: TER General Board Discussion : You bever dated anyone, what the heck you care .Wouldn't you want to know who and if they real.

worried 1082 reads

posted 5 months ago

1 / 20

verification question

Is sending only a selfie for verification purposes overstepping? Thoughts.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 34 reads

posted 5 months ago

2 / 20

A selfie of you . . ..

or a selfie of the provider?

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 28 reads

posted 5 months ago

3 / 20

Depends on yourself.

Do you mind sharing a selfie 🤳 with a smile?
I use real life id for verification purposes. I love to see whom I am sharing my time with. I do love a good selfie with a smile. 😃

Find the provider that fits your needs. If you don’t feel comfortable sharing don’t. There are lots of providers who rely solely on references from providers they don’t know personally. Everyone is so very different & that’s okay. The fun part about this hobby lifestyle is there is something for everyone. Happy hunting. Smile for me! 😜

Related Link: https://www.happierlife.info/

John_Laroche 23 reads

posted 5 months ago

4 / 20

what's your pain tolerance?

Are you married?
Do you have a social media presence that she could exploit?
Do you have a job that would be in jeopardy if you are discovered to solicit sex workers?

That said, JUST a selfie is a pretty low level of verification on her part.

If you do proceed, take a unique selfie, not something you already have. Consider using a photo editor to slightly modify your appearance, but keep close enough so she doesn't turn you away at the door.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 28 reads

posted 5 months ago

5 / 20

Plausible deniability

If you are going to be sending pictures of yourself, use one that is online somewhere. This way if they attempt to use it as extortion evidence, you can say they just copied it from online.

Rafl 27 reads

posted 5 months ago

6 / 20

Re: Plausible deniability

Yep.

Posted By: lester_prairie

Re: Plausible deniability
If you are going to be sending pictures of yourself, use one that is online somewhere. This way if they attempt to use it as extortion evidence, you can say they just copied it from online.

WIMissScarlet See my TER Reviews 29 reads

posted 5 months ago

7 / 20

selfie request

If you don't feel comfortable sending one then find another provider. Why must we keep going over this.....

Boobsman100 20 Reviews 27 reads

posted 5 months ago

8 / 20

You bever dated anyone, what the heck you care .Wouldn't you want to know who and if they real.

END OF MESSAGE

brownjack 1 Reviews 25 reads

posted 5 months ago

9 / 20

Ditto (eom)

END OF MESSAGE

worried 32 reads

posted 5 months ago

10 / 20

Re: Plausible deniability

Good answer. Also agree with John that is low level exposure. Also, liked the opposite answer with the photoshopping your selfie. Hope they don't get too disappointed looking out the peephole. HA!

John_Laroche 20 reads

posted 5 months ago

11 / 20

Re: Plausible deniability

The only downside of using a pic that is already on social media is that she could potentially learn your real name, etc... using reverse image search. I would. I have.

snafu929 18 Reviews 37 reads

posted 5 months ago

12 / 20

Re: selfie request

On this, we are in 100% agreement, lol! Lots of options out there.

Stay_thirsty_my_friend 25 reads

posted 5 months ago

13 / 20

Selfie

I have been asked to send selfie with license and proof of insurance.

I politely say I’m not comfortable w this, thank you. Generally we go our separate ways. You are dealing in an illegal world here and not all people are nice!