I've found, when hobbying, that I typically have the urge to cum very quickly, to the point where I'm only good for a few thrusts in each position.  This isn't the case in my civilian life so I'm sure it's a mental block rather than a medical concern.  Just wondering if a delay cream may be the work around?  I saw a provider last year for a multi-hour appointment, who used one on me and seemed to work great.  Anyone have any experiences, good, bad, or indifferent?

If you use too much it can make you 30 minutes late for the session.

it's just anticipation..

I think Trojan used to have a brand specially targeted to delay climax.  Worked great in my younger days.  My fear is now it would function as a boner killer.  

Sometimes it’s nice to get round one out of the way so we can get to know each other in a more relaxed manner before building up for the next round...