is pretty much the only way in most times. A few times, I believe I passed her next date at the elevator or corridor... maybe not? Uncomfortable.
I do not park in front of the main entrance. And I don't take the elevator down! NO, I don't jump out her window... I take the stairs. Usually at the end of each corridor & exits directly into the parking lot. Often has a door that locks behind you. (who cares, I'm going out not in) It's really not a big effort, much easier to go down stairs than UP even with my cane. If I catch some luck (or know the hotel) I'm parked nearer the EXIT. skb
I would prefer you meet in Lobby that way they have camers and they would less likely to hurt if they are on cam Even cops don't like to beet people on cam. Look at R. king.
And I tell the the name of the chick and the room she says she in. The I see her pimp that I start a fight with hime some times. They ask me to leave so I go in back go then as some one coming out.
It starts when you're always afraid, step out of line the man comes, and takes you away>>>
Sorry that old Buffalo Springfield song just popped into my head!
Now, given the choice of riding an elevator down 10 floors, or taking the stairs...I'll push the button. Not because I'm lazy, but what a great place to get mugged, and/or filleted!!! No thanks to the empty stairway.
I park my car where it's least likely to get broken in to or stolen, not where the quickest escape route is!
I don't care if I run into her next date, or if I run into a whole platoon of LE...My business is finished! I'd be more worried if I saw them on the same floor as her room.
Ever get that feeling that someone is watching you when you take a shower??? Nah, I don't...just thought I'd ask.
I memorize the person's first and last name and room number in the car out side... Sometimes I also write it on a small piece of paper and stick it in my right coat pocket for easy and discrete reference... I silence my phones and stride in with a PURPOSE! I smile and give a polite nod to the person at the counter. I use my peripheral vision to scan for the nearest elevator and walk directly towards it...
The point is- don't hesitate, don't look GUILTY, or- god forbid- let your eyes dart about, while looking over your shoulder suspiciously! This sort of behavior only makes you look like you are, in fact, up to NO GOOD! It's normal to have your heart race a little... but make sure your outward body language says calm, cool, and efficient...
Hey I have an idea, have you tried prosac or zantac, I here they are really good for anxiety. You could put a paper bag over your head. (make sure you cut holes in the eye area so you dont run into THE MAN. And dont let the boogie man get you on the walk down(I hear he hides under steps). Oh, and BOO. Im sorry did I scare you. You are kidding arent you???
exactly. I'm usually a shy person. But I do like hotels. More fun than my boring drab abode. I do get nervous waiting too long for the lady to call to tell me the room number, if it takes too long. But if I know it before hand, I try to pretend I'm there to go to my room. I was out taking a walk seeing the city, or at least I'm visiting a friend who is in town but is staying at the hotel. Well that's the kind of mindset in my mind I try to keep.
This is why I prefer outcall. I usually try and tell the lady where the steps / elevator is from the entrance as a courtesy unless it is a case where it will insult their intelligence (such as the elevator directly beside the front desk and it faces the entrance.)
Never had a problem. I just make sure to ask her when making the call to get her room # where the elevators are. Just don't carry anything with you that draws attention, like flowers. As for taking the steps, not practical in tall hotels.
When you go to her hotel, turn off your phone but, walk thru the lobby and pretend you're having a conversation with someone. As you pass by the front desk, mention to the "person your talking to" that you just got back to the hotel and you'll meet them in a hour or so after you get back to your room.
Just keep walking and act like your going about your business like anyone else staying at the hotel. And Godsake, use the elevator, up and down, that's what everyone else is doing.
No need to tie sheets together and repell out the window!
hotels, and they don't book appointments that close to each other.
Also five star hotels have lobbies with lots of amenities, places to just sit down and relax. You don't feel out of place when there other guests there doing the same thing. I never feel like I have to sneak in and out of a hotel.
I spend a lot of time in hotels/motels on business. The staff see so many guests per day, if you act normal, they will never remember who you are. Just go about your business and keep your nerves in check. Just remember don't pound the door to the room, knock lightly, the lady will appreciate it.
as a matter of fact, I did decide that I would not see the lady again, where I think I passed the next guy getting off the elevator. The session ended abruptly. I've since heard she's unwelcome at a hotel a Fav uses often...
I do stick with the idea of changing up the exits. I have taken the elevator & then a side door (it was closer to walk) & only occasionally taken the stairs. skb
I'm a big fan of side doors. When I do out call I find a side entrance and park there. I let my ATF know to look for my car and call me so I can come down and let her in. I learned this trick from her. She is low volume now but when she used to do agency work she tried very hard to avoid going through the lobby a lot during multiple day stays.
Don't go to the door naked... or draw attention to yourself... Please don't introduce yourself in the hallway GEEZ. Keep the fireworks and flare guns at home. Wipe the donut powder off your face before knocking on my door lol.
Be sure of yourself and where you are going... Things I use? Talking on phone, or so they think... Newspapers, baseball hats, soda. Simple things that make it look as if you are staying there and not what you are really upto...
I also do not leave the same way I came in... Gee ma'am, You just got here an hour ago lol.
Almost had a heartattack once... I went out the stairwell and I set off the emergency alarms. Talk about a big fuck up. I just kept on going to my car lol. Did not realize that the hotel had alarms for the doors. Very odd. I can laugh now, but I was not laughing when it happened.
When I have to go through the lobby, I do as has been said here, act like I belong there. Since I am carrying a WalMart bag, I figure if anyone looks at me, they will think I just went out to pick up some small items I forgot to bring along on my trip.
A number of girls who visit Tampa visit a place near the airport where the lobby is on the second floor and I don't have to go anywhere near it. Love that place. Ladies, if you want the name of it for future visits, feel free to PM me and I will tell you. It's right on the water too, which gives a nice view.
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It's normal to have your heart race a little... but make sure your outward body language says calm, cool, and efficient...