I’ve met with some providers that have done some crazy shit, and they seemed mostly normal, or off at first then very off later.
I recall one hobbyist telling the board to go fuck itself, cause this girl had so many great reviews. Then he goes out with her in public, she picks fights on the street with strangers, threatens him when he asks her to cool it, and then . . . Takes a shit in the middle of a busy intersection . . . so he breaks the date and loses his money. Now when I saw her she was a little odd, but very respectful and nice and amazing at sex, but certainly odd. Turns out she was off her meds and he had a very different experience.
I’ve met others that start reasonable, but then do or say crazy shit. I recall on VERY professional provider (I still see her) who seems totally normal. She’s complaining at our date, that the last guy was a jerk and hit her too hard in the tit with a riding crop that she thought the implant might be damaged. I was incensed, such abuse, bastard. She says, rough play is part of her menu, no worries, he just went a little too far. I asked her to hit my hand as hard as she would let me slap her face, I almost cried . . . That shit hurt. I asked her to slap my hand has hard as she would let me slap her ass, she left a mark on my hand and it hurt for two days. I didn’t partake in the S&M stuff, but later she brought out a glass and asked me to pee in it and she drank it (not my idea, though now it might be). You can never tell how crazy these girls are man . . .