I dont know what should be the title of this topic or why Im posting it.

I called the russian agency and they send me to see a 22 year russian girl who based on what she said had been here for only 3 months. I noticed her refrigerator was totally empty expect for some orange juice. Six months ago she was in russia and had two pictures of her brothers wedding in the living room. I asked her if she had pictures of her mom and dad and she got them from her closet and showed them to me. I looked at her clothers in the closed and she didnt have much. I told her she should give me her phone number so that next time she doesnt have to pay the agency fee and she did. We had a nice session, she seemed to be different, I felt she had just started working in this business and she told me she has been doing it for one month. She seemed to be very sad. We had sex in the first hour and I paid her for the 2nd hour, while we were having sex in session #2 I decided to stop and asked her let just talk.  

Okay, I called her 4-5 days later and we setup an appointment. When I went to see her I looked at her refrigrator and again she didnt have much in it. She doesnt have a car either. So I did something I never have done before. I felt really bad for her thats why I did it. I went to grocery store and got her enough to fill up her refrigrator.

I felt I had to do it. But Im just wondering, did I do the right thing here??????? I dont care about the money for the groceries, thats not important at all. That day I felt she needed help and I had to do it.

Reid I do the right thing?

I definitely think you did the right thing. What could it hurt right? You will get blessings regardless.

Reid I do the right thing?

What was the ladies response?  How did you interpret her response?  Haveyou seen her again and what was her situation? It is not what you did, that's done.  What is her ongoing situation?  Will she get on her own or continue to liv on the financial edge?  Does she know what and how?  All this plus her ability to communicate in English, which will make a difference.

That was a wonderful thing you did Tony. It brought a smile to my face

I have had family come from Russia/Ukraine and I know how hard it is for them when they first get here ie.not knowing the language,being all alone in a strange new country, etc...


I am sure she appreciated it very much.

Happy Holidays to you Tony!!!

You were acting in a kind way.

Reid I do the right thing?

You're a sweetheart!  Don't question your good intentions, God knows we could use more of them in this world!

-Anya

But, don't get wrapped up too much. This could possibly tear you apart.

Don't lose yourself in the "saviour" mode.

Reid I do the right thing?

You were kind, and it sounds like it was to someone who actually needed it (i.e. it wasn't pathetic "white knight" behavior).  What could be wrong with that?

I congratulate you for your fine efforts and feel her pain, too. In fact, please let me know her phone number so I can get in touch with her and help heal her pain.

Reid I do the right thing?

Right on Tony, My frequent provider needs no help from me, yet every time I see her I bring a small gift usually fresh flowers and a stuffed animal. Point being, there is nothing wrong in giving extras to a SP; regardless is their in need or not. lots of boneheaded clients think that guys who give extras or try being friends with a provider are naive and weak because it is all a job. You did good Tony.

are you sure it wasn't a trick pad?