You have only been with her twice on very short time encounters. You truly do not know someone until you spend time traveling together. So many issues could arise over the 4 days you plan on spending with her, but as the saying goes; "Love Conquers All". If it is meant to be than all that is good will fal into place. Good luck because if it does not work, your heart will ache, and your wallet will be dented!
My thoughts from the Governor's Mansion.......I realize anyone may weigh in, but I am hoping for provider input.
An escort on tour hit it off with me. We met again on her next tour. I treated her to dinner "off the clock" and we really took a liking to each other. She is going on vacation and offered for me to go along. My schedule only allows 4 days, which coincides with the NYC part of her vacay.
We were both upfront about the arrangements. She would like to go with someone on vacation, whom she trusts and likes, and also welcomes someone covering the expenses. I would pay for hotel, food and entertainment. She would be there as my "girlfriend" and sex is definitely involved. No additional P4P, beyond me covering expenses. I figure the 4 days will cost me around $3,000.
I am not sure if it is too good to be true, or am I just one lucky guy. Do you think I should jump at the chance? For that much money, I can have lots of fun in my hometown. But, the 4 day experience, seems like a dream come true.
Thoughts?
I don't know what to say. I will say that it's absolutely possible for her to like you. I recently met someone who I would sofaking love to go on vacation with. So, go with your gut instinct. Life is way too short not to LIVE. I hope very much that it works out well for you both. xo
I hope he goes with his gut and takes a chance on finding a little bit of magic in the world... and LIVES a little.
But many things in p4p are possible.
So many women would love to go on vacay with a dude they like based on your arrangements. Some are just fun loving, free spirited and care free. Some are a bit lonely and don't have a BF bc of the line of work they are in and want to hang out with a good guy.
A free vacation is enough for some to offer up the sex for "free" if you will.
Seems like a great deal if you are into her and you want to spend that much time together.
I had my SB come out to my vacay for 2 nights last month, and as much as I like her, 2 days was enough. And she is super easy to get along with.
I couldn't do the 4 day thing but it only matters if you can, and want to. If so, go for it.
Nuff said lol
So many women would love to go on vacay with a dude they like based on your arrangements. Some are just fun loving, free spirited and care free. Some are a bit lonely and don't have a BF bc of the line of work they are in and want to hang out with a good guy.
A free vacation is enough for some to offer up the sex for "free" if you will.
Seems like a great deal if you are into her and you want to spend that much time together.
I had my SB come out to my vacay for 2 nights last month, and as much as I like her, 2 days was enough. And she is super easy to get along with.
I couldn't do the 4 day thing but it only matters if you can, and want to. If so, go for it.
I like my women hot. 
Are you hot?
I've done this type of thing with women as young as 18 and as old as late thirties.
and no, I don't consider myself particularly hot. but for some strange reason many hookers (and other women) seem to like me, go figure, right?
and no, I don't consider myself particularly hot. but for some strange reason many hookers (and other women) seem to like me, go figure, right?
I find it ironic how many hookers actually look down on other hookers who "give it away" (not saying this is what you are doing of course) it's like they don't want their own brand cheapened just because other women sometimes fuck for free or at a severely discounted price for someone they genuinely like.
Newsflash, not all hookers are jaded or simply all about the money
Jack said after a couple of days he had enough . My implication is that he probably didn't have a whole lot in common with a young girl. Thus, after a couple of days it would be ENOUGH.
As for me, age appropriate or otherwise, four days is a LONG time.
You have only been with her twice on very short time encounters. You truly do not know someone until you spend time traveling together. So many issues could arise over the 4 days you plan on spending with her, but as the saying goes; "Love Conquers All". If it is meant to be than all that is good will fal into place. Good luck because if it does not work, your heart will ache, and your wallet will be dented!
My thoughts from the Governor's Mansion.......
It depend you get to know a person when you travel with them so either you are going to be lucky or unlucky.I hope she is going to be fun and be respectful when you are going to be together and not use you to pay for expenses while going with other people. Just a thought.
That is my biggest concern. When we "negotiated" details, she did ask for airfare, extra night hotel, what we will see, nice dinner, etc. I pushed back on most and we came to an agreement. I told her my budget and what we will do. She agreed and we finalized details on the phone earlier today. I still left an out by saying I need to make work arrangements.
