mine was when a girl convinced me to let her peg me. she was pretty much my ATF at the time and i had seen her on several different occasions. we had a strong bond and she was so beautiful that during the different times i spent with her she almost made me forget about the unavoidable anguish and eventual burden of self-creating freedom that is inherent in man's existence. our last time together i went over to her incall for a pleasant session as usual and she welcomed me to stay a while longer and so i did, as we lie sprawled out in bed holding each other and sharing a couple drinks (with me admittedly drinking a lot more) and somehow we got on the topic of prostate stimulation and i volunteered to try it because i've never experimented with that sort of thing before. well once things got going it ended up being pretty terrible. in her attempt at alleviating her freedom by making me an object through sexual sadism (ie. freedom made objective flesh to control and transcend) she forgot how to actually have good healthy anal sex (lube, preparation). no need to go into too many details as i'm assuming you get the gist of what happened but needless to say i was distressed for quite a while after this, especially after she admitted to having psychological problems. it was somewhat my fault for placing my freedom into her hands (the masochist) so it is what it is. what sucks is several months later i still can't even watch anything anal in straight porn without being repulsed.

Who offer anal stimulation via a strapon.  

Sorry, but she was not skilled in this field & should not have used you for practice.

hookers just let any ole 50 something fuck them up the ass with some dirty fingers the trick forgot to wash?

With inexperienced johns trying Greek.

And did the hooker pour the drinks down your throat? I am sorry your ass hurt for a few days after, but you need to take some responsibility for your complicity in this act.  

Given the direction of the financial transaction? (I think that's a fair debate)

Ladies reserve the right to put the brakes on anything at any given time.

to see who are professionally trained in the sex industry?  

...and I often caution my kink callers who seem inexperienced about visiting someone who hasn't had any sort of mentoring in the fetish universe. I usually tell them that if the lady can't explain to them the difference between how to leave marks or how not to leave marks during CP, or the risks of using metal handcuffs as restraints, then it's time to run for the hills.  
You can seriously injure someone if you don't know what you're doing... and she shouldn't have used you for practice.
When it comes to personal responsibility, we all have to take it... that's what safe words are for. You can't expect someone to read your mind, and you shouldn't go ahead with something that you're not comfortable with. Power exchanges are all about communication.

I mean I like a BJ - and I like a BJ more if it's from pretty woman - but if the BJ is not that good - I'd rather have a better BJ from an less attractive lady... Got the picture?

Her skill set might have been a bit to be desired but I don't see where she anally raped him...oops there goes your fave word.

But many do not for fear or review retribution. Sad but true. The smart say no.

In fact it is a fetish for many. And there are many ladies who have had a john show up with unopened toys and expect her to have him use them on her. Is the trick thinking in a respectful manner asking a hooker to use toys he may have used on multiple women?

I am just not understanding why you could not utter please stop or no?

I am not sure we are getting the entire story as it actually happened. Personally I would like to hear from the hooker who did this but that is not going to happen.

I don't do anal and if the guy was attractive still would make no difference, tha answer is still no.

LOL "poor defenseless guy" isn't how I see it. Responsibility is a two-way street. They both carry responsibility to how this turned out IMO.

I am canceling my communications with you.

This goes for the most mundane of activities as well.  

... or just an immature drunk fucktard.

You blathering at me I would have done it sooner. Have a nice day! LOL

Was she the OP's hooker?

Yeah I see myself as a victim. Where do you get this tripe? It's you who sees the poor wittle guy as the victim, when in reality he was just as much the participant.  

Totally different writing style here! Me thinks you are totally full of it Mr. very sensitive and petite.

Stick to foot jobs!

though of course it would be her job to prepare in advance and direct... in which case it should turn out fine -

it is also the case that even without intoxicants sometimes people do get carried away.....

That should be an automatic no go for anything they haven't consented to sober. I things need to be kept safe, sane, and consensual in sex. Short of that it comes close to rape. Please note I am not saying he was raped, but that knowing he didn't have his full facilities should not have proceeded. Yes he put himself there but still drunk consent is not full consent.  

Rape is rape. Men can be raped by women. It happens. Rape is always serious regardless of the victim or the preps sex.  

Unless she gave the green light why the hell would she owe you a dime? Ladies and men alloway has the right to set limits on what is happening to their bodies. Of course you support beating then raping a woman who had enough if it means money for the pimp. I souldn't be surprised. You sicken me.

and read them in the order I wrote them.

This was drunk and stupid and a story meant to entertain, not take seriously.

Honestly, SOME of you have your buttons pushed WAY too fucking easily. The OP posted his little story, not looking for sympathy, but hoping others would share in their painful, but funny stories of their own. Once again, something funny, or at least fun has been corrupted and hijacked by people who took seriously something never meant to be taken seriously.

This thread is like watching The Three Stooges with someone who constantly makes remarks about how mean Moe is and how poking someone in the eye is dangerous. Maybe the OP is just horrible at writing "amusing anecdotes" but nothing in his OP suggested that he was looking for anything but to start a thread that would get other people to share their stories. I guess he certainly struck out in that endeavor, didn't he?

OTOH, I fuck drunk all the time, and I have NEVER ended up with anything stuck up my ass.

I do have a bunch of "drunk fucking" stories to share, but somehow this thread looks like it's moved well beyond where it started, Nice hijack assholes.

...and I'd say the same thing to any female who got drunk, fucked the college football team & then cried about the embarrassing rumors on the university campus later.  

What's that mean?

I know I said it wasn't. It is the comment about men being raped being a joke that pissed me off. That and JCA feeling entitled to ram his finger in a providers ass or get a refund. None of that was funny. Don't misrepresent what I said and to who.

and that was my point. you guys let dumber than dumb hijack the thread that was about "uncomfortable sessions" and turn it into a thread about rape.

I don't know how much if anything I believe about the OP to begin with, but HE is not the one talking about rape here. As I said earlier, some of you allow your buttons to be pushed all too easily by a guy with an IQ barely room temperature.

Read the link bellow.

I am sorry, but his OP was written so badly I never saw or read his second post.

My point remains though, I seriously doubt he made this OP to "cry rape" I think it was supposed to be a lighthearted thread about stupid situations we get into in the hobby. The kind of shit you laugh about afterwards.

When threads get hijacked by people engaging board trolls like JCA this is what can happen to a thread. Tip for the day, Don't feed the troll.

I did exactly what you are describing. Minus the up-sell.  

You are truly TSTTT now please fuck off now. I'll respond to you again in another week or so.

Even if you were gagged, you could have fought back and let her clearly know that you didn't want to do this.  If you agreed and then passively let her anal-ize you, then it's your responsibility, not hers.  Drunk or not has no bearing.  Even if bound (not mentioned), you should have had a safe word or safe gesture.
I'm not a huge guy and I'm older, but I've never seen a provider that I couldn't physically defend myself from if I needed to.
You get no pity points from me.

There's only a linguistic similarity, but: