Rarely, you'll find a provider who is so sweet, sensual, passionate and even loving that you swear you're in a sexually charged relationship with someone who really cares about you. To me, that is the perfect provider. Ladies, if you are among those who provide that experience, is it something you orchestrate repeatedly with many clients or do you have real chemistry like that with only a select few?

selected few

not every one knows how to cater to clients individually .. they rather cater to them as an average escort would but thats far from me ... "the very best provider" does exsist you just have to give it a try

A good provider will provide a level of service to "most" of the clients - or at least will attempt to do so..

There is a level of orchestration - no doubt, but at the same time the provider needs to feel comfortable with you. I have experienced that sometimes the feeling of being comfortable with a strange guy comes in subsequent visits.

So even if the first session is 8.5 on TER scale *rolls eyes*, the next one can be 9.5 or 10.

Of course the law of diminishing returns is also something I have, and most guys have, noticed. After a few visits the girl gets so comfortable with you, that she forgets the "E" in GFE.  Don't be a victim of that by seeing the same girl every week...

So to summarize... Its complicated...

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But there has to be chemistry, and you have to be open to wanting that type of time with a lady!!!

If you come in directing events and are looking for certain things to be performed then it is no longer a sensual "love making" it has now become a "performance"!!  Remember, some don't want that type of session!!

As long as you are looking for the ladies who offers this, then she will probably know what to do!  Many do not want this themselves!
If you are not open to this type of session, it becomes difficult to create intimacy!

But when the spark is there and allowed...holy crap can it be intense!!!  It's all in whats allowed!!!

For me, theres nothing better than the feeling of an emotionally charged time that leaves you both breathless!!!!

Just my .02!!!

Pammy

perception can become reality..it is very rare indeed..

many guys are simply here to get laid, have conversations with someone who is not an idiot, and be paid attention to, so their idea will of course, differ from yours. Glad you found YOUR idea of the perfect provider, because this is afterall a FANTASY.

Yes, fantasy was implied by the word "orchestrate".  Didn't see a need to state the obvious.