....that time and again list the same thing over and over.
For instance....
She came to a shuddering climax, she shook with her first of many o"s, I made her cum 4 or 5 times.
Bullshit.
You know, when you think about it, these ladies are good at what they do. They provide an illusion, one that will bring about pleasure and satisfaction.
Cumming for us is a big part of that fantasy.
They know how to tremble, quicken the pace of their deep breathing, low guttural moans become over zealous groans until finally they clench there knees tightly against your face or around your torso and scream " F**********K " then fall into an exhausted lump of sweaty flesh.
What I have noticed in my experience is whenever someone cums they exhibit a "cum face". Its a natural phenomena that contracts facial muscles, it can involuntarily widen or close your eyes and the same with your mouth. Now the cum face is different on everyone. Some are funny, some are strange, some are twisted and some are down right scary ugly. The bottom line is, everyone who cums has one.
Now my point after all of this rambling is simple, you already know where I am going with this, When was the last time you witnessed a provider showing her cum face ?
Exactly my point.......there is no cum face because they don't cum so stop flattering yourself.
BUT USUALLY AFTER A GUY EJACULATE ON IT.
BUT USUALLY AFTER I EJACULATE ON SAID FACE,
and every review claims "we then did it doggy (her favorite position)"... now we all know why.. unless you have a well placed mirror.. no cum face -- roflmfao...
Over and over and over and over. I can come with anyone without ever even thinking about it. That's why..I don't think my body just does it on it's own and my brain tunes into what my body is telling it. I get turned on and before I have even come I am dripping down my leg. Have to sit on a towel just to watch porn for gods sake and that is with not even touching msyelf. If more women would just get out of their own way (heads) many would be able to come more.
I think that it is a broad term to say that we all don't come as I have been with many a lady who comes as much as me so I know that many do.
Sara, I respect your words and someday hope to experience them.
My Gawd Sara I just checked out your website, your eyes are making me wet, hard and wet !!!
Anyway, I didn't mean for this post to come across as serious as it may have been taken. I know that I have been with women who have cum at least once, but I also know a few that didn't.
There are some things that happen when a woman has a good orgasm that are hard to fake well.
The fast leg twitches, which are very tiny, fast and fluttery (I get them too, froom a good BJ). Fakes are bigger movements.
The expansion of the vaginal cavity, which is supposed to help draw in sperm for insemination.
Body flushing.
Changing of the texture/flavor of vaginal fluids.
There are others but these are the easiest to notice.
Well now, were you hiding in the closet last week? I would have sworn I looked in there before the fun started.
I will not pretend to know what happens when you are behind doors with a lady, and I guarantee you don't know what happens when I am. I do not feel obliged to "keep count" but I know you are quite wrong. If you have a poor reaction with ladies do not assume we all do.
For Ms AintBeGotNo .... I'm sure I'd love to hear from you and set up some time together, if interested, be sure to get in touch darln'!
Re: envy --
I couldn't agree more - I first learned this while going to strip clubs. I usually have a great time with the women I "dance" with. And when some of them get going from what we do (a lot of intense sensual story telling) I ask them not to fake it for me - and I've been assured they're not faking. After awhile, I began to check down below when given the chance - and sure enuf wet as good be. I'm not a young stud, great looking, etc. but many a girl has given me freebie dances to keep going so she could finish and / or come again - and it wasn't just being nice to keep me coming back. I've turned down girls to dance who I've enjoyed in the past and they've taken my hand and had me stay for a few freebies in a row.
Why do I mention this - cause as I got better at it - I found there were certain women I've been with who obviously came (often more than once) and all they wanted to do afterwards was cuddle and caress and go home rather than continue working. Most always go upstairs to change their thongs cause they get so wet - while others it doesn't impact what-so-ever.
This carried on with some mongering I've done as well - where I saw the "cumface" and felt things I've only felt when real. I've also felt what hasn't been real either. So as has been said over and over - don't judge everyone by just a few experiences you may / may not have had.
I get Embarrassed when this happens.
I always wondred about this.
I recall watching a porn once, and thinking to myself, Oh' my! that lady looked scary. But, Im sure her O was out of this world!
I'm sure we all have a look when it's really good! Great observation!
