Do you all think it is bait and switch when a provider posts pictures with long hair, then when you see her the hair is short ?

Do you get pissed and don't see the provider again ?

It really doesn't make a difference to me if she has short hair and I expected long hair. Hell, they r human, and going to the barbershop or whatever place they go to get their hair cut is natural. They don't have to update their pictures regularly b/c of their hair. Unless it is drastically different, like going bald or turning their hair purple.

I am there for the pussy. If the pussy's good, I'd enjoy myself. Also, how is it bait & switch if she has shorter hair? Bait & switch means, technically a different person, not a different hairstyle. Don't over think it, and you shouldn't get piss over something like that. I've seen many different providers that post different hair lengths and hair color, when I show up, its a different hair style, and I never pay attention to it. Its her attitude, performance, and cleanliness I am concern about. Hell, if I was piss at her hair, I'll bust a nut on it saying, it wasn't her hair in the pic. I'll recommend you do that next time if you get piss at the providers hair. J/k.

I would send a new picture if I looked very different than my ad pic... like if I dyed my hair green or shaved it off.

But I wouldn't call it bait n switch. Is it reasonable to expect a provider to book a photo shoot, get the pix back and upload them on her website in between her hair cut and her next date? (since you probably have never done this yourself, the answer is no)

I would say that if one feature is important to you, then ask if her ad picture is reflective of her current appearance. ("I just love your big nose. You haven't gotten a nose job or anything since those pix, have you?)

I once had a guy drive an hour to see me and I asked why, and he said, "I just love long brown hair." (yes, it is still long and brown)

Women don't always understand the importance of something like hair color or length, so she may think it shouldn't matter when it does to you. Other guys may not care.

But I have heard of guys sending girls away at the door when their implants were taken out and their pix were still very busty.

So for me to complain, would feel wrong.

Some thing tells me, you don't see Black Women.

My deal is when they project themselves in a different level. Of course, when you expect a 110 pound lady who says she's 25 and then meet a 150 pound lady who's 40, oh yeah there's a problem.

Actually, I did things my own way for a long ass time and I'm hating to admit it doesn't apply to this scene. Getting a lot of let downs, and beginning to think that 'fighting the good fight' was just a waste of time.

Hate to be synical(sp?), but some recent deals have colored my mind and my place in this thing and that's sad. Got a lot of chances fom my past. But when I catch someone in a lie, or just being plain stupid? Fuck.

How can you justify handing over money to them knowing what you know?

I know it's a business. But there's an unspoken trust. When you crush that, it's almost beyond repair. All you have are 'references', and associations.

There's some cool fucking people out there on TER. This doesn't encompass them. It's just a vessel on their journey.

Yeah I absolutely agree wid you but wid a slight difference. I mean length of hair or shape of hair does not bother me if it differs from the profile but yes if the color is a shocking change say from platinum blonde to shaggy crew cut or from say a brunette to a shocking purple or chopping of the hip length hair to sheer bald then professional ethics demand that the change is ammended in profile.

That would apply for the hair on the head...Now coming to the hair in THIGHLAND is a different issue as that borders on sexual taste. I mean, I cud drool over a neat bush or a massive jungle between the Thighs and if I book a lady wid a juicy bush and in bed I find her pussy as bald as Yul Bryner or Telly Savalas then I'm bound to get hopping mad as a wet hen.

Being an Entertainment Service Provider myself I know what kind of clients one can come across.I've had guys/gals wanting a zodiac sign match even if it's for just a nite of pleasure or the exact size n shape of vital statistics before making a booking.

But then the Bottomline is that when $$$ are involved the client is always right.Take them for granted and that shall be the last you see of Em and worse they shall spread the bad word on reputed sites like TER!!!
"GIVING PLEASURE IS OUR BUSINESS...SEEKING PLEASURE IS OUR PASSION!!!"

C'mon, women change hairstyles all the time.  They let it grow, they get it cut shorter, they color it, the go with their natural color.  What difference does that really make?  Why would that piss you off?  If it's the same girl, how can it be a bait and switch?  Bait and switch in my book means a different girl, not a different hair look.

One of my faves has pics on her site with short frosted hair, and pics with her natural color, much darker, and longer.  As long as it's her, I don't really care.  If you are going to not see a provider because you don't like her hair color/style, IMHO, you are way too picky.

If it is that big of a concern for you, ask her if her pics are showing her current hair color/style.

