I am considering having outcall providers come to my home.  I have a single family detached house in an affluent neighborhood.  Recently divorced, semi-nosy neighbors, but don't actually care much what they think, and I think it could be discreet enough (i.e. woman parks around the block, dresses in a businesslike way, and I let her in quickly; or I pick her up at a local shopping center parking lot where she leaves her car).

My concern is primarily for my safety, or any other future potential problems I could have if a provider knows where I live.
Am I nuts to even consider this?  The only reason I would be doing it would be to save money and the hassle of going to her place if she offers incall.  Also, a desire to see providers who only do outcall and wanting to save the money for a motel room.

SNNs keep a log of your visitors. They can hear a midget's heels clicking on the sidewalk from a light year away.
They'll log her in and log her out AN HOUR LATER [LOL], and you'll be the topic of discussion at the next NBJPM - Neighborhood BlowJob Prevention Meeting, that the wives hold:

"Elmer the Horny Guy next door is having HOOKERS over at night!!
We heard loud slurping & vacuuming noises, and the trees were shaking! Clarence tried to make me SUCK HIM OFF that night, he got so excited! They leave after an hour, and he doesn't walk them to the car. Can't be pharmaceutical reps at 10 o'clock at night. Our neighbor is running a WHOREHOUSE! I better call the developers and Elmer's boss and the preacher."

You get the picture.

Often a provider's boyfriend or pimp turns burglar as well. She may do that while visiting too. I've heard the stories.

Doesn't your City have visiting vixens on Eros? Eros-DC.com has about 70 all the time, and they stay in downtown hotels.
Other cities have vix spas with serious hotties.

Whatever. Thanks for the laughs.
The vixen below would create havoc in your neighborhood if she showed up at 10 PM no matter how dressed. LOL

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Think twice. See Portland newspapers last month for murder trial where escort's boyfriend came back to rob the hobbyist and killed him.

For all those reasons you've listed, go to a hotel!!!  Not worth the hassle that could occur.  If your already making a donation, what's another 100 bucks maybe less for a room????

Work with a reputable agency or whatever and you won't have these problems.

Schlong can always be counted on to make interesting comments in a funny way.  The "bad guy" boyfriend that so many providers have is of course the main concern, and enough so that I think I'll stick to outcalls to a motel room.

For what it's worth. though, Schlong, I don't care what any developer thinks - I own my house; my boss could care less; and there is no preacher.  Actually, might be fun to scandalize my neighbors.

what exactly counts as a reputable agency when in fact the very business of said agency is  illegal?  a hobbyist in my area was enjoying the talents of a well regarded agency....whilst the driver of the talent was enjoying the fruits of all the cars in the area.  Not too many ceo's are chauffering (sp) these girls around after they clock out of microsoft for the night. ok so the pro assists Hoover in the Suction development department, and the agency doesn't post your name on the front page of your local church bulletin, but even the Vatican has a seemy underside, and I still wouldnt meet a provider in my house.

just my .02

I have only seen providers at home, I like the atmosphere, makes it feel more like a date, etc.  I don't see many providers and only go with highly rated ones so, at least so far, I haven't had any problems.

That said, don't expect providers to be willing to park around the block or meet you somewhere else where you can pick them up.  At least not until they have met you.  They are at least as concerned about their safety as you are about yours.  In my experience most providers would view you wanting to meet them somewhere else with suspicion and probably not agree to it.

I also resent it when a provider is using a driver but not up front about it.  I to live in a quiet, affluent, 24-hour patrolled, neighborhood.  Any foreign cars in the area will get the attention of security and I don't need that.  I understand that in the minds of the provider the driver affords them some protection, but I want our time together to be our little secret and the fact a driver knows about it makes me uncomfortable.  So I guess my point is find out up front if the provider uses the services of a driver and make your decision accordingly.

to deal with. Not everyone is so lucky.
In some gated monolithic neoNazi communities, stereotypical suburbanite neighbors sue neighbors over such nonesense as backporch furniture color. Only in the mentally emptier part of America, called suburbs.
Many of my pals are terrorized by bosses who think they own them 24 hours a day.
My only concern is robbery or burglarly by the provider or any acquaintance of hers. My neighbors have real lives and could care less. They have complimented the visuals of visiting vixens from time to time. I do have pepper spray handy.
A provider boyfriend once was trying to break in when I was out of town. My large building contractor happened by, messed up his face, and knee-capped him with a large brick. What are large friends for. LOL

Your commments are interesting.  I would only go with highly rated providers too.  But what makes you think that even highly rated providers couldn't have a "bad guy" boyfriend who would learn more about your house so he could more easily burglarize it, or even want to harm you physically for God knows what crazy reason?

If you are concerned about a strange car parked in front of your house, wouldn't that be happening even if she drove herself and there was no driver?  Or is it the driver sitting in the car in front of your house that you don't like?  Are you ever concerned that he might try to force his way into the house when you open the front door as she is entering or leaving?

Mnay thanks for your input.