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hbyist+truth=;( 663 reads
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What she thinks and feels could be quite different

innyc771435 reads

No bad experiences (in fact, nothing but 100% great sessions), no complaints, no change of phone number or email (she still advertises as of this week). Seriously, no issues whatsoever. And yet, here I am with money in hand. I've reached out at least 4 times. Not a peep even though a new ad just went up.  

Any insights? Something she's not telling me maybe?  

Thanks in advance, and merry happy to all

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hbyist+truth=;(664 reads

What she thinks and feels could be quite different

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GaGambler555 reads

Isn't it amazing how two people can view the same situation in VERY different ways?

There is obviously an issue, but if she doesn't respond after four attempts, the fifth attempt may put him into "stalker" territory. We don't always get answers in life, much less the answer we want. My advice to the OP is to give her some space, a LOT of space. If she wants to respond, she will. If she doesn't, that in itself is a response.

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innyc77559 reads

appreciate your insights just the same. enjoy your holiday...

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Durhamdrew469 reads

I hope he knows there are a lot of providers out there.

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Durhamdrew354 reads

She may have been concerned that you were falling for her. It sure sounds like it.

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innyc77352 reads

for the record, i'm not "falling for her". she's an atf, and i was concerned. she explained the situation.  

appreciate your interest in my thread. it's now been resolved. thank you...

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nothrofboston236 reads

Had frequent text chats back and forth. Now 4, 5 emails and very short replies ignoring my inquiry ...  when are you available again? I guess her last cordial text "I had a blast" ... just ambivalence .... hmmmm ... do you think she's still interested? I don't.  

Something to be said about big dick syndrome. It ain't all its cracked up to be. Just kidding about that. Maybe just not for her. And that's ok

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octavia.lexa208 reads

i have at most respect for you, was not ignoring you...

just busy with family stuff this week and also bad civie break up

 

Posted By: nothrofboston
Had frequent text chats back and forth. Now 4, 5 emails and very short replies ignoring my inquiry ...  when are you available again? I guess her last cordial text "I had a blast" ... just ambivalence .... hmmmm ... do you think she's still interested? I don't.    
   
 Something to be said about big dick syndrome. It ain't all its cracked up to be. Just kidding about that. Maybe just not for her. And that's ok.  
   
 

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foguete69461 reads

she likes you
she doesn't like you
you don't have a good chemistry
you remind her of her ex
you remind her of daddy
she is busy with regulars
she is busy with newbs to her
she is looking for reviews and you havn't
she is looking for reviews and you have
she has issues with her kids
she is having issues with her miniature dog

it could be anything or nothing at all don't sweat it

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ronkini1234372 reads

The logistics of a days clients is difficult for the provider when she doesn't have her own place to host, going to school, working a job, taking care of a kid, having to meet with friends or family. Then there is the problem of scheduling multiple clients so that most are satisfied. During multiple client scheduling delays in communication occur which can delay the entire final message to you. She can't tell the truth that she's trying to fit others in since it will ruin the fantasy and saying otherwise is lying which can ruin the fantasy in the future.

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innyc77349 reads

i appreciate your taking the time. she reached out a short time ago and explained that her issues were more technical in nature than logistical. nevertheless, i'm happy to have read everyone's responses.  

have a great holiday...

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ilarasantos434 reads

Many reasons ranging but I can't list that many.
Another might be a new phone booker and perhaps that may also be a factor.
Best advice is to move on but it sounds like you really like her and she may have picked up a stage 5 clinger impression.
Stage 5 clinger is from a movie and it describes a person who is much more into you than otherwise appreciated.
Good luck on finding another...as the commercial goes if you have an erection lasting longer than 4 hours, just call another one. Best of luck to you and a Happy Holiday.

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innyc77365 reads

thanks for having a good sense of humor. she reached out and explained her recent situation. i'm seeing her tomorrow afternoon.  

you have a great holiday as well! :-)

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ilarasantos292 reads

That's super!
Glad it worked out for you...that is a nice holiday treat!
Enjoy her well.
Best wishes!

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Durhamdrew273 reads

Get her a good Xmas gift.  
We don't want you posting again next week
I'm sure we won't be as kind the next time.

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innyc77318 reads

ok ok. no promises though! lol...

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Larissa_Sweets340 reads

Darling,  

If she isn't answering you maybe there was a problem, let her be you just said it "money in hand" okay so with that in mind is she the only provider in the world? See someone else, sometimes silence speaks the loudest.  

Many fishes in the sea!

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FatVern287 reads

Actually they were skanks, but cut off none the less. Usually these weren't women I should have seen to start with, but they delivered better than expected. Only to live down my initial expectations the second time around.  

Posted By: innyc77
No bad experiences (in fact, nothing but 100% great sessions), no complaints, no change of phone number or email (she still advertises as of this week). Seriously, no issues whatsoever. And yet, here I am with money in hand. I've reached out at least 4 times. Not a peep even though a new ad just went up.  
   
 Any insights? Something she's not telling me maybe?  
   
 Thanks in advance, and merry happy to all.  
 

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escalade1964254 reads

We deserve a response.

if No.... Why?

If you never want to see us let us know so we can move on.

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