ask her if she has ever seen condoms , and how to properly use them . Also tell her you decided to get a gun permit and a pitbull. Drinking is your main concern and drug use on college campuses. Guy , don't be a stranger when she's away and good luck. But it sounds like you did a good job so far. Good luck . Oh , which college again ? Only kidding !
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I hope I will be. Try the best I can . xoxoxo.
"normally" to you, I would offer the following. My daughter and I do not now talk (she is 16) and has had sex (nothing like taking your 16 yr old to the emergency room for a sports injury and having the nurse ask, "have you had sexual relations?" and from that point on being embarassed beyond belief). I also am now convinced that her mother has taught her poorly with regards to her interactions with men. Her mom uses men up, and then discards them and that is what my daughter has been taught, and I fear will forever doom her to bad relationships...
But what to tell your daughter. I would tell her what your propose, I would tell her to accept people (and men are people too) as they are and encourage her to tell her young gentlemen callers to be themselves when they are with her. Easy to fake it on a 3-4 hour date (just watch the bachelor!), but hard 1-2 years into a marriage to keep up the facade.
Sex, when you are older than 18 or so in my opinion is ok and even healthy, as long as you use precautions and I would also offer private. Seems you covered that. So here is what is new...
Almost every woman I know who has "issues" with men and sometimes life, those issues were initiated by her relationship (or lack thereof) with their dad. So I would offer to your daughter
Dear daughter, I love you from the bottom of my heart. I wish you success, but more importantly, I wish you happiness. I know that could I make all the hurt the world my visit upon you go away, I would... Alas, I cannot. But what I can do is I can be now be your friend, I can listen and even upon occasion offer you advice what has been gained by XX years on this planet.
You may find me less than perfect, but remember, we all learn more from our mistakes than our successes, so please use me as a resource, I can help. And, I care. You will have friends, telling you that they care, or what does your dad know, he is only a silly old man, but know this, from the moment you came into my life, I have loved you unconditionally and would sacrifice myself for your well being.
When you have a problem, even though you are YYY miles away, contact me, at least I can offer an ear, and maybe even help you work through any problems you may encounter. So, in the coming weeks, months and years, know I will be here for you and no matter the problem, please share it with me, as I will glady try to ease your burdens.
Love Da
Actually you have done your job! From your description she sounds as she is exactly where she should be
at her age. I learned male mannerism from my father. Watching him treat my step-mom lovingly and
not being a ass towards my mom ( they never married). There's not much more you need to do.
You have spent time with her and provided her with love and showed her what protection of a man feels like who isn't
interested in you in a sexual way. That's a fathers job and definitely what I learned from mine.
She will make her own choices and obviously mistakes but I think you can be confident that if she really needs an ear she will turn to you! You can rest very easy!!
With Pauly Shaw and Carla Cugino ? That was funny ! College ? Its the spring break crap that messes up the kids. And other girls , all that co ed shit !
Chickens ? Origional or Extra Crispy ! "Son in law" big guy
While she is only 15, I sent this to her.
Hey MY DAUGHTER NAME,
You are becoming a young women and I love watching you grow and mature each year. There are many life lessons that I hope I get to share with you and give you a foundation to make good choices.
Many times in your life, I will not be around when you have to make decisions and choices that will have a lasting impact on your future. I am thankful that you are strong and cannot be easily swayed by what others think. That is a gift which will serve you well when you have to make those choices.
I was reading something the other day that made me think of you and it talked about the things that I should share with you.
Although these are not all of my words, this is from my heart and I hope that you can hear what I am trying to share with you as your Father.
*You are Valuable: You are SO important to me and I value you. The rules and boundaries I place on you are because I love you, not because I want to take away your enjoyment. I hope that you one day feel safety and comfort within those restrictions, even when you don’t like them.
*Your Worth Isn’t Based on Your Appearance: You are beautiful no matter what and your beauty is not contingent on new shoes, short shorts, lipstick or the opinions of others or yourself. Your appearance has little to do with true beauty and your worth isn’t wrapped up in looking good or being perfect.
