There is a girl I want to meet up with but she has no reviews.  To those with more experience, is this a bad plan?  She claims she likes to keep things discreet.

or at least be prepared to be disappointed. You are having to go on her word alone. That's why reviews are so helpful. You're getting feedback from the guys who've seen her, also. You can always get lucky, but if you've got a lot to lose, why not play it safe?

I am more concerned with police than not having a great time.  She is on Rs2k, what do you think?

I have only seen one provider that I was the first review..I was extremely  fortunate  that time. I have been wary to push my luck again.

I too had No reviews...a girl has to start somewhere...so I would agree to meet guys for a drink...and if they chose Not to follow through...no hard feelings...I did that for the first month...and well...let's just say...the Fun started in the bar...and if she is Not everything she says she is...then You took one for the team...either way...You get to write an Honest Review...just remember though...it takes two to Tango

Nothing is 100% safe but if that is similar to P411 or D-C that significantly helps. Usually ladies on those kind of sites do have reviews somewhere, or at least have reputations.  Have you tried asking in her regional area board?

I will say that P411 has plenty of ripoffs mixed among the well reviewed.  That's not a slam against the site, but it's reality.  If you're just looking to hope to get laid without getting arrested, I can guarantee that plenty of us will take your money and lie about how much you'll enjoy our company.  Hell, I'll even send you pictures of a smokin hot lady and tell you it's me.

If you don't know why it's a bad idea, you're not ready to walk into that room.

P411...Cathy does All the background checks and whatever else they do...before You can become a member...have Fun

It is true that every well reviewed lady started off with no reviews. Thank you to all the gentlemen who were prepared to TOFTT before I had some reviews.

But she wants to be discrete? Really? Sorry, I'd take that as a red flag. While some women truly are under the radar, these ladies generally don't advertise or maintain websites, while also delcining reviews. Their business comes from regulars and word of mouth.

If she's running ads, then she's out there, and visible. In my opinion, I'd consider "I want to be discrete" coming from a lady with ads and a website to be code for "I don't reviews because I'll lose business if the reviewers are honest."

Of course, that is only my opinion, so take it for what its worth

discreet is....you can pay her, but she will not get naked, as that would NOT be discreet!

Chances are you will be disapointed. I was in the past. Wanting to be discreet usually means, I use fake pics and don't look anything like the lady in the pictures. On rare occasions you will get lucky with someone who is truly under the radar and you will have a great time.

Getting regular business will be good enough to pay her rent and purchase a few knick-knacks, but is it a viable and sustainable business model? No! What she'll find is that if she expects to remain in biz and build up and attract a clientele, she'll have to take risks and expose herself to more than Tom, Dick, Harry, and Steve. Three out of four of them will be off to the next circus and all she'll have is a limp dick and a high power bill.

Everyone starts somewhere. TOFTT is or should be required every now and then of course don't be stupid and go after a fist time poster, watch your local adds most of the time The posts will continue for a while, as, if it is a police sting its going to hit the papers right away. But Of course you will need to right a review even if it not wanted by her.  Also get a thow away phone so she cant track you down easily.

We can't hide in a corner and expect to be noticed. It's not reasonable to expect word of mouth to work because most men do not share their hobby activities with friends and acquaintances.

Yes, I know some under the radar types and one in particular is still e-mailing me two years hence after I was explicit about not seeing her again. It's sad because I don't want to be ugly about it. How do you tell someone that her time is past when she's in her 30s, good looking, and is a very good lay? What bothered me most was her insistence on me "visiting" weekly, always asking whether I wanted to smoke 420, and her not so subtle hints for buying her this or that. I told her in no uncertain terms that I was "renting" and not leasing. Lastly, I told her my name was not Tim (ATM for short).

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I'm based in Chicago, which is the homebase for RS2K. Both ladies and gents are screened before being allowed to join, and a lady cannot post an ad without being screened.

While there is obviously no face to face verification that the lady in the photo is who she claims to be, Cathy will absolutely remove ladies if she learns they are bait and switch or pulling other sorts of scams. That said, someone (or a couple of someones-I'm not totally sure of the requirements) needs to actually report these ladies for Cathy to have notice and take action.

No system is perfect, but RS2K has survived since prior to the time of the hobby's move to the web, and has remained safe and successful in one of the hottest/riskiest cities in the nation. I'd say go for it.

I have had no problem seeing some girls without reviews. I look through their site and where they place their ads to get an idea of who they are ect. Can get a good idea of someone through what is written on thei site or through their blog. I probably wouldn't see someone who posts online without having a website and some paid advertising. I have met some girls who advertise in their city section here on TER that have no reviews yet.

To an extent I agree... every girl has her first..... review that is. Not to say it should be at his expense but a girl has to start somewhere. Just a thought.

I do not feel obligated in the least to gamble my marriage and career to help her get started. I let someone else, who feels he has little to lose, TOFTT.

Like you, I have no problem seeing girls without reviews. If they have a website that is even better.

Actually I have had no disapointments either with these unreviewed ladies. TER is full of 9's and 10's that are in reality a 5 or 6 and a 7 at best. (There are a few exceptions of course)Almost everytime I see one of these hyped up 9's or 10's I am very disappointed. Guys need to be more honest, and stop kising these girls asses to get a discount, freebie or whatever.

I am no fan of Jimmy Dean, but on this scoring subject (I hate to admit it) he is right.

That's why I have always hesitated to call, text, or email on a regular basis. I like the man to do the chasing. I figure if he is interested, he will write or call. Men like variety. I am just happy when they like me enough to come by now and then. I like variety too.

Nor did I day anyone should or had to..... me saying a girl has to start somewhere was me just saying. Since I was in the same place and was new again there was no shortage of people willing to see me and in no time someone from her decided to do a review and then I got another and then another and so on.

...that too and therefore would be scared in a sense or uncomfortable rather with posting on TER or whatnot or escorts.com etc, I have some regulars who love the company but since they don't share their activities with others is why they don't review.