Dude, this is promoting B&S.
My advise, next time think with your attached to your shoulder bone and not the head attached to your pelvic bone.
There is no other advise, you did your research but that doesn't eliminate your responsibility to think with your head on the shoulder.
First, sorry for the alias, but said lady is 25 going on 17, knows my handle and I have no patience for the 'drama' involved (I'm sure I'll get more than my fill after my upcoming review).
Got on a train from Jersey to Philly to meet for a multi-hour date with an incredibly beautiful, full-bodied, highly-rated TER lady after a week of back/forth emailing (likes, dislikes, what I liked about her, her continuing education, etc).
A quick phonecall upon hotel arrival has me hearing forced/fake laughter and trailer-trash, uneducated language (no hint of this at all in email).
Heading up, I was having mixed thoughts and upon the door opening, my fears were confirmed. She was the lady in the photos, but clearly 30+ pounds heavier (thighs/belly as big as mine and I weigh 210 lbs).
I did follow through with the date, but her previously mentioned love of service (many SOG, which was discussed/confirmed) ended at 2 (I'm capable of many more during multi-hour visit).
Seemed more interested in eating/drinking/sleeping.
I do realize most of this is my fault, but I did do the research (of her and reviewers) and both turned out to be false. A major factor in my decision to meet with her was her review history here, which was good/stellar (mostly 8's and 9's with some 10's).
I've read posts/opinions about the B&S ads and what would you do upon the door opening.
My question is:
What would you do if (when the door opens) it is said lady, but she no longer resembles her posted/ad/site photos through weight gain/loss?
A disappointed gent
I'm just not buying, that as many guys that say this very same thing happens to them, and they just "mercy fuck" these people that they find unattractive for hours on end.
Geeze Louise, give me a break! You had the chance to walk away, now you're moaning and groaning. And whose fault is this anyways?
What aren't you buying?
That it didn't happen or that you can't believe someone would actually keep their word?
And yes, it was a 'mercy fuck' to quote you.
I could have turned and left, but chose no to.
She reserved time for me (in a 5 star hotel) and I felt obligated; plain/simple.
Please tell me where in my post I said she was unattractive; I said she had gained weight.
My hope was her performance would off-set her less-than-truthful ad.
And I did claim this situation was mostly my fault; read OP clearly before criticizing.
if she deceitfully, misrepresented herself, than you owed her nothing.
Just my .02
Jaycee
with someone I had not been with before, found attractive, and had good chemistry together.
You're absolutely right, Matt.
Normally, I do think with my big head, but this one got away from me.
A lesson learned the hard way.
To quote my Jewish brothers: Never again!
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I understand you had felt obligated to stay, but I would have probably walked. At the very least I would have shortened the session to one hour.
If a provider is 30 pounds heavier then her photos she deserves to get walked out on.
30 pounds above my liking would mean that I would probably have to settle for a BBBJ and skip everything else.
I like women of all sizes (short, tall, thin, a little weight).
It's the extremes that bother me (skeletal/obese).
She was in sweats when she answered the door (another strike), but naked in a matter of moments.
Believe me when I tell you I've seen a lot of cooze in my time and this girl had one seriously beautiful, bald pussy (one thing I was not mislead about).
same goes with old broads using old pics which ironically (lol) make them look younger
I'd like to believe that I still look like my pics from my 30s but I DO NOT and I Know it.
Some of 'em might really be deluded. I mention this because once upon a time while leaving a benjamin for her trouble and making my escape, she was weeping like a 200lb baby for fucks sake
Some of em realize that theres a lotta guys hard up for anything naked and warm and ostensibly female lol
Some use drama to keep their secrets from the rest of the hobby community while they rack up victims.
You would think that the honest providers out there would have the most issue with this because they are the ones who lose business to frauds
But usually they get all feminine and gushy and run to the poor darlings rescue lol
Sorry for what happened to you. All I can say is stick with young PYTs - anything over 35 is likely to be *way* over 35. Anything over size 6 is likely to be way over size 6. Live and Learn.
While you may have found his post distasteful, ladies, he brings up a valid point.
The entire industry, specifically the honest posting ladies, suffers with this continued practice (lieing/B&S).
I read about 'my time' alot in providers board complaints.
What about my time, effort, money (train/parking/gas) that's unrecoupable (if I walked)?