*You Don’t Need a Guy: Boys don’t complete you. Chasing or enticing or wanting a guy doesn’t make you attractive and it doesn’t make you a woman. The only guy you need in your life for a long time is me until YOU decide if you would like to get married.
*You Are Amazing: I should tell you more, but I am proud of you. YOU are enough. After all, out of all the girls in the world, I wonder why I was given such a beautiful strong daughter. You are smart, hardworking and caring, not to mention a wonderful baker :0)
*You Don’t Have to Believe What You Hear: There will be many times when there will be mean girls/people in your life, peers with pressure and adults in your world who will let you down and have low expectations of you. Don’t listen to them. Seek out advice from me. You know what is right or wrong and I know you have the strength to withstand those challenges.
*You Have Me: No matter what happens in life, the ups and downs that will come your way, the losses and gains, I AM here for you no matter what. I know that I am hard to approach sometimes and I need to get better with that but I pray that you feel like you can talk to me ANYTIME about ANYTHING.
*You Can Change the World: I know it sounds silly but you can dream big and can accomplish whatever you wish. You can do so with us by your side and you don’t need a boy or society to make it happen. You can be anything you want to be. I will always be here to help, provide guidance and stand back to watch you blossom into the type of woman you want to be.
I LOVE YOU!!!
Da
I especially liked how you left her the responsibility to make her own decisions, while encouraging her to make the right ones.
you have already instilled your daughter with the values necessary for her to make her own sound judgments...I'd simply let her know that there is no problem to big or to private that she can not turn to you for help...and I'd let her mother handle the specifics on boys.
You're a freaking hobbyist dude, so don't project your open sexual desires onto someone you love, or you just might regret it. What would you think if you opened the door to your next provider and it was your daughter? How YOU feel about sex and cheating makes no difference in her life...it is HER LIFE, so let her know you love her, and that you care...that is all she needs to hear from a father who is a hobbyist. I would never tell my daughter I think being a whore is ok just because I happen to be doing it.
I guess we hobbyist are the dregs of society...now I feel like shit...London, you available this afternoon for some cheering up??? ROFLMAO
Oh shut up...no one said that lol. What we do is rarely the same things we want for our children, and having a dad basically tell me to go out and fk when I get the urge and that there is "nothing wrong with it" would have me questioning what type of drugs he was using. My father til this day would NEVER tell me that sex (paid or not) with guys I hardly know, is a good idea...especially college sex when you're fking a guy in the bathroom at some frat party, piss ass drunk.
Not that there's anything wrong with that...lol...
Or even suggest that she go into sex work, or engage in meaningless sexual hook-ups
He said:
"My wish for her is to have a healthy, open-minded and enjoyable relationships and a like minded sex life without hang ups. I want her to know that physical intimacy is an important aspect of those special relationships to be thoroughly enjoyed equally and without shame"
+1 , I wish some others and I'm NOT talking about London took more time to read what the guy wrote .
Or even suggest that she go into sex work, or engage in meaningless sexual hook-ups
He said:
"My wish for her is to have a healthy, open-minded and enjoyable relationships and a like minded sex life without hang ups. I want her to know that physical intimacy is an important aspect of those special relationships to be thoroughly enjoyed equally and without shame"
I took it to mean he does not give a fk how many guys she sleeps with, as "Intimacy is good and should be enjoyed free from the stigma we put on it." That connotes having sex with whomever. I mean, hey...it's HIS child lol, so what do I care, but that would not be the advice I would give my child...ever. I would not tell her she should marry to have sex, but I would never suggest enjoying random sex with college guys "just because."
I think this is an especially important message for young women.
But, my personal perspective aside, the OP never said he was going to tell his daughter to go enjoy random sex with college guys "just because.
Ok, fine. If we want to call random sex with drunken frat boys "intimacy" well alright then. His OP just sounded like he was suggesting to his own daughter, that when she felt the urge to go for it, regardless of the consequences. I did NOT hear him say anything about pregnancy and STDs which we all know can be a result of so called "intimacy." Buy a puppy!
This is NOT about being or becoming a provider, this is about so much more than that. Its not even about being a slut - and yes Virginia working as an escort does not mean you are a slut.