Swim

I dunno.. everyone has different tastes, so if a provider has really long hair in her ads, & decides to go with a pixie cut, she should tell people about it until she updates her pics.. some guys prefer short or long hair on a lady & it does make a difference. Also, if she has black hair in her ads, & dyes it blond, she should give people a heads up.. not so much a "bait and switch", but it is a portrayal of an image that isn't current, as hairstyle, either drastic length or color change, can make a huge difference & completely change the appearance of someone...

Don't know why it happens but for me it is a real turn on if the ladies hair is long. I get extra hard with a lady who has long hair.

make sure she knows about your fetish for long hair.  Ask if her hair is still long.  If she tells you it is, and you show up and it isn't, you can always just walk away.  Plus, that makes it out that she lied to you, and what else did she lie about?

Swim

who doesn't put it up in a bun or something like that during the session.

They don't want it mussed up because of the time it take to clean it, and they don't want to get it pulled on during sex either.

I love a big head of hair too, but I understand where they are coming from.

no not really, it's my first

I guess I'm just a drunk dumb cunt,
like the rest of the drunks here. lmfao

I thought it was spelled sin-ical? lol

DA

can't spell "gigolo."  You are both dum cuntz.

It's not bait and switch.
I wouldn't care. I know for some guys though it's a big deal if the hair has changed as hair is something that is part of the excitement for them. A good provider would know that at least for some of her clients and potential clients it could be an issue. She should do something (especially if it's a drastic change) to notify people that there has been a change.

We are women, More often then not we change our hair color and hair style more often then you buy new underwear... There are 4 seasons in a year and my hair my have changed at the very least 4 times through out the year..  By the way.. having pictures made everytime I change color or style would cost me about 2,000 a year just for the pictures....

Hair does not define the woman. It is not very often that when a woman changes her hair color or style that you can't recogonize her..

Not a bait and swith.. at all.. If you want long hair ask her. Is your hair still long..
Or a very nice compliment.. Hey, I love those long red locks"

Not every woman can grow long hair and have it look beautiful, but if you are one of the lucky ones, it can be glorious.

I once saw an Asian provider with incredible long hair that flowed all over me while we were together.  I loved it.  The second time I contacted her, she warned me that she'd cut her hair- and I mean really cut it.  I liked her a lot so I went ahead and booked, but it just wasn't the same and I never went back.  I'm sure it was more practical, but she wasn't nearly as sexy.

My wife pulled the same surprise on me years ago and it was the beginning of the end of the sexy phase of our marriage.  I came home from work one night and she'd cut her hair short.  I was so pissed I couldn't believe it, but I had to keep it all inside and tell her how cute she looked.  I had never seen her with short hair before and was really unhappy about it.

I know it's a lot of work to maintain, but if your client, husband or BF loves your hair long, you've got to realize that it's really important to a lot of men and it's also closely tied you your sexual appeal as a woman.  So it just isn't the same when it's gone.

IMHO, short hair is for women that either just don't give a damn, are middle-aged or older, or have given up trying to be sexually attractive.  As for providers, when the hair goes, so do I.

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My hair is nearly waist-length and unless specifically requested, it never gets put up. As for it getting mussed, 'sex hair' is sexy!  I may be a bit old fashioned, but I've always believed in the "a woman's hair is her glory" thing....

To the OP:  Changing a hairstyle is not a B&S in my mind, but if the color/length/style of hair is important to you, simply verify this prior to booking.  Easy peasy!

Random hot chick....

I don't know Edrienne but I'd guess that she attracts a different clientele than the group you belong to.  I'll let her correct me if need be, but she doesn't likely entertain many guys that pull up with a shopping cart.  You've stumped me, but only because it amazes me that someone so stupid could get access to the internet.

I agree with mistressjessica...  Women do change their hair quite often especially depending on the season and it is more noticable on a woman than a man due to the the styles, colors, length, etc.  Also, you have to take into consideration the ones that may add things like tracks to their hair to give it a more fuller look or longer length like some celebrities do from time to time.

If I was white knighting for EC, don't you think I'd want to use my main handle so she'd know who's ass to kiss as repayment?  If I want to impress her, I'll drop the money for an overnight and show up showered.  You'll be busy wondering why the whore you're with smells like latex & semen.

I have very long hair and many gents do love long hair.I have had a few gents that just kept telling me how they love my hair and told me to never cut it.No problem there as I had short hair many
years ago and would not go back to that.
I would not consider a short cut to be a B&S since it is the same lady.
But,a drastic cut or color should be disclosed at the time of the appointment request.
It also depends on if her hair not being long is a dealbreaker for you some do not mind and some do.