Just go to the top right of the page and you'll see your handle. Hover the cursor over it and "Account" will drop down. Click on that and go to your Account Manager page. At the top, next to your handle you'll see a box that says "My Alias" (or something like that...since I already have an alias, that's what it says). Click on it and you'll be told how to choose an alias. Once you have it, you can post with either your handle or your alias (just not on the same thread). You can also review with your handle or your alias. So, yes, they are linked here but only on your account. No one else can tell unless you mistakenly out your alias by posting carelessly. You can also change your alias but only after waiting for a period of time, though I forget how many weeks or months.
I was given this in from the scheduler for a provider I was trying to schedule with --
I provided references and they asked for my TER handle which I gave....
"I’m not sure if your aware but ladies are actually saying you still write reviews in 2020/2021. Most ladies now don’t like that and try to stay away from men who do. Someone has blacklisted you for it even. "
I did not realize this
Is the statement "Most" Correct?
I have had providers ask for a review in the Past, is this now a new state of affairs?
What changed in 2020/2021?
What do Providers and Clients think ? review or not to review?
For me the whole point of reviewing providers on TER is to continue my VIP membership free of charge. As such, I write my reviews based on my experiences and perceptions, whether they be good or bad, regardless of how any particular provider benefits or suffers from said review. The problem with that is the risk of being blacklisted for being honest. As such, your best option is not to tell these providers or agencies that you write reviews. Don’t offer them your TER username, especially if you’re writing negative reviews. In addition, don’t write super specific reviews, and don’t post them right away, that way you won’t be identified as the person who wrote that review. I recommend writing up the review and then waiting 3 months before posting, that way (hopefully) the escort won’t know you wrote it.
TER is an immensely useful tool but it’s also something of a double edged sword, which is why you have to be a bit more careful with how you wield it, especially in this modern era when providers can simply open up a Twitter account and control the narrative from their own feed. Remember, escorts don’t need reviews, hobbyists are the ones that need them.
It is indeed sad that you can get blackballed just for being honest.
I agree with your measures, except for the three month wait. In many cases, a provider might very well be gone by then, and imo you're not helping many if that's the case.
who wrote the review. I dont see many ppl and all my apps are different. I know when a review is fake. (have had few of those already)
I don't think I'd want to see a provider who would blackball me just for writing reviews, so no loss to me if they do.
IMO that is. If a lady doesn't want to be reviewed, she should have it on her website and ads. I respect ladies that do not want to be reviewed and have friends in the biz with no reviews policies.
The scheduler should have said something different to you IMO. Just say the lady you want to see doesn't see TER reviewers period would have been direct and to the point. Throwing in the alleged BL was out of line and didn't do the ladies in the biz any favors either.
Steph XO
-- Modified on 7/27/2021 8:11:23 AM
naivete yields to brutal honesty. That's why kids, lot of time, tell the truth. Hence the folklore of "Emperor has no clothes"
I personally love it when I get a straight answer, than some canned BS answer. That being said if I were working for a woman as a booker, I would very much respond w/ a canned answer.
-- Modified on 7/27/2021 5:39:17 PM
1. I don't see providers who don't want reviews.
2. Rule 1 takes precedence of over any other considerations about a provider I'm considering.
-- Modified on 7/27/2021 2:37:12 PM
Agreed 100%.
If she can't handle an honest assessment, then I don't want to see her. Kinda makes me think she's hiding something.
I have not used an Alias only my Handle. How is this set up on TER? Are we reviewing under an Alias rather than our handle?
Does the TER site link the Alias with the Handle/ account?
Just go to the top right of the page and you'll see your handle. Hover the cursor over it and "Account" will drop down. Click on that and go to your Account Manager page. At the top, next to your handle you'll see a box that says "My Alias" (or something like that...since I already have an alias, that's what it says). Click on it and you'll be told how to choose an alias. Once you have it, you can post with either your handle or your alias (just not on the same thread). You can also review with your handle or your alias. So, yes, they are linked here but only on your account. No one else can tell unless you mistakenly out your alias by posting carelessly. You can also change your alias but only after waiting for a period of time, though I forget how many weeks or months.
Just click on his handle. Funny, he has a ton of reviews, too, so you'd think he'd know this.
If they are using an alias then you know they are VIP.
If you got a PM from them then you know they are VIP.
If you can do the math on their reviews, and figure they were submitted within the free VIP day range. then you know they are VIP.
If it’s a provider and her reviews are linked, then you know she is VIP.
Other than that, there is no sure way to click on a handle and know a poster’s VIP status.
-- Modified on 7/31/2021 6:31:01 PM
It was that when I did it I saw the link to all his reviews.