Here are my issues with some women, and some of this equates to slut
dishonesty,
inflicting pain on another human with no reason
irresponsibility
failure to keep ones word
Somehow I think you exhibit none of that, but those are the things that I deal with my daughter - and that saddens me, as I think this does not bode well for her. She learned all these characteristics from her mom and grandmother. Seems that the OP and his daughter do not have these issues.
Friends who went through the same thing as you . Its a bad situation . You know the deal , just do what you can . Hey , good luck .
Here are my issues with some women, and some of this equates to slut
dishonesty,
inflicting pain on another human with no reason
irresponsibility
failure to keep ones word
Somehow I think you exhibit none of that, but those are the things that I deal with my daughter - and that saddens me, as I think this does not bode well for her. She learned all these characteristics from her mom and grandmother. Seems that the OP and his daughter do not have these issues.
I typically like many of your posts BSD, but this one induces a cluster headache. Sorry.
1.) "Dishonesty, inflicting pain on another human with no reason, irresponsibility, and failure to keep one's word" could describe the behavior of 80% of hobbyists who are married or otherwise engaged, but yet are regularily screwing escorts, no?
2.) How are we STILL falling prey to the old canard of "girls are sluts and should wait until marriage, but boys are studs and should sow their wild oats," EVEN ON A FUCKBOARD?
3.) All of the strippers and escorts y'all are fucking have "dads" TOO. We didn't just magically hatch out big whore eggs, fully grown already equiped with spray tans or fake boobs... like some of you seem to like to imagine!
4.) The tables could very easily be turned- the judgemental attitude you display reguarding your daughter's attitudes about relationships/sex could become a double-edged sword, back at you and yours...
I'm not intending this as an attack on you specifically, but more of a commentary on some of the attitudes expressed in this thread in general!
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I DO believe that what makes on a slut (or bastard as the case may be) is "Dishonesty, inflicting pain on another human with no reason, irresponsibility, and failure to keep one's word" - but know, I'm divorced - as such got no issues with seeing a prostitute, but to be honest, in looking back on my marriage, I empathize with those who do see escorts while in a horrible marriage. don't condone it, just recognize that the potential exists for driving one to it - either male OR female.
"girls are sluts and should wait until marriage, but boys are studs and should sow their wild oats," In a perfect world, I SHOULD be able to tell my daughter and son, sex is fun, here is a list of the down potential and how to avoid the pitfalls, but other than that, explore - because only by experiencing sex will you understand that true long lasting relationships are about more than sex, for while that is one part of the relationship and an important part, it is NOT the only part. but know what, this is not the perfect world, and even in today's enlightened society, gals who sleep around - are still judged - don't like it, and that is not how I view it, but that is how society as a whole functions. I want her to not have a reputation as that is not good.
And yes, escorts, strippers, nurses, teachers etc. all have dads. Well aware of that. Had one young lass over, she was very health conscious, insisted on fish for dinner, with veggies etc. I prepared and during dinner, her dad called. Really, really, really was a buzz kill. Well aware. I am also well aware that for some ladies, having daddy around was not such a great thing - drunk and beat her, raped her, killed her. yea, tell me about it.
Finally, coming back to me. Her mom, since her second divorce, has "entertained" a dude a week (different dude, every week) - in front of my daughter. my kids, since our divorce, have only met women who I have known for 5 or more years, and indeed, my ex hired two of them to be nannys for her two younger kids.
But hey, this is just a discussion
"Reputation?" I didn't realize we were still in the 1950's...
Maybe your ex would have had the PRIVACY to entertain her "paramours" if you had had yours kids over to YOUR place more... Just saying.
I'm sorry, but the double standard is staggering and confounding... I'm sure I'm not the only woman here who is reading this and cringing... Blah.
There is the same mentality as outside. I can't agree with you more HWAHOTF.
your daughter has learned about the characteristics of being a slut from her mother and grandmother.
Putting aside the absurdity of talking about sluts on a fuck board (or labeling women "sluts" to begin with), your issues with some women (and some of this equates to sluts) are dishonesty, inflicting pain on another human with no reason, irresponsibility, failure to keep ones word.