What about being 'blacklisted' by a provider who seems to have no problem lieing/B&S to get us/$ to her location?
resent it when it is pointed out LOL
You or I are out the costs of one visit and that's bad enough to justify having a way to get the message out to the hobbyist brotherhood even if the date is not kept.
some honest provider somewhere is out the profit to be made from that wasted visit
and many suffer a loss of credibility because of the dubioius conduct of a (hopefully) few...
especially those in the size and age bracket where most of the cheating seems to occur.
I decided long ago to stay with young and thin. Then you get young-ish and not really fat LOL
there are many ladies in this biz over 40 who are way hotter than some of the 20 something girls out there.
I could point out 10 to 20 right off the top of my head who are hotter than the average 20 something. generalization is rediculous. do not lump all women into a catagory, its BS
I have been in the biz 2 yrs come mid-April. I have NEVER lied about my age, size, or weight. Whatever. I have no need to. First of all, I have 45 years old and look 35. I consider myself lucky, in that regard.
I came into this biz at 278 lbs knowing that I would not appeal to the masses and that I would have to find my niche. I am now 221 lbs, feel better than I have in years, and feel sexier and more confident than ever. But, still, I know I have to find my niche all over again. It's a constant struggle. Honestly, my phone rang off the hook at 278 lbs. I was busy--say what you will, there are men who adore large beautiful women.
Currently, I am in a middle ground. Not quite big enough for the true BBW lovers but not small enough for those who like an average size lady. But, that's okay. I keep my pics up-to-date and current because my body is always changing. And, there are still those out there who will find me appealling. If I can keep my pics up to date, there is no reason the ladies who are 20-30 lbs overweight cannot do so also. I have little tolerance for it, honestly. And feel absolutely horrible for the gent's who run into this problem. I don't want to disappoint anyone who comes to see me and I do not understand why other women do not feel the same way.
I don't feel it is fair to judge all mature women as a bunch of lieing scammers just because there are some. As we all know, there are those PYT's you say they are GFE's who know absolutely nothing about what it is to be a GFE. So, because one is falsely advertising does that mean they all are falsely advertising? It would not be fair to judge all by the actions of one.
Sorry so long.
Hugs, Belinda
Thanks for presenting yourself with integrity and honesty.
i have no issue with what you went through its wrong
i have issue with the statement to stay away from any provider that says she's over 35 or a certain weight
there are many providers that state the truth
Providers tend to be like regular women folk. They tend to believe they still look like their pics from five or ten years ago.
Or they want to believe it.
Or they let you know you'd better believe it LOL
when a lady is getting older or gaining weight she is more likely to think / hope / want to believe / insist that she still looks like her younger / thinner pics.
I happen to like women in their 30s and 40s. Have more in common with them. Find them to be better in bed. And have found a few honest ones.
But all of the ones I've walked away from have advertised being in their late 30s or 40s and have been at least 10 years older and 30lbs heavier then their pics.
I WISH I could have reported that somehow here but if you don't go through with a session you can't write a review.
TER really needs to have a place on a provider's profile page to post B&S and the like.
That would be good for clients and honest providers alike.
Allow me to refresh your memory "anything over 35 is likely to be *way* over 35. Anything over size 6 is likely to be way over size 6. Live and Learn."
Keyword: Anything. You just slapped a single coat of paint on every mature provider, as well as every provider who isn't a stick figure. I can't say BBW, because a size 8 or 10 fits your statement, but certainly comes nowhere close to BBW. So basically, any woman in her 30's, or who has any curves whatsoever, is likely to be lying. According to you.
Your post really wasn't worth responding to, but I couldn' resist pointing out the flaws in your attempt at a back pedal. You are hereby slapped with a wet noodle and instructed to never do it again. 
but it was intended as hyperbole and as humour.
I can see though how it might not be taken that way.....