If you do the math, there is nothing saying he is currently VIP by his reviews. He certainly could be paying for VIP or submitting RAPs and PRs, but we have no way of knowing that. However we can figure out how many days of VIP he has by his reviews. If he only receives VIP by submitting reviews, then he most likely is out of VIP days currently.
It would have to be something like he submitted all 3 of his May reviews on May 31, and then followed up with the June review (any time in June). That would give him 60 continuous VIP days (which would have ended yesterday.)
Because I am lazy, I just assumed. LOL.
Given you are giving out you TER handel you would want to review under your alias. You probably want to keep posting under the main account name (handle) or using that for screening probably becomes moot.
Though message on Ter, other than that I don't know any thing about review boards, that way learn new sights all time many are junck.
This is a service; if a provider doesn't like being reviewed, she needs to find a new line of work.
My experience is that the ones who don't like reviews are less concerned about the explicit details (as they claim), they are more concerned about bad reviews which will hurt their bottom line.
Write as you see fit; don't wait...especially if it's a poor encounter because during the time you're waiting to post it, other clients are likely being burnt. Btw, if it's a bad review - why would you care what she thinks? You won't be seeing her again anyway...
how long a restaurant would last if they made you agree not to review them under any circumstances. Its not a reasonable request under any circumstances regardless of the goods or services being provided.
Try posting a review on the #1 restaurant booking site/app--Open Table.
First you had to make a reservation on OT. Then you have to show up and eat there. All verified. If not your post does not go through or is taken down.
On TER, hobbyists can make up bogus reviews having never even seen the provider, or making claims that were not true. Happens all the time. Right CDL? That's your M.O. for your ticket to FREE VIP.
Next, Mr. Impotent check out the app. Many top restaurants are not even listed on Open Table. They don't want reviews posted there and/or they don't want to put money in OT's coffers. They use other marketing devices like Twitter, etc.--just like many providers who no longer advertise or want to be reviewed on TER.
Of course you don't know any of this because your very successful business career brings you to McDonalds and Burger King. You can take your entire large staff for a full course meal for the price of a K-Girl. Of course that means you are sneaking in several cases of Costco Beer.
You really need to find something else to occupy your time. These junior high school comments are really boring.
More like 3rd grade on the school yard!
+1 from me as well. It's always funny to see providers who want to be advertised but shun the review.
Reviews of goods and services that are sold is a fundamental concept of a producer-consumer relationship. The reason most people are on review sites is because they want to hear opinions of others on quality of what they're buying. If they don't care, they arent on ter in the first place most likely.
However these days TER is a shadow of its previous self. The number of reviews is way down--especially real reviews and not fake one's written to get VIP for free like CDL. It would be great to wind the tape back 10 years to TER's hay days, though that it is no longer realistic. TER is kind of like your collection of VHS tapes--relics of the old days.
There are a few very good providers still here on TER, however the majority have moved on and the next generation know nothing about it. When they want movies they watch Netflix; when they want music they listen to Spotify. The best of the best young providers advertise on P411 and use Twitter and other social platforms to drive their business.
Enjoy it while whatever life is left is still here. The oxygen is being sucked out of the rooms by know-it-all's who self promote their notions that cheap is the highway--and the only way. That's what happens when they are on fixed incomes and they come here, just like the "early bird" dinners to save money.
Wondering when was the last time you posted a response that did not include a reference to CDL. Was that in 2012 too?
Please provide everyone with the review requirements for membership.
Oh, there aren't any, huh? So critique me for not submitting reviews. Ouch. I guess that you prefer your buddy CDL's approach of posting FAKE reviews to gain VIP status. For the record I'm part of the majority of VIP's who prefer to keep a low profile and pay for VIP status. Do you notice that TER isn't complaining?
Its noble that you contribute reviews here, given the overall lack of reliability of them. I don't post much either. However when I see liar and dangerous poster like your buddy CDL I believe its important to set the record straight. Otherwise this board will be left to the warped minds who espouse dangerous, discriminatory and hate filled rants here.
Thanks for your post.
Well, I'm a newcomer to TER more or less, but I don't come to this site to look at providers ads. The site to me is a place where reviews are. So I look at reviews.
I disagree about ter becoming obsolete. For certain segments, reviews are consumed by many a customer. Now, outside these certain segments, perhaps the reviews are down. I assume shutdown of the site due to March 2018 event probably had something to do with it.
I think you are way too fixated on some people finding value in cheaper things. It's natural for consumers to value a cheaper product more if they feel the difference in price is not equal to difference in quality. It's only natural to do so. Now, do I think people need to make jokes on mongers being "cheap"? or vice versa, "paying too much"? No,I don't. Some mongers are tight on finances and I don't think anything is funny about that. Telling them to find another hobby is pretty insulting imo. And vice versa, laughing at a monger for paying more when the said monger has no issues with paying more, is also head-scratching.
However thank god you have sensibility!
