So I've been PMing with a new girl whose look i love and who posted on a regional board with my normal handle, hence the alias. Nice pics which passed tineye scrutiny, but her personal website is fairly barebones. Problem is she has no reviews, as well as having no other ads up or history or anything at all anywhere on the Internet-even her own website doesn't come up in a normal Google search for her name. Her rate is decent but I don't know what she's willing to do or not do in private. Exchanges with her have been pleasant. But in no way have I broached the specific subject of services offered, to avoid any compromising legalities. She claims shes not LE, but LE can do that. Email contact only; i offered to chat with her on the phone to feel her out, but she declined saying her schedule is too busy to chat. So go there or not? Advice and input appreciated.
If she's that busy, she should have reviews. Doesn't pass the smell test for me. I'd pass. Just as its important that Providers verify us, we also need to be able verify our Providers. There's lots of other fish in the sea.
The OP is the only one who wants to see this provider.
Yet he wants to TOFTT.
hey get a brain and realize that when he TOFTT and if the girl checks out, others WILL want to see her. That's precisely what TOFTT entails and brings to the community, but something tells me neither clowns have ever TOFTT to know anything about it. Rest assured there are others who want to see her assuming she's attractive, but it's simply the uncertainty and suspicions getting in the way.
As for the other village idiot brilliantly suggesting a vote, don't let others decide what you (op) should do. Be safe and live to hobby another day. There's a reason why these posters are SPOTY nominees. rofl.
Downside is clearly greater then the upside, what if she turns out to be LE?
She has to be willing to work with you with more references of her own to prove her legitimacy. Even a phone call isn't going to be reliable indicator that she isn't LE. Or just wait and let someone braver TOFTT.
I have not had much problems talking about certain menus when asked politely and discreetly, through PM or comparing with another provider of similar menu. this avoids being too specific
To the best of my knowledge the OP is the only one interested in this ZDS.
... this meeting would be more of an TOFM, TOFY, or TOFI.
As for the other village idiot brilliantly suggesting a vote, don't let others decide what you (op) should do. Be safe and live to hobby another day. There's a reason why these posters are SPOTY nominees. rofl.
Downside is clearly greater then the upside, what if she turns out to be LE?
She has to be willing to work with you with more references of her own to prove her legitimacy. Even a phone call isn't going to be reliable indicator that she isn't LE. Or just wait and let someone braver TOFTT.
I have not had much problems talking about certain menus when asked politely and discreetly, through PM or comparing with another provider of similar menu. this avoids being too specific.
When a girl has her ad up and a guy is interested, chances are there are a couple of others who are equally interested.
wake up and smell the coffee, pimples.
I think his call for a vote was sarcastic.
And now for a picture of fungus
but as much as I hate to admit is as I have money on Fungus repeating as SPOTY, I have to agree with you, Fungy is nothing but sarcastic and I am sure that this was no exception, he just expresses himself so poorly it's sometimes hard to tell.
As for the OP I was with him in his intial desire to TOFTT until she said she was "too busy" to talk to him. That ended it for me. No reviews and "too busy" to talk, NFW.
my moron and your moron... LMAO
my moron generally makes no sense cuz he's incoherent.
your moron generally tries to be sarcastic, mean, usually totally clueless.
does inicky have his money on his moron? I think we all know who his moron is. rofl probably the same guy as CurlyW's moron.
we all have our money on our morons.... Ha ha ha
Websites, especially if someone is new, don't pop up in searches until they get a certain number of clicks. Also, TER has a feature where they put our sites in an escort mall, which makes it pop up in google searches. (Speaking very generally here.)
Being new makes it hard to show up on the internet until our name catches on
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If she's real the reviews will come. The downside risk here is much greater than the upside. Be patient.
and if so, could she inquire of them if they were willing to communicate with you via PM.
This is not likely to be the case however, so if you are unsure, I would not go forward.
I think the OP should go for it and TOFTT.
This is not likely to be the case however, so if you are unsure, I would not go forward.
and a green light to TOFTT. Maybe if she does give the OP some TER members' handles that she has seen and mrfisher gets positive replies from these guys, then the OP might consider TOFTT.
The biggest question is, "how experienced is the OP" to venture into the TOFTT arena?"
Makes having fun, sound like a chore.
Always always always error on the side of safety.
after they put you in the silver bracelets.
I do note them but I put them on HOLD pending reviews. Normally, I'd expect to see ads in usual venues BEFORE ads on TER.
Too busy for one phone call? >> HOLD pending reviews.
... I wouldn't take a chance on this one. Declining a voice call is a red flag to me (looks like LE). Too risky and the fact that this lady has no reviews and her website is barebones... nah.
Move onto the next one, preferably with a lot of reviews on TER. Play it safe.
The Forest Waits
Mayhem19 said it best: "Just as its important that Providers verify us, we also need to be able verify our Providers." And she has not been willing or able to do that. On to the next one! And much thanks to all who responded
Probably a good choice just based on the no phone call thing alone.
For those of you saying so, we all start with barebone websites and no reviews until somebody does TOFTT! And, some just don't really care about the website at all. If it's got her contact info, what you need to do to make an appointment, pictures, a little about herself, the donation, what more does it need? Vague sounding pull down menus that bring up a bunch of pages with too many ad buttons on them? When all the info could be sitting there right on the front page, what's the point? "Wow, nice website! I wonder if her blow job is as good as her website!"