Mea Culpa! I'll make a good act of contrition before I hit the sack '
and kissing yourself on the behind, then kow tow to every woman on this board who is not a size 6, or under 35. No, make that every woman on this entire site. Then, quietly slink away to the doctor to get a neck and back brace to make up for all that bowing and scraping and fawning you did. When you return, you will be a new man, guaranteed.
old and fat to do so...I fall into the over 30 catagory at almost 48yrs old(37 and a half) and too fat at a size 7 and 125lbs. Maybe some young hot spinner a size 2 and 19yr old will disapline you for us old fat girls. lol
Spankings are only given as a reward for good behavior.
i am 47yrs old and I am comfortable with it. I want to see Gentlemen and only Gentlemen who are comfortable with my age.
once the door opens theres nothing else to hide at this point so I don't see why you would bother to try and lie about it. Eventually you are going to have to face the client naked even so all is there to see.
well you should have walked away (OP) they will never learn how to play fair as long as others are willing to pay their rate for deception. Yes she was wrong but I believe you ripped yourself off by going through with it in the end. At that point face to face you knew what was up and you CHOSE to proceed. you own it at this point in my opinion...
on a daily basis there are countless appts and trysts that take place all over the place. Experiences like this stick out like a sore thumb because they suck but they are NOT the norm. AND if more men walked away when they felt they were mislead instead of following through and pissing and moaning about it later this wouldn't even be an issue but they don't so the gals see it as *if it ain't broke why fix it* deal. If you stay you only can be mad at yourself.
At least that's how I felt about it.
DC.
and a heap of fun in the sack...all around nice guy...
xox
Nicole
if they have that they can out you or blackmail you
if they don't you can walk without fear, or if you gave em a mercy fuck you can write an honest review without retaliation
of course if you admit to fucking some of the more heinous cows you look really really bad.
Even providers sometimes comment on how low a hobbyist will go... don't want THAT on your resume for damned sure LOL
this is another case that are few and far between even more so than old pics or the wrong age and misrepresentation of a kind.
If she is well reviewed and so on this should never be an issue. Again the really bad issues stick out like a sore thumb.
I wn't see anyone who can't be honest about their name. WE have a lot at stake here too. We can be hurt beaten killed and so on. You do what you want but I personally won't see anyone who can not simply come up with info to be verified. I have met and gotten to know many men whos names and so on I know. I would never concider even contacting them never mind any form of assault on them. I do believe you are paranoid and are over thinking the whole thing.
The ones who would resort to that crap are few and far between..and if you stick with a reputable provider most if not all of us would prefer if you are not happy with what is behind the door you would step inside out of public view and decline the appointment.
Rather than come her and throw a fit under an alias.
There are a thousand reasons I can give you for why a lady would insist on your real name and they are all very valid reasons.
I wish you would quit trying to make it sound like a lady who is diligent in her screening is out to blackmail someone .
We have had several providers who were among the very most highly reviewed providers here who have outed guys. Many who have threatened in order to keep their streak of 9s/10s going.
I understand your point of view and I strongly agree that you should screen as you see fit.
OTOH plenty of very highly reviewed ladies do not require real names.
I will vote with my feet and my wallet. You are welcome to do as you think best.
Look if you are going to make outrageous claims, such as you can think of “1,000 reasons”, don’t you think you would get called on to list the 1,000.
Now, I can bet you might come up with 3 or 4, but 1,000? Get real.
PM you? Ha another joke from the jokester. And don’t start with the alias BS please, I don’t play it.
Grow up. Thinking that a woman who asks for your real name is going to blackmail you is idiocy. Sure, it could happen. Is it likely? I doubt it. Are there crazies out there? Sure, but if you do your homework, and if you get to know her first, you ought to be able to get a good feel for her real personality and intentions. If she insists on screening, thank your lucky stars you have found a woman with more than a tiny grain of sense in her head. She knows how to stay safe. That keeps you safe too. Use your noggin man!
ANDDDDD...No man worth his salt is going to worry about what others on an Internet discussion board think of him. WTF? Say what you want. Do what you want. Don't hide it for fear someone will ridicule you. Providers can be as shallow and callous as other hobbyists. Ignore them. They will go away. End of story.
It's your fault for letting the little head do your thinking. Next time, pick a lady, not a tramp.
Do you ever have any GOOD days?? LMAO
I probably shouldn't laugh should I? LMAO
I am 36. Every year for the past seven years I have posted a birthday notice on my favorite local board (where the majority of my clients come from.) I have never misrepresented my age though sometimes it may slip my mind to update a profile here or there, and some profiles were stolen and I don't even know exist out there.
I am 117.5 lbs right now. I just went to the scale to check for this post. This morning I was 115. Last week due to water weight I got up to 121 lbs. A six pound flux in one week, and as mainly vegan I can guarantee that was not fat. Just how accurate and often do you want us to be with our weight?!
