Because of a medication I take, it will take me a long time of fucking to finish.  If condoms weren't used I'd finish much quicker.  Lately, I've resorted to the provider finishing my with an HJ.  Curious to know other guy's experiences.  In the past, I thought this was a good "problem" to have...but in the hobby women get impatient after a certain amount of time.  So frustrating I have to use a rubber.

Female condoms  almost feel like BBFS. It's part of the TER profile so you can check to see if the provider you want to see uses them. A word of caution, for many escorts will say unknown. Good luck

Have her finish you with a BBBJ, finish between her titties with no cover, or dry hump her to completion without a cover !  Get creative !!!!

but once I get the engine started, it's not that hard to get to the finish line at least for the first pop.

.......  Hahaha, I get to fuck for hours and hours.
I have an nerve injury that makes it not possible to cum from fucking. It takes really strong and frenetic manual ministrations for me to cum.
I suffer so good.
It has made it so I appreciate all the sensations over my whole body from many different sexual and sensual explorations.

Even when I lost my virginity, it took a long time. Condoms obviously add more time even if they don't preclude ejaculation entirely. I haven't tried female condoms though.  

I've always had very strong stamina.  In college I used to have sex for 3-5 hours...literally.  For some reason my dick gets numb pretty quick so if I get a BJ or a serious hand job before sex I can last for hours.  When I meet ladies I tell them this to a degree, I don't want them to think I can't cum because of them.  In fact It's sort of fun being able to pound away for 1.5 hours . At the end I can usually cum when I'm really horny.  Or, I just finish with a BJ hand job mix.  I love coming inside a women's mouth. Feels amazing.

I had to train myself to last longer when I was younger (ok, much younger. lol)  but now, especially when using a condom, I often find myself lasting literally for hours sometimes. This is great with civvies, but it's a rare pro who wants a dick in her, non stop for an hour or more. lol

This is an excellent recommendation except I almost exclusively seen asian providers who are touring in the USA.  I don't know if they are familiar with the FC.  Let alone if I brought them and requested she use one...she probably wouldn't be comfortable with the situation....at least because with the language barrier I'd have a hard time explaining.

All great recommendations.  Sometimes the only thing that does the job is a fast tempo firm grip HJ with lube.  I should be off this med soon (I hope!) but even in my non-medicated state I have had this be an issue too.   Maybe I need to find a woman with an emotional/love connection for once?  Not even joking. That might solve the problem.  Less hobby - more dating might be what I need after years of successful hobby.

it took me about 30 seconds to finish this post..

for hours to, I have never had a provider that could make me come doing a BBBJ, never.

....if you are seeing someone who gets frustrated with you because of delayed completion you're seeing the wrong lady(ies).   You don't have to go into detail but you could give a heads up to them about the delay before booking.....some will appreciate it and some won't.
Suzee

Once the foreplay is over, and after about 20-25 minutes of pumping her in mish, if she looks like she's getting tired or has an O, I will say that I need a short rest and climb off for ten minutes before resuming.  Most girls appreciate the break when guys go long like that, but I never give them a hard time about THEM being the one that needed the rest. I put it on me, so they save face.  

I can't finish in a cover. With these providers they finish me with a BBBJ CIM or Facial depending on their mood for that session. Session time 1 hour.  

I like a challenge. But if condoms are an issue try a provider that uses FC like me ( by request) it feels more like the real thing and doesn't restrict your cock like regular condoms. Hit me up next time you're in Vegas and let me show you lol.

The finish only lasts a few seconds.  So to me it isn't that important.  Finishing early, for a guy, can be an issue because we tend to go limp after for a while.   And that limits certain activities that require a stiffer implement.  I can almost always finish in the first few minutes of a bj.   But I always slow it down to avoid that.   After about 30 minutes the window starts to close on an easy finish, though.  But still, I try to finish at the 45 minute mark.   Can usually do it, but often has to get pretty vigorous.  At that point I am mostly trying to finish so the provider doesn't feel bad.    They tend to take their craft seriously.   I've enjoyed the session -- it all felt great.   Stressing too much about the finish can divert attention from the other enjoyable aspects.

A traditional condom (regardless of make, model, configuration or material) feels like my dick is being strangled -- and not in a good way! A Female Condom, properly placed and using a bit of lube, feels much more natural -- my bare dick sliding in and out of her, with only a small ring of synthetic material in view.

Most of the time I finish much sooner than I want, but fortunately I can stay hard for a short period and enjoy the ride. Second round is all dependent upon who I’m with. My ATF is really easy to go three rounds, but others maybe lucky to get my hard after the first round. And with my wife, it difficult to get to the first round. Lol

Without a condom, I have lasted between five seconds and two hours. I even had one lucky episode of six times in three plus hours, but I was a MUCH younger man.  

I have the same problem (although it's not the result of medication -- just can't finish with a condom).  Sometimes bbbj/hj after the sex works, but p2p almost always does the trick.  Honestly, I've been with some providers who are ninjas at p2p and it's a struggle to hold out.  That could just be how I'm wired, though.  Good luck!

what girl was this?

this thread is two years old?  Many of the people that posted on this thread back then, including the blowhard you are asking have not come back since the blackout.  Why are you reviving this since its doubtful you will get an answer, and it you do, It will probably be that he won't name her publicly?  Did you just join TER?  Have you actually seen any providers yet?

Thats all I know about it. I too wondered why bring back this thread.?

With a condom! Never! Doing it raw, errr like 30 min or so. I kind of get jealous of premature ejaculators sometimes...sometimes, not all the time cause that would suck.

My ATF can finish me off within 11 minutes on average with her excellent head game. Longest she edged me was about 45 minutes, the fastest she has gotten me was about 6 minutes. I’ve only ever gotten oral from her, and that’s after seeing her at least twice a month for the better part of 13 years. As far as FS, too many variables to know how long plus I barely go for FS anymore unless with a civie (only because their BJs never can compare).

Never with a condom