Have an appointment with a extremely gorgeous 20 yo tomorrow (thursday) morning, but there is a cold sore in my mouth now, I feel that it wont be healed by that time.

My choices:

1) cancel the appointment. but I have been waiting for her arrival for weeks. she looked extremly hot. also took a while to go through the verification with the agency and hope they dont blacklist me for canceling within 24 hours. they really have tons of hotties touring.

2) go the appointment, but no kissing, no DATY, which are the stuff i always enjoy to do on each every date. First I dont know if I can control myself, actually I think I can, under this circumstances. And if I can, it is going to be a very one-sided effort, she will have to do all the job, the entire 1.5 hours relies on if she has good bbbj skill. she is new to the biz with a reputable agent, so the hope of her having a good bbbj skill is slim.

3) in this hobby, is it by default, we need to cancel the appointment if there is a cold sore in mouth??? I never heard of that, but just checking.


4) I can reschedule it to saturday, she leaves on sunday. that may work, but not sure the cold sore will be gone by then.

any suggestion what is the right way to handle this? thanks!

If I go, I of course plan to tell her about the cold sore when we meet, so would she freak out about it and kick my skinny ass out of the door?

Do yourself a favor and let her know asap. The truth shall set you free. she should be very understanding and actually thankful. The cold sore will go away soon but risking it cause you couldnt wait is defo not worth it imho.
-SerendipityNJ

If you doubt you can stop yourself from kissing her or DATY, cancel the appointment. That'd be incredibly selfish if you had any oral contact with her, knowing that you could pass it on to her.

If you decide to go through with the appointment, you need to inform her of your cold sore, in case she tries to kiss you or expects DATY.

Yes.  If you think you are compromised, stay away, and get tested for Herpes...all variants...

There is a provider that I saw multiple times and when I noticed the core I stopped seeing her.

She did not doing any kissing and no bbbj. She did try to tell me she did kissing and bbbj for an extra 100, I declined because I saw the cold sore on her 1 time.

Cancel and pay a cancellation fee or the full amount.  It usually take several weeks for a cold sore to clear and it unlikely to clear by Saturday.In this hobby it is by default you need to cancel when ever you have an infectious event

BTW are you sure it is a cold sore since cold sores blisters usually occur on the lips and not in the mouth.

Cold sores are generally on the outside of the mouth area..like the crack of the lips..

Cold sores are in the inside and you can't see them.

Do some research on google and gain knowledge of the difference. Then you may wish to consult your physician for the future...

However, a cold sore for SURE..do not go..That is a form of herpes..

She will respect you more..

OK, I will cancel the appointment.

Even if it is not a cold sore, just to be save then.

you are right, it should be cranker sore, not cold sore, did some Googleing. thanks!

Yeah; there are times when you simply have to take yourself OUT of the GAME.

mouth in various accidents, like putting a hot spoon to my mouth that was in a pot of boiling soup.
Or my dog jumped up and busted my lip.
I always switched to PV or relaxation treatments while it healed.
I used to bite my tounge severely in my sleep.
I am not so clumsy anymore and I always keep my lips moisturised and don't mess with dry lip skin because it will not come off without leaving a tear on your lip.
I got chapped lips ONCE when I moved up here to the "arctic" -DC from Florida.
I used to burn my mouth with hot coffee.
Now I am easy going and mellow with less accidents.
It could be a burn from hot food but always keep your mouth unexposed while healing from any issues.

Whereas cold sores related to Herpes happen near the lips.  The former has no definitive cause, the latter is known, and a scourge...

One thing I have noticed...since I started supplementing w/ 5K IU/day of Vitamin D last fall...no colds this winter, facial adult acne no longer an issue.  It seems to be working, and I will be continuing this regimen.  My Dr. couldn't comment beyond saying that if is working...