Look for women who post lots of pictures with frequent updates. PM the reviewers to ask if the photos are really accurate. Do your homework well and you should about NEVER experience image deception. Even as my body changes there is plenty of visual info to clue you in to the difference between my cozy winter weight and the slimmer summer figure, as well as how much that might fluctuate from year to year. Not everyone gets fat as they get old... my mother is a frightening 85 lbs.
It sounds as if you've had some bad experiences. I hope you posted reviews... 'cuz if not you have no room to go bitching over inaccurate ones.
.02
This "old broad" is 53 years old. This "old broad" is bigger than a size 6. She is a size 16. For some unfathomable (to you) reason, there are many men who find me extremely attractive. Not only that, they sometimes enjoy my company enough to swear off young women.
These men are not "hard up for anything naked and warm." They are very discriminating gentlemen who do their research, and most of them will have read my website for at least a year before they get up the nerve to write for the first time.
So, don't go telling anyone who to see. There are too many men with varied tastes for your pathetically limited view of sensuality to have any real credibility. I look almost the same as I did at twenty, with added weight, and little lines here and there. So what? I still turn heads baby. It's about ATTITUDE.
I am a beautiful sensuous woman, both inside and out. I've been told my body was "made to f*ck" on often. If you want to say 53 is "way over 35" you are right.
Who the heck said a woman under 35 knows more about real passion,or that she is more honest, or that her pictures are real and recent? That is an illogical conclusion. For instance, a young woman stole one of my photos (one of the more illustrious CL women). Age is truly only a number. It's what we carry inside us that makes us young. I, for one, will never ever grow up. I am having too much fun.
What did YOU know about sex at 25? Most young men come to see older providers to learn, and to enjoy the finer points of love that most younger women have yet to learn. (I was an exception. LOL Moi was perfect from the first f*ck). I say, don't limit yourself to younger teeny tiny women. Be adventurous. Try it Sam I Am...
Cary Sweetie, you are scrumptious !!
Pour some sugar on me...
Dude, this is promoting B&S.
My advise, next time think with your attached to your shoulder bone and not the head attached to your pelvic bone.
There is no other advise, you did your research but that doesn't eliminate your responsibility to think with your head on the shoulder.
I am honest about my age, weight, and looks......I could EASILY lie about my age...OMG it would be so simple for me to say YUP I am 30....go look at my photos/website for yourself Sir....
Notice how I keep saying "I"? I keep saying it because I have to keep ME together. I don't have time to worry about what another provider is lying about this week.
I am really 43 years old and made a decision to own my age. Do I work as much as I would if I were to lie and say I am 30? HELL NO! Does it bother me when I see a lady's profile and she is listing herself as 10-20 years younger than she is?...No and I can tell you exactly why....I am not paying to fuck her....I don't have to feed into her obvious lie....and I don't have to write a complete line of bullshit in her review....I have zero fear of any crazy lying ass provider and her gang of men who are hoping for a price break or a freebie harassing me to no end if I post a REAL review revealing her true colors. NOPE THIS IS A MANS SITE SO THE MEN NEED TO MAN UP AND STOP PAYING PROVIDERS WHO ARE RUNNING GAME! IT AINT ANOTHER PROVIDERS JOB. We don't make the rules here....we have been told more times than any of us care to think of TO STFU AND GET BACK TO THE PROVIDERS BOARD.
If you feel you got swindled then you need to review her and score her accordingly...then be prepared to deal with the shit hitting the fan afterwards. You can blame your: FELLOW HOBBYIST for allowing this woman and all the women who run this same game to continually perpetuate their game.
I will not get off my soap box AND TAKE MY ASS BACK TO THE PROVIDER ONLY BOARD.....where we have been told to stay!
You said it better than I did!
You provide an honest self description. This allows hobbyists to choose and prevent unwanted drama.
Please stick around on this board.
"I did do the research (of her and reviewers) and both turned out to be false." This leads me to believe your research consisted of searching her TWO reviews. Did you contact the reviewers? Was she reviewed by somebody that has a review history (more than 1 or 2 reviews themselves)? These are important questions, and two reviews does not make one highly reviewed in my opinion even if it says she got 10/10 and 10/10. Even if you followed through with her reviewers if they were new as well you were doomed from the beginning IMHO.
Doc
p.s. see ladies with more reviews if you are not going to feel comfortable walking away from time to time.