You lament in a post below that your ex is fucking other guys monthly.....etc....
At the same time, you're out fucking every women you can, harboring the attitude above about women, and you believe that what 'everyone else' is doing around your daughter does not bode well for her?
I think I caught HWAHOTF's cluster headache.
However I would still make an attempt to instill traditional values .........realizing, of course, that they are now considered misogynistic. Sex belongs in marriage
I did welcome this discussion from both my parents so I got Mom and Dad's POV.
If you have a good as relationship as you have mentioned I don;t think you'll have any issues. Just speak from your heart and a place of love and be logical and not one of those Dad's that is eager for the son to get sexual experience but more open and knowing that your beautiful daughter is a sexual being and is entitled to as much concern and care as a son would be.
College is a sexfest and she needs to choose wisely. Urge her to do what she feels comfortable with and not to be pressured into shit she does not want to do. Let her know to be very careful at parties (drinks get drugged more often than people realize). Talk to her about self responsibility as far as drinking and parties (out of control drunk girls are more likely to get unwanted sexual advances).
Above all she is entitled to a satisfying sex life and she should be enjoying sex not merely dealing with it.
Pressure to be a woman , drinking , drug use , its ridiculous ! And very few role models for young girls !!!!!! Its bad . Every day on TV , kardasian , lohan , they sicken me !
If you have a good as relationship as you have mentioned I don;t think you'll have any issues. Just speak from your heart and a place of love and be logical and not one of those Dad's that is eager for the son to get sexual experience but more open and knowing that your beautiful daughter is a sexual being and is entitled to as much concern and care as a son would be.
College is a sexfest and she needs to choose wisely. Urge her to do what she feels comfortable with and not to be pressured into shit she does not want to do. Let her know to be very careful at parties (drinks get drugged more often than people realize). Talk to her about self responsibility as far as drinking and parties (out of control drunk girls are more likely to get unwanted sexual advances).
Above all she is entitled to a satisfying sex life and she should be enjoying sex not merely dealing with it.
Tell her too "Live it up now" because there will be little left of an economy, society, or a livable climate in 20 years thanks to their unwavering avarice. Then after she is 20 years older the incoming generation(s) will look for an ice-flow for her and her peers to be put on and then set a-drift.
War, cancer, alcoholism and texting while driving are just morally accepted forms of population control in America.
Its absolutely creepy.
Plus her sex life is none of your business
You seem way to interested in who's banging your kid.
Just yucky
Her sex life is none of his biz??
If he cares about her, it is!!
Plus her sex life is none of your business
You seem way to interested in who's banging your kid.
Just yucky
who do you think has to pick up the pieces?! Who?
can't be with someone that young, was approached by a 20 yr old stripper this past weekend (whaaaa, ya trailing me???) she was like glue, cause she wanted me to buy her drinks!!! that way she could drink, but as we talked, I found myself asking her if she would be interested in meeting my son... as she is thinking of transfering to his University!!! Just no end to Bizzaros bizzare world.
I agree 100 %
Thank you!! Who comes to a fk board and asks for advice about sexual conversations with his kid? A hobbyist bwahahah. Geez! I have a 6 year old, and I would hope you people would shoot me dead if I come back in 12 years and ask about something like this. As if you give a fk what I talk to my daughter about.
Damn, your right.
Unless she is 18 and hot . If you two are doing mother daughter I'll pay $5000 now!
I think it is perfectly reasonable to bring this topic up here. This community is ostensibly an open-minded community when it comes to sexuality, so it would be logical to presume that he would get some good answers here- which I believe he has. He can sort through them and take what he likes with him and ignore the rest.
Often times this is one of the only places we can come to discuss anything of this sort. It is a haven in that way for many of us. Who else would he chat about this to? His church group? His poker club? His gym buddies? Lol!!
But I also respect the fact that you find it creepy. So don't take my answer personally. I just think if that's the case, as he said, move on to another thread that's not creepy for you. 
