My opinion is that giving gifts in this pay-for-play world is silly. I think its ridiculous to think that a hooker is your girlfriend.
I think if the guy wants to do something extra, just give more cash (ie. a tip) or set up more appointments. Repeat business is the greatest compliment.
BTW Charlene Sheen, if you're sacrificing too much to participate in this hobby, then quit this hobby. You can make a choice. If you choose this world, don't expect sympathy.
I will be seeing a lady 2 days from Christmas .
Option #1 - I know she has a shoe " thing " as most ladies do . I thought a gift certificate for a womans shoe store might be a good idea . The only store I can think of is DSW warehouse - is this a good store for selection ??? Any other stores you know of that may be better - In Miami / Ft lauderdale if it matters .
I am in Rio de Janerio for a few more weeks . Down the street is a father and daughter that make some INCREDIBLE hand crafted jewlery . I know nothing about jewlery but the talent they have is amazing ! They craft it right there in their tiny store . I actually have walked around in the back to see how it is done .
So option # 2 is to have them design and make a necklace , earrings or something . Being in a poor neighborhood they are eager for $$$ , and compared to American prices it is inexpensive to say the least . I could even take photos of the stuff being made , and then a little history of the jewlery gift .
I have " teased " her saying it would be wrapped and placed on the counter BUT she would only get the present AFTER the date - she is getting it either way , just having some fun with her ![]()
Which option would the majority of ladies like best , or if you got something better please interject .
Hoping up and down! Unique Jewlrey always wins!
I love shoes too but, there is nothing better then have Jewlery that someone made just for you and knowing that it can't be duplicated....
Option #1 - I know she has a shoe " thing " as most ladies do . I thought a gift certificate for a womans shoe store might be a good idea . The only store I can think of is DSW warehouse - is this a good store for selection ??? Any other stores you know of that may be better - In Miami / Ft lauderdale if it matters .
I am in Rio de Janerio for a few more weeks . Down the street is a father and daughter that make some INCREDIBLE hand crafted jewlery . I know nothing about jewlery but the talent they have is amazing ! They craft it right there in their tiny store . I actually have walked around in the back to see how it is done .
So option # 2 is to have them design and make a necklace , earrings or something . Being in a poor neighborhood they are eager for $$$ , and compared to American prices it is inexpensive to say the least . I could even take photos of the stuff being made , and then a little history of the jewlery gift .
I have " teased " her saying it would be wrapped and placed on the counter BUT she would only get the present AFTER the date - she is getting it either way , just having some fun with her
Which option would the majority of ladies like best , or if you got something better please interject .
I say go with the jewelry babe! It is a one of a kind gift that you will not be able to duplicate. You can buy her shoes at DSW any day!
It's unique and thoughtful. Shoes are good, but a gift certificate compared to one of a kind jewelry from a different country? No contest. It's a nice story to go along with the gift as well.
Kudos for the thoughtfulness.
Not just Xmas, but I always bring at least one nice piece of lingerie with me when I have a "date."
It always seems to be fun, and the girls always seem to appreciate it. ![]()
You're paying to get laid. And on top of that you're going to give a gift too? Do you think you're her boyfriend? You're really taking this GFE thing literally.
Instead of giving a gift, spend that money on another session with her if you like her that much. That way you're also getting something out of it. Or just give more cash if you really want to do something extra. But a gift? do you think she's going to fall in love with you?
I just don't understand the whole idea of giving gifts to a hooker, as if money weren't enough. I guess some people are willing to pay to pretend they have someone special in their life.
I'm a big fan of Lunch At the Ritz, a collector in fact. They're art pieces made with high quality crystals, gold etc... Very unique and whenever I wear something of theirs strangers feel impelled to compliment me on them:
http://www.lunchattheritz.com/
she will like so I am not sure that we can answer that for you. Hand crafted jewelry sounds great but I would put it in the jewelry box because I never wear jewelry.
I love tank tops so that is one of the best gifts I have ever received.
It all just depends on the lady. Does she have a gift tab on her website?
It seems we did have one Scrooge in the bunch who just does not seem to understand human kindness and thoughtfullness towards another person ..................Oh well , If we were all alike it would be a boring world I guess .
Trust me dude ...I am HAPPY being single !!!! The absolute LAST thing I would ever want is some woman telling me what to do , when to do it , and how to do it ...Trust me _ I am the happiest single guy there is and a girlfriend would just crash this happy life I have going on !
I am going with the jewlery idea after hearing your input .
The thing I learned from the women .................Is that the the jewlery will be " one of a kind ". I figured as long as it is beautiful and shiny , that was really all that mattered . I know women hate to go to a party and see an identical dress being worn . Never considered that fact on this dilemma . Just a guy being a guy I guess .....................Now I know to consider that issue more often .
Thanks ...........
These women make more than some doctors and attorneys. A repeat visit would suffice
Most of them work harder than Doctors and are more ethical than attorneys...
I give gifts to my paperboy (used to be one and appreciated the gifts and tips my customers gave me),barber, mailman, etc... Not extravagant, but it tells them their services are appreciated, why not providers?
Exactly, well said. How is it wrong to show appreciation. Many of my clients bestow gifts upon me. They don't have to and I don't ask for them but...I do have a place on my website that lets them know what I like in case they want to show their appreciation.
I treat all my gentlemen with kindness and care. Everyone I meet there is something special about them that I remember and cherish.... some more than others and usually they are the ones that I see often. No we are not boyfriend/girlfriend but human beings do build bonds and friendships that are lasting.
I may get flamed but I don't care really. It is the humanity in us that makes us special and there are some who lack that on these boards. The indignant attitude towards us makes me wonder why do you even pay money for our services if you loathe us to this extent ???? I'll never hide behind an alias or make rude comments about you or to you, I find that sort of behavior abhorrent and cowardly. Calling us hookers and prostitutes is a sign of mental instability. It is in those traits that abusers are born.
We have chosen this profession for one reason or another, the details may never be born in light for you but that is our decision. Many of us love what we do and are content in this lifestyle.
Wishing you peace in this holiday season.
Most of them work harder than Doctors and are more ethical than attorneys...
I give gifts to my paperboy (used to be one and appreciated the gifts and tips my customers gave me),barber, mailman, etc... Not extravagant, but it tells them their services are appreciated, why not providers?
Than most guys make in a day... ![]()
I have some beautiful items presented to me by my late regular who
may his soul rest in peace had some nice silver and platinum bracelets
and earrings , and a gold and diamond ring made during his travels.
With jewelry its a sentimental part unique in its own way with a style and meaning
from you not to be duplicated. Yes have something made for her. Rings are a bit personal
but bracelets and earrings or a matching set with necklace us perfect.
Good luck!
Angela