This feedback has been helpful.
If the answer is yes, then you should jump at this chance. If not, then you should not.
I do have to agree, four days is quite a while to be with the same person morning, noon and night. If it were two days I wouldn't even have to think about it if I liked her, but for four days, I might consider having a cover story for an emergency arising in case the date starts going south.
I guess the other thing to consider which I only thought of as kind of an afterthought, but how easily can you afford the three grand? To me, the money wouldn't really factor in, but the prospect of being "trapped" for four days with someone I've never spent extended time might make me take pause.
For the record, I have done a LOT of extended dates with working girls, some paid some not and I have found that my "sweet spot" with a women is between two and three days, anything longer I am find myself wanting some alone time. For me this goes for civvies, sugar babies and hookers. There really is such a thing as "too much of a good thing" for some of us.
Thanks to everyone for the feedback. I look forward to reading some more comments before I make the final call
if the cash was not an issue... but as you imply, that would be a big chunk of my hobby budget. Still you've had 2 P4P dates & 1 OTC dinner... so you should have a feel for whether you are compatible. With 4 days... it needn't be necessarily around the clock. Both of you might need some alone time, even if it's just in the shower... to check in with a safety person... check messages...
I'd like to but at the end of the day, I don't think I could dedicate so much of my hobby budget to a single binge.
I really don't know...
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Just keep an eye on your kidneys.
(Just kidding)
That's funny yea you never know with those exotic destination you end up with one kidney.
'Fuuuck Yeah!'"
Like GaG and some others said, maybe 4 days is a bit much, especially if you have only seen her a couple times. Of course the other thing is if your budget can handle it, but for me, I would definitely go for it.
I read that garbage a lot on discussion boards like this.
You have no idea what she thinks. You took a liking to her, and that's it.
Paying for a multi-day session like you are suggesting will likely be a disappointment for you. Most prostitutes can act like they give a shit for a few hours. Good luck with the 4 days.
You bring up a very good point and you may be correct. It is something for mew to think about.
The "liking," however, was a natural event. Here are some details. After the first date we emailed on occasion, linked up on social media, etc. We both know there is no real relationship. We joke and acknowledge it is strictly business. After the second date, I invited her to dinner. We kind of assumed we would go out for a bite to eat after the date, given our communication between dates.
During dinner she talked about her schedule and vacation. At one point I jokingly said, I would enjoy showing her the sites in NYC, since I know it semi-well. She asked if I was serious. I said 'no,' but gave it more thought and said "maybe." After that we talked all business. We negotiated every financial detail and even how much pleasure is involved. We all but signed a contract. I am confident on the P4P aspect. Will we drive each other nuts for 4 days? Maybe. To be determined.
Sounds like you have this covered, why are you asking the general public what you already know ?
** I would like to add **
Make sure you have personal time. For me, I like afternoon walks with my dog without talking to anyone.
I have a friend and his wife who go on vacations, and they both have different reasons for going. He wants to sit at the pool and drink, she likes to go on scheduled adventures. They eat breakfast together and dinner, but that's it for most of the day. I'm sure you wouldn't do this, as this person is NEW and you're both curious about each other. I'm just pointing out, everyone has different needs in their day and/or vacation.
Be honest to yourself, nug her to be honest with herself and sort out personal time and how that looks to each other.
The "liking," however, was a natural event. Here are some details. After the first date we emailed on occasion, linked up on social media, etc. We both know there is no real relationship. We joke and acknowledge it is strictly business. After the second date, I invited her to dinner. We kind of assumed we would go out for a bite to eat after the date, given our communication between dates.
During dinner she talked about her schedule and vacation. At one point I jokingly said, I would enjoy showing her the sites in NYC, since I know it semi-well. She asked if I was serious. I said 'no,' but gave it more thought and said "maybe." After that we talked all business. We negotiated every financial detail and even how much pleasure is involved. We all but signed a contract. I am confident on the P4P aspect. Will we drive each other nuts for 4 days? Maybe. To be determined.
I am asking because I do not "already know." This is my first time doing this and these comments have already helped. Your additional ones as well. Thank you.
yet another 10cent worth of opinion NOT from a provider. Frankly I'm not sure what kind of opinion are you expecting to get from providers except along the line of "why not? go for it".