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I hate to tell you but she has had sexy many times with many different guys... Get a clue dude.....I know it's your little girl but look at you on these boards....you want to get laid like any other straight guy.....She is and will do fine....write the letter of support to show you love and support her and let it go
um . . . your heart seems to be in the right place, but this strikes me as overstepping boundaries just a little. Heck, I'm a guy and I never discussed sex with my Dad before, during, or after college. It was never comfortable for me. It isn't possible for her Mother to have this talk with her?
If I were to give a son or daughter college advice, I would tell them to be careful with alcohol. Not because of irresponsible sex per se, but because there are always 1,000 things that can go seriously wrong every time you get drunk.
That's where almost all of the nasty shit starts.
And I think if more Dads talked to their daughters and mothers to their sons about sex, it would possibly give them the right perspective from the opposite sex they will be dealing with. Not discounting those that might be gay, I am generally speaking and not being 100% PC
More kids than anything else ! The idea that kids will teach kids about life is bullshit ! You learn about life by living it and from those older , other peoples mistakes. Advice as one grows . And that applies to boys too. Idiots are coming out of colleges today , in many cases.
And I think if more Dads talked to their daughters and mothers to their sons about sex, it would possibly give them the right perspective from the opposite sex they will be dealing with. Not discounting those that might be gay, I am generally speaking and not being 100% PC.
I hope your talking to the OP and not me?
I advice you hold your tongue, even if your replying to him.
Sex, many, many times, with many different guys....STFU....YOU are clueless.
Or something bothers you. U can access the phone records from your computer . Spy shop in NYC also has a lot of other fun shit u may want to purchase . If u got her a car , I'd also recommend the tracking device , fits right under the wheel well. And a small camera for her favorite stuffed animal . All girls got 1 if those . Time to let go ! That's what's bothering you. Its not her having sex . Its her not being around and the nest is getting empty ! Work on u and the Mrs. Plan for the later years . Take everyone out to dinner and have a nice time.
We have a great relationship but how can I best avoid creeping her out or alienating her?
Ladies, how welcome would your Dad's thoughts and feelings have been to you on this subject?
Should I write about this topic or avoid it altogether?
I'd appreciate hearing primarily from the ladies here with constructive advice, suggestions or comments.
For those who intend to flame or turn the discussion into something else beyond my best intentions please move on to another thread. I will not engage and urge others to do the same. TIA.
you're wanting to offer-up some sage advice to your daughter as she heads-off to college.
And, personally at least, I wish more parents would make the kind of effort you're suggesting. OTOH, having been an 18 yr old girl myself, while my father offering his best advice on sexuality and relationships would not not have 'freaked me out', at the same time I highly doubt I would have paid it much mind; much less have followed his advice (no matter how spot on).
Some things in life you have to figure out yourself and this is probably one of those things. She may look back in 20 yrs and love that you made the gesture; even if, by that time, the advice would only be telling her what she already knows.
Youth is wasted on the young...and all that....lol....
Ok, go enjoy yourself. You're responsible for your happiness and your safety. If you choose to have sex or not to have sex exercise good judgement. She has probably experimented more than you care to admit but that is part of life. If she is a virgin, I would worry as that would be very socially backwards.
She might run tight on cash. Tell her about how some girls in college sell themselves on places like backpage and are taken advantage of by pimps. Try to steer her away from that.
Let her know that you trust her and that you respect her judgement. Tell her that you are proud of the young woman she has become and no matter what you will love her and be there for her.
In the end all you can do is show her your support.
Off the blood to your brain ! I'm sure she "knows" about sex , the guy is letting go of Hus daughter , is it bad that he actually gives a shit ? Maybe if more guys and women cared about their kids bp wouldn't exist ! Now Hans or Franz whichever 1 u r college isn't a fuckfest for everyone . And 1950 wasn't so bad our country saw growth now its all fucked up . So maybe there is a bigger lessen for all to learn . Ur a funny guy .
She might run tight on cash. Tell her about how some girls in college sell themselves on places like backpage and are taken advantage of by pimps. Try to steer her away from that.
Let her know that you trust her and that you respect her judgement. Tell her that you are proud of the young woman she has become and no matter what you will love her and be there for her.
