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SCBodyRub 13 Reviews 1506 reads
posted
1 / 29
Who PM's reviewers

How many of you PM several of the reviewers of a provider you are interested in because you want to see if their review is accurate?

Yes, this was brought on by a comment on the below post

JackDunphy 336 reads
posted
2 / 29
I do.

And anybody with VIP should and those without VIP should get it...and USE it because as our friend in the thread below found out, having VIP and not fully using VIP...is kinda not like having VIP, LOL

Now I don't use it in every single case. Many times I will get a UTR referral from a source I trust so there aren't any pm's to gather. Other times I will recognize and trust a reviewer and that will be good enough for me, provided his review is recent.

But in the cases where I don't have that above info, I won't see a girl without the pm's as I usually have $1000-$1500 on the line, and that's after negotiating.

Learn to use all your resources here and p4p can be a much more fun experience without many of the hassles so many guys here bitch about after the fact.

1192967 45 Reviews 431 reads
posted
3 / 29
I have in the past PM'd recent reviewers about a provider I was considering. ...

...I'm not as blunt as is your review accurate?

I did have one say I might be LE or someone up to no good why should he tell me anything. I had been active on these boards for a couple years and had 15 to 20 reviews. Usually I get something a little more detailed. I ask about the provider's kissing since it's important to me. Even that's subjective so a description is more useful than she kisses good, great, etc. I have had some not answer. I have had some say it's all in the review.

There are guys I know with tastes similar to mine. Now a days I've usually met the lady before I ever schedule with her so the usual questions of accurate pics, actually her, heavier, older aren't an issue. I once PM'd asking about covered bj or bbbj because I'd heard covered. The guy confirmed bbbj.

scoed 8 Reviews 283 reads
posted
4 / 29
I do. EOM

Posted By: SCBodyRub
How many of you PM several of the reviewers of a provider you are interested in because you want to see if their review is accurate?  
   
 Yes, this was brought on by a comment on the below post.  
   
   
   
   
 

inicky46 61 Reviews 282 reads
posted
5 / 29
I have.

And I"ve gotten PMs from others.  Who they are depends on whether I reply. I don't reply to aliases.

ucguass 18 Reviews 345 reads
posted
6 / 29
guilty


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Demcc3 27 Reviews 321 reads
posted
7 / 29
PM's

I have on occasion.  I have also noticed that some reviewers don't appreciate receiving messages.

D.

SCBodyRub 13 Reviews 308 reads
posted
8 / 29
OK, who asked and received a PM saying the "review" was not really accurate?

Who has asked a reviewer about details and found out the review was not really accurate, or the reviewer didn't want the provider to go BSC, so they moderated their review

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 349 reads
posted
9 / 29
This guy does Eom


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hiddenhills 143 Reviews 303 reads
posted
10 / 29
Don't pm reviewers and I am VIP (e)


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AHappyCamper 9 Reviews 389 reads
posted
11 / 29
This should be a two part question

Not only asking if you PM other reviewers, but also how many of you respond to a PM.

Based on a thread posted on the Newbie board, it appears that many inquires go unanswered for a number of reasons.  Some of the reasons for non response have included - it was sent by someone using an alias, they had no reviews themselves or they felt that the question being asked was not worthy of a response and that the person didn't have VIP status to be able to answer it.

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 365 reads
posted
12 / 29
Re: OK, who asked and received a PM saying the "review" was not really accurate?

No, but I've had guys "remember" things after the review went up and they didn't want to edit it. Namely, I remember one guy telling me his half-full prescription bottle of hydrocodone was empty and he couldn't blame her, but he was pretty sure she took them. You don't see stuff like that in reviews very often.

Posted By: SCBodyRub
Who has asked a reviewer about details and found out the review was not really accurate, or the reviewer didn't want the provider to go BSC, so they moderated their review?  
   
 

cspatz 67 Reviews 246 reads
posted
13 / 29
I have....

...and I have received pms as well.

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 393 reads
posted
14 / 29
Re: This should be a two part question

Exactly! I'm not responding to stupid questions like, "she do anal?" Or "how much did you pay her for fuck?" YES, I really got that last one. I couldn't believe it.  

