Or maybe Jose to whom we sing the National Anthem?

In any case, you are right that her profile and the other reviewers should have pointed out this interesting fact.  Could it be that so many were really fooled?

I myself once tried to do a session with a post op transexual.  She had the best surgery you could imagine, ever shaved the adam's apple.  I also had an excellent mental thing going with this person as we had become pen pals on line and discussed all kinds of interesting topics.

And yet, when I met her, my body immediately went on strike as if telling my mind:  What the hell do you think you're doing?  This is not a gal, but a guy.  Abort, abort.

Indeed I had to.  My body was just not going to go through with it.  I made an excuse that I suddenly had got ill.  She tried to insist I take the donation back but I didn't.

I felt it was such a tragedy, but something Kramer on Seinfeld once said was so true:

"Never argue with the body.  It's an argument you aren't going to win."

So true, so true.

By the way, in case you haven't done so already, send a problem report to TER regarding this provider.  You will be doing her and all involved a favor.

Not to mention embarrassing the other reviewers.

She should not be deceiving hobbyists either. She is taking a big risk.

I would recommend contacting admin and let them decide what to do, if anything.

There have been cases where guys would go postal after being deceived in that manner. We don't hear about someone going postal because she was fatter.

If confronted with this circumstance, someone is likely to get very upset and potentially physical.  I would post the review to the benefit of all.  One should not be faced with this situation unless they are going into it with eyes wide open.

No, it is NOT okay to deceive. No where did I imply that either.

If it were my call, she would be delisted and persona non grata around here.

Got a surprise yesterday when the provider I went to see turned out to be TS (post op).  I decided to go thru with it bcs I was there, had already written off the cost in my mind, and I guess bcs I was curious.  Boobs seemed real & she had some girly curves, but the face, hands and feet looked male to me.  Pussy looked good, but didn't taste like pussy (or anything).  I'm old enough now that my body doesn't always do what my mind wants it to, and if I'm not really attracted to somebody it just doesn't work, which was what happened here.

So I guess what I want to know is isn't there an etiquette to the whole TS/TG thing?  I'm all for people doing whatever they need to do to feel right about themselves, and if that involves surgery its fine by me--but when I'm hiring a provider I'm looking for somebody with all original equipment.  Shouldn't providers let us know if they are TS/TG?  There's obviously a market for TS/TG providers, and if that's your thing then great, but it's not for me & I'd like to know that before going to all that trouble.

What really makes this odd is that she has some very good reviews on here, but the reviewers either didn't notice or didn't think it was worth mentioning.

Your thoughts?

WTF!
You have got to be more into Trannies,than your leading us to believe!!(if not,you would have left).
Correct me if i'm wrong!

A post-op has had an operation to reconstruct the penis into a vagina, as I understand it.  I not sure it is necessary for categorizing at that point, once the that change is made I mean.  Though its probably a nice thing to do.  I think it is more important to differentiate between pre-ops and genetic women, because of the Cracker Jack surprise.  I having my first transexual experience later in November.  Really looking forward to it!  I'm hoping for a decoder ring!

I am sorry but anyone misleading to gain clients is just plain wrong.
Its the same thing as bait and switch, very old pictures large weight gain extreme age difference.
All of these as well as a sex change is misleading.
When you want to see a woman thats what you want to see not some one who use to be a man who now claims to be all woman. In reality they are NOT all woman, thats just the way it is. You have to be born a woman other wise, its not truthful.
Learning french moving to france studying their culture and wearing french clothes...does NOT make me french. I can appreciate the french, speak french but I am not nor will I ever be french. Same thing.
If the concern here is could this person be in danger for attempting to mislead others, of course there are those who would go off the deep end if they were trapped like this. So yes it can cause problems here but the one to blame is not the man who discovered this through being decieved, but the man causing the deception. The TS who caused the deception that is. I fully understand wanting to be a woman, I personally wouldn't want it any other way, and under normal circumstances and in most any other situation I would be inclined to say, its noone elses business...BUT here in this rhelm under these circumstances where a sexual encounter is expected I think full disclossure is required as well as honesty.
I say post a review. If there are problems from doing so she.he should have been honest from the get go. They own their behavior not the Gentleman who was put on the spot and lied to or mislead to get him in the door.
Thats my take on it anyway

All the TS I know tell the guys what the deal is, and they are not ashamed of it, in fact very proud to be who they are. Someone who gets away with deceiving folks on here should not be allowed to continue their deception. There is nothing wrong with being a TS and providing services to those who want it. But someone who will keep that information from you is likely to keep other "important" information from you and could be considered a risk.

You're positive this was a TS and not just a masculine female? Not all pussy tastes the same hun.

Not an easy decision, but I don't see the difference between telling people this provider is a post-op and disclosing any other false advertizing practices.  Is this fundamentally different from a review that says "she's 80 lbs heavier than her photos show", or "what's on the advertized menue really isn't available"?  If anything I think it's more important to know this.

I agree outing this person has some consequences, but so does revealing anyone who is less than honest (by statement or admission) in their ads.

....I know I would!

I think you can do a "problem report" on her profile without submitting a review. You can change her to a Post Op T/S......I think you should contact admin to explain it to them FIRST and see what their decision is.

Chemically (dna) she is a male, but physically, mentally and in ever other aspect she is a female.


HOWEVER TER does have an option for "post op" which means that she should have had that noted on her profile.

In those cases, doctors typically perform the necessary surgery to go in one direction or another as infants.  A hermaphrodite female might have normal breasts and look female, but her vagina might not be quite "right."  For example, that could mean doesn't appear to be as fully developed as a normal female.  For example, it might seem to be shallow- maybe only four inches deep,  or have a somewhat unusual appearance in some other way.

You didn't say whether she told you she was a post-op TS, or whether you just suspected it, so I'm just suggesting this as a possibility.

Jesus... I can't believe it's even a discussion.

I wonder — did she ever claim NOT to be a t-girl?  If her profile on TER does not specify Transsexual than that's the fault of reviewers, right?  Did they ask before writing?

I HATE surprises! You could do a review or file a problem report. but wouldn't it be better to contact the provider and give her the opportunity to change her profile herself before taking any action?

sane.