I got the feeling from the post that while there were good reviews, there weren't many. If this is the case then you only have yourself to blame for this experience, but you now have an obligation to write a review. There will ALWAYS be dishonest, B&S providors, but if you do good research you can avoid them altogther. Don't THINK she is legit, KNOW she is legit. And it is possible to know if you really do your homework. Write an honest review and learn from the experience.
Incorrect diagnosis, Doc.
Gonna have your licensed yanked if you keep up this type of practice.
(Didn't trust what I stated in OP, huh?)
OK, here it is:
She has 49 reviews dating back to '07 (mostly 9/9, some 8/8-8/9 with a few 10's for both looks/performance).
Also looked at her reviewers (few with only single digit reviews) and found a great portion had 20+ reviews; many with 30+ and a few 50+.
Many of these reviewers had seen ladies I had and rated them much the same as I did (similar tastes).
Read a great portion of the reviews; looked for/found consistance.
That was my research.
No, I didn't contact any of these reviewers.
Why would I?
I'm almost sure if I did they would say, 'Who are you? If your looking for information, read my review".
Because they are the same guys feeding you the information, that in your opinion, is "misrepresented" of the actual product.
You've got one provider misrepresenting herself, or so you say, but then you have "how many" hobbyiest, that are either equally misrepresenting the product, or maybe, their opinion of the same ladies, isnt really as much like yours, as you thought.
Come on now, grow a brain here.
OK, I'll state the obvious for those who can't do simple math.
Doesn't take a genius to realize she wasn't as heavy as she is now when her pics were taken.
So, given the unknowns, I can tell you from experience that the reviewers from (at least) the last 3 months are 'embelishing' their ratings (although YMMV factors in also).
Wanting to know why you've been taking this so personally/offering much more than your '.02', I looked up your profile.
Your most recent review says that your ad/site pics are not an accurate representation of you.
Now the clouds part and your true motive for angry posting/insulting is clear.
To quote you, "Come on now, BE HONEST"!
You did; and I let it go the first time.
And the hiding behind the alias comeback was poor at best when confronted with facts/truth.
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It is the same reason I choose to do so as well.
It IS seeming sort of clear why you have such an interest in this topic as you have deceived others as well with old ass photos according to you last review of OVER A YEAR AGO. I mean what gives? You have not had a single review since leaving the agency.
That explains why you have all this time to be posting on the boards. And as many red faces you throw up with your posts will never take away the use of aliases on these boards.
Ironic that the subject matter hit you so close to home.
I think you should be taking some of the advice around here.
Just to head you off at the pass, yes it's an alias, no need to whine about.
sorry took both in the wrong context. I still believe however that it is perfectly reasonable to pm a recent reviewer for more thorough research on a provider that you have not seen before. Especially if you can not walk away when you should IMHO.
Doc
I am way over 30 and for sure, not a small lady. I clearly state this on my website.
I'm sorry you didn't get what was advertised, unfortunately it happens, I hear the same stories from my male friends who hobby. Post an honest review, maybe that will give a heads up to the next guy. One thing to keep in mind when reading reviews is that one mans 10 is another mans 5. More important than looking at the numbers is to read all the details, sometimes this will give you a better idea of what the provider is actually like.
Hope thingss work out better for you next time.
... of course it doesn't say anything for how someone is once they are in private, but at least the eyes know what the eyes see before you've committed.
But if she's not as advertised, I cancel on the spot.
If she is 5, 10, 15 or more pounds over her photo weight??? What about age, hair, saggy boobs, etc? Where is the line for leaving a token vice nothing?
Yes, I'm being rhetorical here... I was recently in a similar situation, so I ask.
I understand Y.G.T.B.F.K.M.s reluctance after all the travel.
There are other factors as well... is she a well reviewed and/or "fixture" of the local scene. The last thing some folks want is the kind of drama where he walks and she goes ballistic on him on the PO board, and he gets shut out.
now I gained 7lbs over the winter and it bothers me...just lost 3lbs so I have 4 to go and I'll be thrilled. If someone shows up to see me and says , gee shes a bit heavier than her pictures from Jan, well by about 2 or 3 lbs I am but thats it. so if he feels like walking for that yes hes too picky and I'd prefer he walk but I will let others know what an ass he is over 3lbs. be reasonable is all. 20llbs... now thats definately a difference and she also knows it. B&S is wrong we all agree on that but the OP feels we all, all the over 30 gals are cutting a few yrs off our age to sound better.
