Hey Matt,

From what I've been able to gather, some hobbyists don't want them as they don't want further "proof" of the visit, though I'm not sure I see that as valid if they wrote a review.

Some hobbyists don't want the provider to have their TER handle so their review is more anonymous and without repercussion if it is a negative review and in that case, they can't be white listed without the handle.

I've heard some providers don't white list for a couple reasons- one, not wanting written verification on line of a visit, and two- not wanting to be "responsible" if a white listed guy changes and is not so hot later.

That being said, most of my providers have voluntarily white listed me after seeing the first white list referral, assuming tht if there is one already that I don't mind.  I do let my TER handle be known, I've found that my active participation on the local board making my handle familiar, along with the white listings has made my pre-visit screenings either very smooth and fast, or in a couple cases not necessary.  So personally, I've found them desirable and helpful.

Personally I don't really care if there is a white list or not. I don't plan on seeing a lot of different providers.

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...it doesn't seem to get me out of the need for references.  

Always fun...

"Hey baby, how have you been? You were so, so hot. Hey, by the way, would you mind vouching for me so I could f**k someone else?"

it's me telling the other girls he's not a cop, wasn't physically abusive, was generally pleasant and didn't short me. Basically, I'm endorsing him as a client. (However, if the client was abusive/shorted me/was a cop, I'd blacklist him and tell every provider I could.) It works both ways boys...

I am very willing to give references to other girls and very willing to explain my whitelisting of anyone to them as well.

I look at whitelisting as another tool to keep the girls safe.

I try to put one up after every appt. (when I remember- sometimes I forget.)

Katie

Ok.  So some hobbyist dont want their handle known.  Fair enough.  If that be the case, then why should the provider assume you are who you say you are just because you say so??  If you dont want you handle known, some times this is the only respourse a provider has to verify you.  Without a handle, you could be anybody.

If a negative review is posted on a provider, more times out of any it is because the provider didnt match up to what the client had anticipated, or she was a flat out bait and switch, etc.  A negative review is a negative review...if a provider doesnt want one..then anti-up and play the game as it is to be played.  Simple as that.

It is a list for another way a  provider who is VERIFYING a client for an appointment can have the comfort zone of knowing this guy is actually blah blah....if you go bad, then a provider can easily have it removed.

You can turn it off in your profile.  I'm not into the whole white supremacy thing, whether it is race or subjective referrals.  It all smacks of entitlements, preferences and creates an atmosphere that generally does not encourage keeping hope alive.

are truly fun and that I truly enjoy being with.  so there was a mutual feeling between us.  not sure that it helps me?  except that if I am seeing someone new and she knows of TER I do point those out to her.