Please forgive if you've read any "cheapness" comments as being directed towards you. I respect hobbyists that have all different "budgets". However in the polarized climate that we live in, including TER I stand up to liars and bullies like chief clown CDL for making his absolute statements that all expensive providers are not worth their money. When he reduces everything down to value and time in such a condescending way I find it vile and object.
The shut down certainly accelerated the slide on TER, however it was already ongoing. Part of it is attributable to allowing blatant abuse of the fake review-free VIP provision. That policy IMHO should be revised and all active hobbyists should pay, period.
So many higher end providers left en mass with new digital options. TER ad boards were replaced with options like Tryst which show more beautiful photos and have dynamic links to their calendars so if they are touring it Tryst moves their posts around. Twitter allows a more playful look and you can get a flavor of some of their personality.
Plus they avoid the antagonism from the crybabies and mean spirited. Sounds to me like they have better lives. I wish that we had a better life option because the good old days were different. Being gentlemanly has been superseded by arrogant know-it-all's who lie through their teeth and spit bigoted, hate-filled rants. That's why hobbyist membership is waning.
I did not take your comments as directed towards me. I am not in my teens, so I'm not insecure anymore about what others think of how I spend my money.
However, I do think that accusations of being cheap in general are unneeded. I think those kinda insults are childish, just the same as insults towards overpaying.
Now, we all have different values of what is worth so it's OK for me to say that I think a group of providers is a better value. But obviously in context of my preferences and my viewpoint. I never speak for others. I do think that kgirls for me present(ed?) some of the best value. It's not a slight to anyone else to say that,thats just how it is. And just because someone is charging less doesn't make them automatically inferior or less good or whatever.
I agree and will restate "Please forgive if you've read any "cheapness" comments as being directed towards you. I respect hobbyists that have all different "budgets"."
I also agree with your statement today, "And just because someone is charging less doesn't make them automatically inferior or less good or whatever."
I'm sure that you will agree that the comments about providers charging more doesn't make them automatically a thief for trying to suck more money out of a hobbyists pocket. It could be looks (more model like than most), body type and fitness (less scars, tight muscles), better packaging (sun tan, makeup--or not, clothing and lingerie) better environment (incall); more appealing menu, or simply LOWER volume.
Absolutely. I never knocked anyone for paying more. I mag have commented, especially in light of prices for some going up that imo provider X or y may not be worth it anymore, but it's just my opinion. There are providers who could raise prices twice and still be wroth it in my eyes, but not in eyes of others.
I have no problems with you (or anyone) posting their opinion--that's why we are here, right?
I have issues with some high horse hobbyists who like a broken record try to bash the higher end providers. They are the one's who have no point and are as blunt as cement mixer.
What changed in 2020/2021?
Some would say the "woke" provider crowd moved in. Perhaps it's just that TER went away for so long many reputable ladies found ways, through established clientele, to do business without it. The rest are just bs ladies that tag along with the crowd and charge sky high rates while putting out lackluster service, and with no way of researching, they stay in business until word of mouth catches up with them. I steer clear of ladies of who not want reviews, unless I have seen them before and want to again. None of that is worth being blacklisted for. Speaking of which, I don't know that this is even a cause for a blacklist. New girls with no reviews or a no review policy are a no-go.
So I've read a lot of the posts, which only talk about a particular provider blacklisting someone. But the OP says a booker told him, "I’m not sure if your aware but ladies are actually saying you still write reviews in 2020/2021. Most ladies now don’t like that and try to stay away from men who do. Someone has blacklisted you for it even."
This implies that he's been blacklisted in a general sense, that some provider blacklisted him and others know about it. Is that really a thing...some site or network where providers can post about a hobbyist?
I think it implies that some lady don't want to see someone who reviews many providers on a review site. Not necessarily that hes been BLd. Basically, there's some review threshold that make the providers say that he might pose a certain risk to them.
There are provider only Blacklists that identify mongers as “Do Not See”
right here on TER. There is a private board for Reviewers as well where we can talk about the providers. (Be aware that there are often "leaks" to providers about what is being said about them, so you still have to be careful.) Click discussion boards, and then "More" and you will see it on the drop-down list.
as a provider to me if I guy has a desire to talk about our get-together so be it it is a compliment that I could inspire him to write...
as a provider to me if I guy has a desire to talk about our get-together so be it it is a compliment that I could inspire him to write...
I love to read and write them and I try to articulate on our dates with class and dignity so as to reciprocate for the fun and satisfaction she provided me and hope from my review she gets more business. I’ve been thanked and complemented many times for the nice reviews I’ve written on here etc.
sorry if I sound big ego, lol, Just telling it like it is.
Jeff in NJ
Quite frankly, I think that those who don't believe in Giving or Getting reviews on site like this is self obsorbed