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serpius 138 reads
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... correct that there is a fraction of providers who do frequent the forums. Thankfully!!

As far as I am concerned, if a provider spends far too much time in these forums, they must not have a very active lifestyle.

Serpius

Posted By: edwood1994
Re: it doesnt seem like theres too many providers on these boards though. so i would guess it isnt a problem not to see any of those egotistical bitches...as you call them

seems like only a few of the tens of thousands of reviewed gals post

right?

Nick-Danger1509 reads

I've been hobbying for a while now and am constantly torn between selecting a provider based on good reviews vs. hot pix. Obviously both would be ideal, but that seems to be a rare thing, especially photos with faces (even if obscured). This is a business of attraction and sadly, guys are primarily motivated by physical appearances. Am curious to know how do you handle this?

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Dr. joe323 reads

It was the way they interacted with me that made our times together so wonderful.  I go for reviews above pics.  I spent two hours with one of the absolutely most beautiful women I have every shared air with (and she was stunning when naked include the most exquisite vagina I have ever seen).  The time was absolutely flat-boring-a waste. I don't remember her reviews, but either she had none or they were weak.  

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SinCitySinner261 reads

extremely high standards to say that there are very few selections that overlap...

I have been hobbying for last 10 yrs in DC area and have met plenty of women who are good looking and provide great service...

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aces8200 reads

There a percs to working on the hill

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SinCitySinner151 reads



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Businesses168 reads

According to an earlier poll by the site, hobbyists would rather see a lady who is 5 looks and 10 performance than 10 looks 5 performance.

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TheHamster185 reads

I need both pix that make me want see her and reviews that seal the deal.  Without both, I don't play. I don't know where you live, but I'm fortunately enough to live where there are loads of gals whose pix and reviews are great.  My problem is picking which one to see next.

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serpius183 reads

... will lead me to the pictures if and only if I find the reviews to be satisfactory to me.

However, how those ladies conduct themselves in the forums does play a large role in my decision-making process.

I would NEVER select a lady who goes off like a controlling egotistical bitch, regardless of how good her reviews are or how good looking she is. Her conduct in the forums gives me an insight to her personality.

Serpius

Posted By: Erik.G
I've been hobbying for a while now and am constantly torn between selecting a provider based on good reviews vs. hot pix. Obviously both would be ideal, but that seems to be a rare thing, especially photos with faces (even if obscured). This is a business of attraction and sadly, guys are primarily motivated by physical appearances. Am curious to know how do you handle this?

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edwood1994184 reads

so i would guess it isnt a problem not to see any of those egotistical bitches...as you call them

seems like only a few of the tens of thousands of reviewed gals post

right?

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OldTraveler151 reads

largely because many women don't enjoy hanging around a locker room.

Not slandering the board, but it is a male dominated place and a lot of ladies have other things they'd rather do.  Of course comments like "those egotistical bitches" probably doesn't make them feel at home either. ;)

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London Rayne161 reads

Oh, and because of the nut job stalkers that are allowed to run around. There are guys here who have not paid a provider in over a year, who are just old and bored with life. They expect providers to kiss their ass, and go off when they don't. Fortunately, the entire board knows their game and makes them an example, and it's quite fun lol.

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hotplants158 reads

By golly.....you may be on to something there OT.

egotistical, fat, ugly, too dumb to do anything but suck cock and too busy on TER to even get work doing that.

And don't forget angry. This board has been very enlightening for me. I never realized what an angry woman I was until I started calling hobbyist out on their BS.....lol....

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Kelly_James116 reads

And living well is the best revenge ;)

As for the genius (Serpius) who said that "thankfully" there's not more providers who frequent the boards - oh please.  Nobody likes a sausage fest unless they are a gay male.  And sometimes not even then.  C'mon man...if there were no ladies on this board who would you not-so-subtly attempt to torment?  LMAO

Posted By: hotplants
By golly.....you may be on to something there OT.

egotistical, fat, ugly, too dumb to do anything but suck cock and too busy on TER to even get work doing that.

And don't forget angry. This board has been very enlightening for me. I never realized what an angry woman I was until I started calling hobbyist out on their BS.....lol....

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London Rayne122 reads

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hotplants146 reads

I'm not angry...lol... I am very often genuinely, deeply disturbed and disheartened by the overall attitude of "hobbyists".

And, when some hobbyist on this board run out of ways to actually formulate an opinion in response to a woman (provider or not), it's almost like clockwork that he will default to a response calling her old, fat, ugly, angry, or announce he has taken her of his "to-do" list.






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Kelly_James112 reads

Posted By: hotplants
I'm not angry...lol... I am very often genuinely, deeply disturbed and disheartened by the overall attitude of "hobbyists".

