To all my fellow hobbyists out there maybe you can help me. When a hobbyist has to cancel at the last minute more often then not he has to pay a cancelation fee or gets blacklisted. But what happens when you schedule with an escort and she. Cancels with you at the last minute. Not once but twice in a row. Should the escort offer to give you a discount to try to book with her again. Or even a free session.
I would luv to hear from youon whether or not she really wants to see you. Seems to me, two last minute cancels in a row means she isn't particularly interested. Time to move on. The ball is in her court as to whether or not she wants to offer you a discount on attempt number three. I can pretty much guarantee you that if you ask her for a discount in this situation, you will never see her. But then again, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Step lightly. Good Luck!
In my experience girls who cancel offer $100 off the next time you book with her. On the rare occasion when I've had to cancel the same day due to unforeseen circumstances (I got the flu and had a high fever), I used the same concept the other way round -- I offered $100 extra the next time I saw her.
Mr. Fisher : your honor, I'm still not a lawyer, but this escort canceled on my client the last minute and he's seeking damages.
Judge Judy: do you have proof that the girl is an escort?
Mr. Fisher : Yes, I've seen her myself, she gave me the best BBBJ NQNS your honor.
Judge Judy: Does she have TER reviews? Photos accurate?
Mr. Fisher : Yes your honor. She also has Eros ads too.
Judge: do you have proof that she canceled last minute?
Mr. Fisher : Yes, it's all on email evidence and phone records. He's seen her before too.
Judge: officer cartman, please take all three of them into custody.
Officer: You must respect MA authoritah!
Mr. Fisher : :o(
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You see, I've done Judge Judy.
Oh, the things I must do to get by in life.
I've found that getting cancelled on or delayed is simply part of the game. Most reputable providers won't do it, or at least not too often, but there are quite a few disreputable ones. I would do my homework and ensure that I was contacting a provider that wasn't known for such shenanigans, but then again, it happens sometimes. Caveat emptor my friend.
I mean, once, I can see that, shit happens, but if she's cancelled last minute on me twice well there's a saying that applies "fuck me over once shame on you, fuck me over twice shame on me".
Honestly man, there are some really awesome women in TER, more than enough to choose from if one goes bad.
I feel your pain, I've been cancelled on last minute and I know how much it sucks, especially the anticipation.
Good luck to you, but remember we create our own luck.
...cancellation I would say if I were given a reasonable explanation for the second one I might try again and yes I would definitely expect some sort of compensation for the last minute cancellations.
My first reaction to your question however was I don't care if she offers some compensation or not I wouldn't schedule with her again. It's time to move on. There would have to be a very good explanation for the cancellation for me to consider the option I stated in the first part of my reply.
that is not always the case. Though we should all try to honor our commitments some out there do understand that shit happens and what most all of us hate the most is a no show without any communication what so ever. As most girls will say and I believe it to be true is that guys no show way more than the girls do but if you show them some respect and at least let them know what is going on you may find some understanding about it. It does of course make a big difference if a girl paid for a incall just for you or traveled a long ways at cost to meet you so we should understand that we should make up for that if it is the case.
As far as being canceled on 2 times in a row unless I had seen the girl before and really liked and trusted her I would simply move on to another so as to avoid a third strike so to speak.
Fool me once ... shame on you.
Fool me twice ... shame on me.
Fool me thrice ... I'm fuckin stupid. 
Since I said nothing about cancellation fees or blacklists I'm guessing the later.
-- Modified on 5/18/2014 9:35:13 PM
It is one of those life’s complex things. Many unforeseen things happen and it is very difficult to objectively comment based on one mans view.
wait 3 days and post on regional board IF you havent heard from her.
If she does contact you get, all Ed R. Murrow on her..
You can name her if you like...and be prepared for her WK contingent to bash you. Bad behavior is unfortunately here on both sides.
Or just put up a PSA and have those interested in knowing who you are talking about PM you.
Or just move along and find one who actually gives a shit about her job.
Or shoot for that discount/free session...I'm sure that'll be a great deal LOL Frankly if you're dumb enough to even contact her again I would hope that she sends you on a 6 hour wild goose chase to a dead end. Maybe then you'll figure this out!
I had the same thing happen to me. Provider is well-reviewed on TER and has all recent reviews. I am little confused as well. I know stuff happens, but I have never had a well-reviewed provider cancel.
why did you even attempt to see her again? Had you seen her previously and thoroughly enjoyed the encounter? Is she that hot?
No provider gets another pitch to get me on a 3rd strike.
Not counting canceling due to disrespect or misunderstandings. Just those last minute deals.
(I had my first 'very last minute' cancellation just the other night. And I still feel bad.)
Sometimes we can't give you a reason because it's just not appropriate, but it's a bummer to have to leave you high and dry like that. (At least for me.) Getting stood up or cancelled on for a date sucks.
I try to explain the best I can, give a little discount for the next time, and move on. 
-- Modified on 5/19/2014 1:33:30 AM
I'm sure you don't do that, but I had one last week. It was mentioned in another thread. We were set for Saturday, I emailed on Tuesday to confirm, didn't get a reply, emailed again on Friday and again no reply.
I gave her a week to contact me to tell me what happened, but she didn't contact me. I emailed her to tell her that I was surprised and disappointed that she'd do this, considering how professional she was to deal with at the outset.
She replied back within minutes to say she had emailed me at both addresses I had given her to tell me she couldn't make it. I receive hundreds of emails (mostly spam) at both addresses every day, and nothing came through from her until today. I checked the mail servers, and there were no emails from her.
I guess this gets filed under the "dog ate my homework" excuse category.
I had a provider contact me to make plans a while back and then cancel the day of and tell me not to hate her. Another week goes by same call and then she cancels again. She then contacts me again promises me she is coming, I fiqure let me try once more, yup I am a dope !!! but this time it was probably 30min to a hour before I was to meet her, the reason ? To long of a trip to just come see me !!!! Now remember I did not contact her to meet at this point she is asking me if I am available and want to see her. There has always been issues with her being late but I can live with that. When u contact me to meet and then give me a reason like that for canceling, I am done ! I like her but I hate being a fool more , done done done.
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