I'm been looking for a hott regular FWB for a while to meet once or twice a month. I've tried Sugardaddie.com but once you sift thru the girls really looking for husbands (and the clearly crazy ones) but there are a fair number of women who are asking for $2-3K  or more.

There are plenty of wonderful courtesans here with whom you can have wonderful experiences for a lot less...my goodness, there are some killer Pornstars and world-class courtesans who ask less than that.
Any thoughts? Maybe I'm better off here...it's not the money as much as it is, well, it just seems foolish. I have no problem gifting a young lady between 800-100 for a few hours of uninhibited fun but 2-3K just seems overreaching..
Thoughts, ladies and gents?

"denial" and "delusional".

this has been discussed over and over. Do a search.   If you think providers view you as a wallet, just wait until you meet the gold diggers.  They view you as Fort Knox.

I haven't even tried looking at sugardaddie sites because the local strip clubs can fill the "chase" of what you are looking for.

I say "chase" because there will be a lot of time and effort into finding "hot regular FWB".  The sooner you realize this the more fun and less headache you will have.  And if you think about it, this attitude will transfer to your encounters with the girls and can work in your favor.  As in they will feel that you are easy going and fun.

I've had success with one girl who is easily a 9 in anyones book.  NEGATIVE is that she doesn't do bbbj. POSITIVE is that I tip her $200 for about 2 hours of playtime.  How I made this happen is a long story.

Long story short:  I made her feel comfortable enough for her to give me her number at the strip club.  Eventually texted her that instead of dropping 200-300 at the strip club that I would just rather give her a "direct deposit".  Ended up working out well for both of us.  

After seeing her over 3 times the novelty is gone and the lack of bbbj and dfk has led me to pursue better.

Hope this helps.

But I think your right to stick with p4p & ATFs.  SDSBs tend to have to many strings attached on both sides of the spectrum.  

*Damn edit button!

I refuse to jump through all the damn hoops those girls insist on. I'd rather just pay to get my dick sucked and bail on all the "if you want me you'll do this and this" shit.

From a female's perspective, I found that the vast majority of the guys on there fell into three categories: (a) guys who wanted actual relationships/full-time arrangements, (b) broke guys who didn't quite understand the purpose/meaning of SD/SB relationships, and (c) scammers or guys wanting a "test drive."

I had WAY more success using Ashley Madison and just specifying that I was seeking a sugar daddy. If I were you, I'd give that a try.

When you meet someone for the first time on a SD site, odds are you're not getting paid for that meeting. You have to spend the same 3 or so hours getting ready, driving out there, and playing princess, but it is for nothing. If that guy chooses not to see you again for a monetary arrangement, you just lost that time, but hey...you likely got a free dinner lol. I think both escort clients and sugar daddies, are fun and beneficial. It just depends how much time you want to invest in it. From the female perspective, I have met 4 clients from SD sites, that have spent more money than any ONE of my escort clients.

Ask your ATF if she would consider a deal and by my math if you are willing to pay $1000 a couple of times a month there is your 2g's the SB is asking for.

Either way you will enjoy yourself, like the SD/SB route it's worked out for me so far. Don't neglect your other P4P it keeps variety in the mix.

MM

I checked a few sites out, first in an earnest attempt to meet a FWB.  the typical hour long tryst with an escort just doesn't compare to the all nighters I like so much with a SO.  After a nice sensuous night, I really like to enjoy a nice relaxed morning, definitely a morning type of guy.  After a while, I would join for a short time for comic relief, some of the ladies profiles were so hilarious as to want they demanded and what they think their p***Y is worth.   Makes me wonder what is going on in our society to make young ladies have such an elevated sense of worth, wait till they start a career and get their first paycheck, hello, welcome to reality.

For the heck of it. I'm not looking for a sb and am in no position to support one anyway, but just wanted to see what was on the site. I laughed when I found there were 4 well known escorts on the first 2 pages. They were using different names but the same pictures as on their eros ads and bp ads and websites!

SB's are more work than escorts. Some want more from their SD's (some sort of "relationship" but not love, maybe that's the friends part) and most want more compensation than I have to spend. If I wasn't on such a tight time schedule, I'd like the OTC friends part and probably have a lot more fun. With limited time and money, escorts seem to be the way to go... for now.

The biggest problem with escorts is they're known to LE. Find a good UTR SB and the LE factor is almost non-existent. OTOH, the best thing about seeing well-reviewed escorts is accountability for their actions. What do you do when the SB gets angry and outs you? She has nothing to lose, she's not under any kind of scrutiny.

Which route is best? I don't know.

Really? You spend 3 hours getting ready for a SD meet? All the girls I met showed up straight from work as is, no warranty implied The bigger question is what the hell are you doing for 3 f;cking hours? Must be all the work needed to turn a 5 into an 8, LMAO!

Oh, now that shit was funny! You are so lucky I like your ass lol. Damn right I am a 5 early morning boy...this 8 takes work!! A lot of damn work!

I like your ass too LR, it's a cute ass. Can't speak for your face since it's so f'ing blurry or maybe it's just my old eyes that can't see shit with or without glasses. Whatever, your ass is at least an 8 and I'm pretty sure you're not putting makeup on it like ass shadow, crack liner, butt foundation, false butt cheeks, etc. Just make sure you're at 8-level when I see you so I don't have to lie in the review.

I'd be honored to have you as my SB but you're too f'ing expensive and you live in that God-forsaken swamp with all those f'ing True Blood vampires, shape shifters, werewolves, and fairies. Did I miss any?

who clearly has some anger issues...I've been a VIP/White Listed member here for a long time and have found that there are few rules, but "be nice or STFU" is one of them.
Peace out

It was one line with an lol on it....

So when did you graduate from the HDHA? And you telling her to STFU unless she is nice in your estimation is okay? And how many hobbyists have you used that "rule" on who have been anything but nice?