I never go backwards only forwards I am going to be 48yrs old this summer and I am good with this, not everyone shaves yrs off, and not everyone wants to see a 20 something hottie...some look specifically for the over 40 hottie and I am proud to be that. My 40s are my favorite yrs so far. Its all good...
The OP also stated anyone over a size 6 is lieing about how fat she is. well I am a size 7 at best right now so I must be huge!!!! Everyone has their opinion on whats fat and whats not if he thinks those over a size 6 is fat, his view is not what most ppl see. I think the OP should only see the 20 something spinner a size 2 and barely legal less chance of disappointment. Everyone has their preferences, not ALL see things the way the OP does. I most certainly would not think a size 10 or 12 was huge never mind a size 6 or better.
Do some re-reading prior to making that kind of accusation.
I never stated any of what you posted; that was a respondant.
its a very long thread I got confused so sorry...
Not a problem; it is quite the tome now.
And for the record, I forgot to add (to my list in one of my first few posts) my love of women with 'experience'.
My first (real) lover was 10 yrs my senior and gave me a deep 'appreciation' of all that 'wisdom' has to offer.
According to the anonymous TER poll data not all but the majority of hobbyists apparently have the same preference as the OP does for young and thin ladies.
WHAT AGE DO YOU LOOK FOR IN A PROVIDER?
23% 18 - 21
27% 22 - 25
20% 25 - 30
18% 30 +
10% Don't Care
WHAT BODY TYPE DO YOU LOOK FOR IN A PROVIDER?
6% Really Thin
42% Thin
39% Average
9% Baby Fat
2% BBW
This data is strong motivation for many older and heavier Providers to be deceptive about their age and body type. I suspect that for every Provider that is over 35 who is honest about their weight and age there is a least 2 who are not. Several Providers have responded to this thread, and all indicating they are candid about their weight and age. Does any one expect Providers who are not candid about their age and body type to respond to this thread and admit it?
That was a respondant.
Again, please read/reread prior to making an assumption!!!
Look at the flow of the thread. I was responding to the respondent not you!!!!!
If YOU follow the thread (1 post above your original), you would see she corrected herself.
"According to the anonymous TER poll data not all but the majority of hobbyists apparently have the same preference as the OP does for young and thin ladies"
The OP said nothing about a preference for "young and thin ladies"; your response/statement is incorrect.
The statement you're quoting came from a respondant to OP.
I am responding to the following NN points
“and not everyone wants to see a 20 something hottie...some look specifically for the over 40 hottie “ …not ALL see things the way the OP does. I most certainly would not think a size 10 or 12 was huge never mind a size 6 or better.”
I am agreeing with NN that “not everyone” but point out the majority of hobbyists APPARENTLY (backed by TER polls) have the same preference as the OP does for young and thin ladies. To that point what you stated in you original post is irrelevant. Are you disagreeing with the fact that that the majority of Hobbyist prefer young and lean Providers? Anyone reading your original post would reasonable conclude, as NN and I have, that you preferred young and lean Providers. If not why are you bitching about being misled by a Provider with respect to age and weight?
No, anyone wouldn't reasonably conclude what you did if they read the OP (and NN agrees with me).
I'm disagreeing with what you stated the OP said/prefers.
I don't care about stats/others preferences.
And I'm not bitching; I'm just trying to get you to actually read the OP.
OP never said I wanted 'young and thin; size 6, 10, 12; weight/age', 2muchtruth4U's post(s) did.
NN made the same mistake saying I was looking for 'young/thin' (which you're basing this disagreement on), re-read the thread, and found she was in error (look at the thread/her posts/her apology).
If you look at the OP, I was, in fact, on my way to see a full-bodied lady (quite the opposite of thin) who happened to gain an additional 30 lbs beyond pics posted.
as well as an honest representation of who we are on some of the most basic levels. Bottom line...you like what you like plain and simple. No reason to explain it it is what it is.
Yes the general assumption is everyone is looking for hot young and thin but not all. Its not a blanket statement about what ALL men want with an appt. YMMV.