No comment in regards to the pulsating that happens down below right after we come. It happens to the ladies also, you know......
oxo
Viv
I know I've made some of these ladies nut. Not positive about all, but some.
I'm selfish in that I'm not there just for 'them' to make 'me' cum. I feel it's my duty, and honor, to make them cum as well.
At least I try like hell!
i laugh everytime i read those reviews: "and that's when she had her first O........., then we went up against the wall for 10 mins til she had her 2nd and 3rd O.....LOL LOL LOL.
DUDES, these women are not cumming like that. not saying it doesn't ever happen, a few (FEW) women can cum easy. but most do not. think about it, it's hard enough getting a woman that loves you and finds you attractive to cum. these women are there for the money, only thing on their mind is you cumming and getting the hell out. you could just about safely say there is no way in hell she's gonna cum. they just act that way to make you speed up and cum faster. i don't, lol. i keep right on going slow, enjoying the feeling of that pussy wrapped around my dick and making it last as long as possible.
beautifulagony.com, a site full of nothing but orgasm face... of course, it charges for membership.
Some providers can fake an O real well??? I'm SHOCKED... SHOCKED I TELL YOU... SHOCKED to learn this!!!
Trust me. Some really do cum. It took me a long time to believe it, but yes... they do.
MVR
I have absolutely no idea of what my cum face looks like (hopefully not gross) but I really believe you are giving a dude that makes a chick's clit throb, knees shake, and feet feel numb a lot less credit than he deserves.
It is so not all theatrics. Give it to us boys - we love it!
XXX-Giselle
Since my eyes are always closed at that particular moment, I have no idea what my "cum face" looks like. You damned well better not either. If you are attending to the bussiness at hand properly, your face is bured too far in my yoohoo for you to get a look at my face. If you raise your head enough to look at my face all you are going to see at that point is my angry face because you just screwed up a perfectly good orgasm.
She's former military and if you fuck up her orgasm she might subject you to ... what is the current euphemism? ... "enhanced interrogation!"
Far better to have her subject you to "enhanced sensual practices!"
My last lady not only had cum face,she looked like she was having a friggin seizure!!!!
Maybe ya need to brush up on your oral skills!?
I have known many men over the years that never make a sound, never change facial expression when they come.
xoM
ps-sorry about the experiences you are having...plenty of providers actually DO enjoy their work, without acting. Maybe it's just the one's you are spending time with??
Why their's no problem cumming when your around!
Your Beautiful!
DUDE, sure, there is plenty of acting out there, and plenty of reviewer dudes who are full of it or are dumb and gullible and believe the acting....BUT..there are also some women who are just very orgasmic.
I don't need the evidence of the moaning etc, all agreed to be fakable, or even the CUM FACE, also fakableI take the evidence of her pussy. If it suddenly gets massively sopping wet, which is easy to tell either eating her or with several fingers in, and that corresponds to the moaning and jerking around, I'll take that as an authentic O, even with the inherant financial and professional incentives to fake.
If you've met a woman who has voluntary control of vaginal moisture, and can fake a sudden dump of juices, now THAT's hard to believe.
I've never had a rush of orgasms BUT on a good visit i've come a good two times from intercourse...I don't fake it. Sometimes reading reviews like what you are described are funny tho but if they really made her climax like that so many times I need to meet them too lol. Not saying it always in an illusion but HEY if they want the illusion it's their money let them have it.
So don't beat your chest by saying the ladies never have O's when we see them. FYI, the lady I saw tonight that I brought to O had no motivation to fake it. My appointment was ending, I had already delivered my shot on goal, and we were cuddling, kissing, and talking. In fact, she got up, and put back on her negligee, and got back into bed for I thought would be the last few minutes before time was up. But not so, kissing lead to me back to her nipples for oral (which I love), and she started to play with her pussy. After a few minutes, I went downtown for a second round of DATY. It may have taken twentysomething minutes, but she definitely got off, and hard!
She may have not gotten off on round one, as we broke off in order to fuck!
You are certainly correct that most ladies don't cum most of the time, but sometimes they do. If you have your oral skills where you want them to be, the ladies will always enjoy it, even if they don't reach orgasm.
Also, if you want to be cynical, some advice - unless being Jack Schitt is how you want to come off, curb it!
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