Like you said it yourself $3,000 can bring you lot of fun in your hometown. For the 4 days it's not exactly a bargain if you think financially. OTH it might be worth it to just try something different maybe once in a lifetime!
However I must caution you that it maynot be the "dream come true" experience you expected. Spending that much time together together is DIFFERENT than just a few hours every few weeks or months. I don't know what kind of sexual chemistry you two share but if you were expecting 24/7 fucking like wild rabbits you maybe disappointed if she's not into that high-volume sex. If sex turns out to be just once or twice a day would you still feel the expense is worth it?
If you want to go ahead it's best to keep expectation low
Two providers I've seen told me stories about going on a trip with a guy, having a fight, and the provider storming out and finding some other guy to fuck that night.
It's been my dream to take my ATF on an extended trip, but I'd want to do a couple of nights together.
Can you talk to her and the two of you lay out some rules on what to do if you get on each others' nerves?
This trip is going to cost you a lot more than 3 grand when it's all said and done. NY entertainment is expensive as hell think Broadway Show 500 bucks for the pair of tickets. Dinner at Cagen my new favorite restaurant name a steak house or a Seafood place depending on if she is a vegan another 300 bucks. That's 800 bucks just for a night out.
I am not telling you what to do but I am telling you to be very careful and tread very lightly I don't want to see you getting murdered by this shark. This girl is fishing for something. No doubt about it. Some of these girls are vultures who pry on someone they think they can take advantage of. You met someone twice and hit it off. That's great I hit it off with pretty much everyone I have met and the thought of taking a provider on a four day tour after just meeting her twice seems like a set up to me. It take more time to really know a providers intentions. I would really need to feel comfortable before throwing that amount of money around.
Just some food for thought. On the second date do you know her real name? do you know anything honest and true about her? Most providers will lie thru there teeth the first date maybe if you get a second date you might get a tad of honesty but it's not who they really are. People in this world show you what they want you to see. Just remember none of this is real. Over time you learn about someone but your not getting the entire story on the 2nd date. Doesn't happen no matter how much money class and personality you have. It just goes against the grain of what is the truth vs what they want you to see. Keep these thoughts in the back of your head.
These are my thoughts.
Have fun in NY.
Be careful.
Zak
An escort on tour hit it off with me. We met again on her next tour. I treated her to dinner "off the clock" and we really took a liking to each other. She is going on vacation and offered for me to go along. My schedule only allows 4 days, which coincides with the NYC part of her vacay.
We were both upfront about the arrangements. She would like to go with someone on vacation, whom she trusts and likes, and also welcomes someone covering the expenses. I would pay for hotel, food and entertainment. She would be there as my "girlfriend" and sex is definitely involved. No additional P4P, beyond me covering expenses. I figure the 4 days will cost me around $3,000.
I am not sure if it is too good to be true, or am I just one lucky guy. Do you think I should jump at the chance? For that much money, I can have lots of fun in my hometown. But, the 4 day experience, seems like a dream come true.
Thoughts?
Between dates 1 and 2, I got plenty of personal details and verified via real life social media. From a P4P standpoint, she definitely crossed the line in sharing info. The trip is fortuitous and not a setup. Her motive is no secret... all expense paid trip to the Big Apple
And that's her plan to get revenge on all the johns tgat did her wrong and kills you in your 4 day vacation?
Hahaha just kidding. Too much lo
It sounds kinky and exciting beyond the usual adventure!!!
Hahaha just kidding. Too much lol
I guess if you really like her company and would be happy with sex with one lady for the 4 days then it's pretty good value. Would it not get sticky though if she decides once you've paid that she only wants to bonk you once and you were imagining all day sex fests?? Or what if you start to get on each other's nerves after two days. Would you want a refund?
Maybe chat about ground rules of what expectations you both have beforehand.
IMO this is why I prefer either to vacay on my own time and do what I like, and take work bookings as work bookings with the expectation that the client is king in that case
Claire... your point about 4 days is shared by other posters. We have negotiated terms, so I am optimistic there will be enough sex for me. That is, however, still a concern.
had a business trip to Miami. took along my ATF (we have known each other for over a year) using earned sky miles. stayed at 2 bedroom condo so each would have their own room to sleep in. I covered ALL expenses. cost me about 2k but I blew my wad at least 10 times. while I was in meetings she laid around the pool and got a sexy tan line.