Lucky for me and all the other older ladies we don't want to see ALL the men out there and only want to see a select few. So it's all good. I too have an age preference and don't see anyone under 40 prefer Gentlemen in their mid 40s or better but NOT my fathers age so its a window of clients I am interested in seeing also and I have an intellect preference as well. I find stupid men annoying and just won't book an appt with someone who comes off as a dumbass. Shallow maybe, but I know what I like and intellect is a huge turn on for me.
the deception is the issue here and he has a right to expect what she is portraying herself as. The way to stop this is to stop paying off bad behavior. When you follow through you reward it. THEN you are the one contributing to her BS allowing her to do the same to the next guy. you ultimately condone this behavior. I don't feel sorry for you, you rewarded bad behavior I feel sorry for the next guy who gets scammed by her because you paid her off.
And I will write a truthful review shortly so the 'next' guy will have some yang to conteract all the false ying and correctly question her ads veracity.
Not shallow at all...PERFECT for those of us out here who fit into your window of clients!!!!!! Personally, I am very thankful there are providers like you out there. Middle aged, experienced, gorgeous, wizened, smart, fun to be with, and with a hot, hot bod who knows how to use it. Yes, I'd say that is just about PERFECT!!! (Can I get a discount now?!?!)
We had not just done it last week, and the week before that. and the week before.......
How many times are you guys going to keep complaining about seeing a provider, only to find when you get there that she is some bovine replica of the lady in the pics. THEN you pay her and fuck her anyway! MORE than once! Probably DATY too! Eccccch!
Next time you go somewhere and HO-Zilla answers the door. tell her you are here to see her daughter!
BTW. Be sure to put all of this in the review. If you actually write one! Idjit!
The pontificating, childish asshole who chimed in late and offered nothing.
And how long will hobbyists complain about lack of truth/bad service?
Judging by the fact that it's the worlds oldest profession, I'd guess..................end of time.
BTW - To quote 'Dice', "Know what I thinka you, you're a Jerkoff!!............Jerkoff!!..........Jerkoff!!
"She was the lady in the photos, but clearly 30+ pounds heavier (thighs/belly as big as mine...
I did follow through with the date, but her previously mentioned love of service (many SOG, which was discussed/confirmed) ended at 2 ...
Seemed more interested in eating/drinking/sleeping.
I do realize most of this is my fault,"
How is her mis representation, possible non current photos, and her interest in "eating/drinking/sleeping" at the expense of your pleasure possibly your fault????
If I wanted a provider like that, I seek out my ex wife.
If she deceived you, her deception is her responsibility. Letting her walk all over you is your choice.
I've let this happen to me on two occasions but decided enough is enough.
Because even with my spidey (monger) sense ringing like a dinner bell (prior to entry), I still went through with the meet (hoping the service would be as discussed/advertised/reviewed).
The onus for the deceit/lies falls on the lady and the recent reviewers.
BTW - exwife shot/dig was awesome!
I have to say, I've gone through with a meeting... fortunately only 1 hr... with fake picts & rush job. I did not get nearly what I'd bargained for & was able to write a review.
However, you do not owe anyone here anything. You MUST protect yourself first. If this provider can out you & has your handle... No one here would take that risk themselves. It's easy to be brave when someone else's *ss is on the line.
If, several weeks or more from now, you think you can get away with writing a review that leaves out the time, length of meeting but still conveys your disappointment with aged pictures... i'd suggest you write a draft in your PM drafts or another secure place. You can submit a review up to 90 days.
Too much anger/bad feeling here to 'fess up now, Balls.
I will write a review in the near future, though.
I'm also sure the White-Nights will come out to defend their girl/reviews.
That'll be the giveaway.
BTW - "The great Balls!"; one of my fav lines from the Clouseau movies. Use it, bud.
Another: "When duty calls, you've got Balls!"
argue with anyone who said anything in disagreement with the answer he sought, and the ungodly number of times he told other posters they either couldn't read, couldn't comprehend, or were just too stupid to understand what he meant and NOT what he wrote (I love run on sentences), not to mention his childish, tantrum throwing, insults levied at me....I hereby award this thread the
TROLL thread of the month!
BTW, Don't bother with another of your 3rd grade outbursts, or lame attempts at an insult because
Noonecareswhatyouthink!
Ran in to same problem - guys will give shill reviewes with 8s and 9s to avoid the drama or sucking up to providers or may be cause they don't know better. This old pics and photoshop BS just gotta go, but it's gotta start with guys attitudes that let em get away with it. harden up mofos