Posted By: AHappyCamper
Not only asking if you PM other reviewers, but also how many of you respond to a PM.  
   
 Based on a thread posted on the Newbie board, it appears that many inquires go unanswered for a number of reasons.  Some of the reasons for non response have included - it was sent by someone using an alias, they had no reviews themselves or they felt that the question being asked was not worthy of a response and that the person didn't have VIP status to be able to answer it.  

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 290 reads
posted
15 / 29
Re: Don't pm reviewers and I am VIP (e)

Don't all TER members have to be VIP to PM?

Posted By: hiddenhills

AHappyCamper 9 Reviews 311 reads
posted
16 / 29
Yes, you have to have VIP status to use PM.


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AHappyCamper 9 Reviews 392 reads
posted
17 / 29
What some fail to recognize

Is that just because some other reviewer indicated a certain service was offered, it's not an automatic guarantee he will.  From my experience, it doesn't work that way.  Even when you've seen the same lady more than once, doesn't mean what you did once you will get to do the second time automatically

camote16 34 Reviews 331 reads
posted
18 / 29
I've done both

eceived pm an sent pm. Also respond an of course answer their specific question.  

Posted By: SCBodyRub
How many of you PM several of the reviewers of a provider you are interested in because you want to see if their review is accurate?  
   
 Yes, this was brought on by a comment on the below post.  
   
   
   
   
 

hardknocks6 37 Reviews 319 reads
posted
19 / 29
I don't respond to pms that are vulgar...

...got a pm once from a guy -- "Gonna stick my dick in some (city-name) ass this weekend.  Can you tell me who had the tigher bunghole, Miss x or Miss Y?"

I skipped this one.

I always respond to pms if they are respectful.

hardknocks6 37 Reviews 265 reads
posted
20 / 29
I use them and I respond to them. eom


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JohnyComeAlready 280 reads
posted
21 / 29
I ask for no help...

and offer none in return

lopaw 29 Reviews 352 reads
posted
22 / 29
I'm also a giver & a taker. Sometimes there are things that...

....you'd like to know that isn't covered in a review.  
The sharing of intel is vital to help keep a site like this pertinent.

SCBodyRub 13 Reviews 279 reads
posted
23 / 29
Thanks for the responses...

I guess I need to ad PM'ing recent reviewers of ladies I want to see asking "Anything you can think of after the review was written?

AHappyCamper 9 Reviews 417 reads
posted
24 / 29
Answering a question from you brings a unique challenge

Perspectives being what they are, not sure how one adequately address a question you may have from this side.

lopaw 29 Reviews 332 reads
posted
25 / 29
Re: Answering a question from you brings a unique challenge

Well, my questions to other mongers regarding a lady are usually restricted soley to non sexual stuff, like if her photos really are accurate, was she on time, is her incall in a nice area, will she take outfit requests,  etc.  

If I book with a provider, I already know what will happen between the sheets ;)

JohnyComeAlready 350 reads
posted
26 / 29
Re: OK, who asked and received a PM saying the "review" was not really accurate?

Why wouldn't he put that away where nobody could find it?

Posted By: DURHAMDREW63
No, but I've had guys "remember" things after the review went up and they didn't want to edit it. Namely, I remember one guy telling me his half-full prescription bottle of hydrocodone was empty and he couldn't blame her, but he was pretty sure she took them. You don't see stuff like that in reviews very often.  
   
Posted By: SCBodyRub
Who has asked a reviewer about details and found out the review was not really accurate, or the reviewer didn't want the provider to go BSC, so they moderated their review?  
     
 

GaGambler 288 reads
posted
27 / 29
In your case that is probably the best strategy

after all who want to either help or be helped by you? I can't think of a single guy here that would want your advice on ANYTHING, or be willing to lift a finger to help you either.

scb19 10 Reviews 316 reads
posted
28 / 29
Re: I have.

how do you know if its an alias?
 

Posted By: inicky46
And I"ve gotten PMs from others.  Who they are depends on whether I reply. I don't reply to aliases.

inicky46 61 Reviews 335 reads
posted
29 / 29
When you receive a PM from a handle their name shows blue in the inbox.

When it's from an alias, the name shows black.

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