In the end all you can do is show her your support.
We can talk about all sorts of reason America saw growth in the 50s.
Caring about his daughter sure, I'll buy that.
The thing is "Leave it to Beaver" and Dennis the Menance" aren't what kids are watching on TV now days.
They all use this stuff known as technology. They have phones that surf the Internet. The can reference information from any location.
Now lets talk about morals and values. We get asked for assistance in advising a fellow Hobbyist when it comes to dealing with sex and sexual situations. 90% of the guys that replied here to include the poster would look at the ad and even contact a girl advertising that she is new and just turned 18 and left home for the first time. Hobbyist would be running out the door with their dicks out and ATM cards in their hands.
His question should have never been asked here. It's bullshit. It's a waste of time. It's something you talk to your buddies about. Here we talk about the sexy ladies. We communicate between each other about who's worth seeing and who isn't.
This isn't Dr Phil.
See your answer not bad , but you didn't respond to the"speedo" so we now know u have 1 lol. And your 100% correct technology ,
And you Know what , even more reason for him to worry . Look at that girl who just ran off with that older guy ? And the issues with fake friends on Facebook. Even more reason in many ways for more "family values" . Yeah its a fuck board , but talk to his "buddies" they probably whack off to her after pool parties ? So he came here , and you know what he got good responses even yours , probably helped him the most ! Y because now she will never end up on bp ! U did good . And I , me personally , love the 1950s , Vegas , showgirls , dean martin and jerry lewis , the copa ? Before my time but I'd trade in a minute ! Hey have a good day.
Caring about his daughter sure, I'll buy that.
The thing is "Leave it to Beaver" and Dennis the Menance" aren't what kids are watching on TV now days.
They all use this stuff known as technology. They have phones that surf the Internet. The can reference information from any location.
Now lets talk about morals and values. We get asked for assistance in advising a fellow Hobbyist when it comes to dealing with sex and sexual situations. 90% of the guys that replied here to include the poster would look at the ad and even contact a girl advertising that she is new and just turned 18 and left home for the first time. Hobbyist would be running out the door with their dicks out and ATM cards in their hands.
His question should have never been asked here. It's bullshit. It's a waste of time. It's something you talk to your buddies about. Here we talk about the sexy ladies. We communicate between each other about who's worth seeing and who isn't.
This isn't Dr Phil.
I'll agree with you! How could you forget Frank Sinatra?
A baseball bat in a back alley can often solve more problems than cops ever do. We have to large of a Government that worries about ruling us that minimizing debt and securing our Nation for the future of our children. Our Political parties are self serving. I've lived in DC long enough to know that everyone here is just about self advancement and filling their pockets.
As for the banana hammock, I go nude! Schwaben Quellen Spa in Stuttgart is the closest thing to paradise you will ever find. Only problem you have to take your lady with you!
Isn't it ridiculous how we are treated in this country ? And the cops , there handing out "chips" cause now everyone us getting "stoned" ! U can't make this shit up. And the list goes on , yeah sorry about Frank . That whole period in time "classic" ! Hey , enjoy your day.
A baseball bat in a back alley can often solve more problems than cops ever do. We have to large of a Government that worries about ruling us that minimizing debt and securing our Nation for the future of our children. Our Political parties are self serving. I've lived in DC long enough to know that everyone here is just about self advancement and filling their pockets.
As for the banana hammock, I go nude! Schwaben Quellen Spa in Stuttgart is the closest thing to paradise you will ever find. Only problem you have to take your lady with you!
Me thinks you are on the WRONG site!!
Now if there only were some well respected person with access to world wide "authorities" in just bout every field dealing with human nature that had actual experience raising children through teens, and into twenties....
One important thing to remember is that your daughter's brain will not mature fully until her late 20s, because the part of the brain used for forecasting results or consequences is the last part of our brain to develop.
HEY! How about Dr Phil?
Daughters lacking a healthy relationship with their father latch onto a boy who pays attention to them.
By the time they go off to college they must have learned how to respect themselves and that their body is NOT a playground.
Deprived