And, when some hobbyist on this board run out of ways to actually formulate an opinion in response to a woman (provider or not), it's almost like clockwork that he will default to a response calling her old, fat, ugly, angry, or announce he has taken her of his "to-do" list.






-- Modified on 11/18/2012 11:38:19 AM

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serpius139 reads

... correct that there is a fraction of providers who do frequent the forums. Thankfully!!

As far as I am concerned, if a provider spends far too much time in these forums, they must not have a very active lifestyle.

Serpius

Posted By: edwood1994
Re: it doesnt seem like theres too many providers on these boards though. so i would guess it isnt a problem not to see any of those egotistical bitches...as you call them

seems like only a few of the tens of thousands of reviewed gals post

right?

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MagicMedic140 reads

attempting another dig at someone again?

By the same logic, you as a hobbyist would not have a very active lifestyle. I guess you have to have something to do until the nurse comes in to change your diaper.

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OldTraveler148 reads

Posted By: serpius
Her conduct in the forums gives me an insight to her personality.
Completely agree on that part.  But for me, I want to see a mix of intelligence, wit, flirting, and something that says she KNOWS she is worth seeing and expects to prove it to every guy she sees.

I expect you and I probably have very different opinions on a lot of ladies.

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heelsandbras144 reads

Looks much more important than reviews for me but I do read em just to make sure she is the real deal.

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OldTraveler191 reads

First is what they say on the boards (or their web site) and how they say it.

If that attracts me enough, then the reviews are the second piece.

The photos are the last and least important for me.  Photos may cause me to NOT see someone, but they don't make me choose her.

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edwood1994170 reads

pics are what get me to even think of looking at a review.  for example...if shes got nothng but 8, 9 and 10 but is a heavy and tall woman...i dont care.  i like to see shorter and very petite women.

so if i like the pics then ill glance at a review to make sure shes got enough to let me know that shes for real.  all the garbage that the guys write of a session is fairly meaningless to me...as these guys write as if i care about them (the guys).

and if shes on the boards posting...most i wouldnt ever see.  if they are here posting too often they just have too much free time and waste it doing this instead of something constructive.

but i might still see a woman who posts...and theres only one or two here that post that i would ever see.

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OldTraveler152 reads

there are so many nice choices out there to fit any guy's (or girl's) personal preferences.

And the truly great ones shine whether it's photos, reviews, or board persona.

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mnjohnny247178 reads

....and if you are posting does that mean YOU have too much free time and waste it?  WTF kind of argument is that???  Constructive??  Why would you care about what she does with her time when she is not seeing you?  How about this, I want to see a provider that knows how to make me feel great and if she posts on TER all the time, all the better!!

Posted By: edwood1994
and if shes on the boards posting...most i wouldnt ever see.  if they are here posting too often they just have too much free time and waste it doing this instead of something constructive.

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London Rayne142 reads

to choose a tone that chases off whiners, stalkers, and the insecure types who demand that every hooker kiss their ass. Most guys who also post on boards all day, are rarely the ones who spend the big bucks either, so why would a provider care if she is crossed off some list? Obviously, she could not give two shits about it or she would in fact STOP posting lol.

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mrfisher156 reads

They were just so exquisite, I could not refuse.

Of course I checked out the reviews as well, and they met my needs.

Lately I've been meeting gals from the TER boards whose personalites seem to jibe with me, but every now and then a photo comes along that just reaches out to my brain's horny node.

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keystonekid145 reads

her pics and if Mr. Happy likes what he sees, I will read several reviews.

If her performance in the reviews is not the type of encounter I prefer, then there will be no date.

Performance rates over appearance.

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brstlvr119 reads

I'm not going to bother with reviews if the lady's pictures don't do it for me. I am extremely visual though, so that's what's most important to me. I really only look at the reviews to see if the pictures are accurate and if she delivers as promised or up-sells.

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swimtrekr123 reads

Pics first.  If I am not physically attracted to her, I'm not going to see her.  If I decide I want to see her, then I start looking for reviews, so I know what services she offers.  I do prefer to see her face, but if I can get a sense of what she looks like and I'm attracted, that's fine.  Reviews also let me know if she is safe to see.  Only on rare occasions have I seen a gal who had no reviews.  If she is recommended by a trusted hobby buddy, or a provider I have seen, I may see her, otherwise, no reviews, no visit.

Swim

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corey10117 reads

Definitely reviews first, then use advanced search to look for "your type" that drives you crazy (BBBJ, breast size, hair color, etc) then take due time in reading recent reviews.  If you're still a little gun shy, PM a fellow hobbyist review to get their specific take on things that you're looking for and go from there.

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