I haven't been hobbying long, but when I meet a provider I like a lot the first time, cumming multiple times in an hour appt is never an issue.  

I would have to say that even those of you that fall a little bit in love with one provider will find that newness is always the spice of life.  I tend to get repeats on those who like fetishes and different activities such as watersports or domination since they are different and few providers are skilled in that area.  I don't get my feeling hurt at all with regular calls that don't repeat since I know newness is the name of the game otherwise you would marry one of us lol.  

I am a thicker and curvier girl so some men have tried to blame that on just the one session (who did a regular call versus fetish) but I know in my heart that newness is alwasy the way men go for best excitement.  Others have commented on the USA 's" guide boards that I am nice, very eager to please and be pleased and that My performance is excellent.  It made me understand men better the first time years ago that I read the negative reviews and the logical reviews where men who knew the game better defended me.  I do as I stated mostle get repeats for nuru or fetishes only since few others provide that.

Supposedly one day President Calvin Coolidge and his wife were touring a Midwestern farm.   They were being escorted separately and Mrs. Coolidge was shown a rooster.  She was told that the rooster could perform his duties up to a dozen or more times a day.  Mrs. Coolidge, a bit surprised, asked the guide to mention that fact to Mr. Coolidge.  When Mr. Coolidge, was apprised of this fact, he asked:  "All with the same hen?"  "No, Mr. President, always different hens."  "Please be sure to mention that to Mrs. Coolidge.", was the President's response.

Does anybody know where that article is... someone posted about the health of men's semen after watching a new lady in porn?

I feel exploring more psychological ways to be turned on by your partner is very important. And if you want to see the same lady over and over without torturing yourself about the fact that you can't cum the same, how about cumming a new way with her?

I guess  silent Cal wasn't silent when it mattered!

Refraining from sex for a few weeks can have the opposite effect if what you think.  Like any other part of your body that you can "train" to increase performance, if you have sex more often, you will train the systems involved to rise to the occasion (no pun intended).

Conversationally efficient.

Yes, I believe your hunch is right. The novelty wore off. For some gents, in my experience, this can be remedied by "spicing" things up a bit". For example, change the location you meet your favorite ladies and try new experiences. Perhaps, you both meet at a crowded bar and she looks stunning. The men are staring and she leaves with YOU. Small things like this can turn the heat up for your subconscious mind and allow you more play time.

You say that before the appointment, you are more horny to see the repeat providers - indicating you are enjoying the anticipation more with a repeat than a new provider.

That's a long time. I can only speak for myself, but after a few days there are diminishing returns on abstention.

(civilian) who commented when we were with friends, "I notice when I'm having great sex, it just makes me want more sex."

...and the feeling is mutual, since I repeat as often as I can with them.

My main girl is still great after almost four years of seeing her. I see a few other girls to keep the newness from getting too scripted.

but your thinking does. I bet you'd make a good .... never mind.

In both civvy and P4P - things click better as we get to used to each other.   I learn her signals - she learns mine.  

Nina I am thinking the next question is what are the five signs of burnout of a provider? Or when can you tell a provider has been in business to long?  These are questions a hobbyist would ask when her responses are mechanical and no longer has an emotional connection to her clients.  That would be the first sign of her professional apathy and the  first domino to collapse that would be directly attributed to performance decline.  Henceforth it would be a decline of enthusiasm that a hobbyist would be looking for specifically from his ATF.

Some guys like that newness, perhaps you are one of those.  Honestly, having a sense of familiarity with a gent is soooo sexy for me.  You learn each others kinks and twists...can anticipate him going to those hot secret places.  Feel the yearning for him to explore there...hot, hot, hot

I had/have a provider that I have seen at least 20 times. Best sex I have had, but the time to release has gotten longer even though she hasn't done anything differently. Great. Every. Time. I think it has to do with the familiarity factor for me and as someone mentioned above, the variety of spreading your seed. And, as the encounters progressed, it's always in the back of my mind that this is just a transaction and nothing more. Friends with benefits with a donation.