read the boards awhile ago and was surprised to see how many men were looking for pregnant providers. Not working now whlie pregnant but thinking about making a comeback in a few months time if guys are interested in that sort of thing? oh, I am fbsm only if that makes a difference.
is there anything that doesn't turn me on...LMAO
Yes, no brown showers for me.
Pregnant woman are soooo sexy. As for the lactating part, yes...count me in.
Shaye
I've tried this before, and it was certainly different. The milk was very rich, and nearly made me sick. Of course I did drink more than my share. And do know too that it a big time fetish.
All in all though, I prefer my milk cold. So sit in the fridge for a couple hours and we'll talk.
Jimbo
Was tempted to pass this one by, but what the hell. This is a little more personally revealing than I usually dare to be on a public board.
[blush on]
I've had one experience with a lactating provider. It was somebody I really wanted see anyway, so I didn't know about the lactating thing until shortly before the meeting. I had no idea what to expect--would it be erotic? Awkward? How do you start? How do you finish? Oy, so much to deal with.
[blushing increases]
So anyway, it didn't really factor into things at first. We were relaxing between rounds when she brought it up. A few seconds later I was being ever so gently led there, and once there, she just surrounded me with her arms and legs and held me there.
[initiating turbo-blushing now]
Her attitude and approach were so inviting, and her desire to share this wonderful gift so obviously genuine. There's an absolute conspiracy of emotion going on... it's both sexy and maternal, both intensely erotic and nurturing. All these emotions are blurred together, and certainly no "real man" would ever admit to the presence of feminine, maternal feelings in that bewildering recipe. And if he did, he sure as hell wouldn't do it on a public board! I'm a pretty touchy-feely kind of guy, and I have to admit, I had no idea how big of a deal it would turn out to be. Kind of like never having any idea that you're longing for something until all of the sudden, you have it.
So, does that answer your question?
Thanks, just doin my part! ;^)
Actually I'm surprised by the polarity of the repsonses. If I had to predict at the start of the thread, I would have guessed there'd be 10 "oh yeh!" responses and may be 2-3 "not really my thing, but good for you" responses. I didn't anticipate that there'd be yuck/unnatural/you're gonna get HIV replies.
Don't take that wrong, it's not a commentary/flame about the guys who posted their honest opinions, just interesting and not at all what I expected.
Who are you and what city are you in????
RacquelOC
neither does doing preggos or anything else having to do with a baby's birth ... isn't anything sacred anymore? [cough] ... somethings are just not meant to be mixed up with sex and lust IMHO
Big S, not trying to be a smartass here, rather just getting an interesting dialog started.
"or anything else having to do with a baby's birth"
...like, sex, for instance?
Are you contending that the underlying subconscious emotions of sexual intercourse aren't inextricably tied to procreation?
it may sound absurd but i trust no more absurd than the rationale of the mob boss (Robert DeNiro) in ANALYZE THIS who explains to his shrink (Billy Crystal) why he doesn't like getting BJs from his wife, (paraphrasing)
"Are you SICK? .... that's the mouth that kisses my children everynight!"
LOL
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but seriously, any thought of sex mixed with child birth and its associated female body changes kills my sex drive dead in its tracks ... go figure
however, pregnancy takes nine months and lactating...well did that for 18 months last time, expect to do it for that long this time too. adding up for gestating and feeding two kids that takes nearly five years that I'm ineligible to be sexy.
just wondering if you would feel the same if it were your wife and your baby?
To me anything that is associated with the feminine creature, we call woman, is sexy. I even like PMS. (Nothing like making up sex!)
I have never thought about lactating as a sexual addition, but if it makes the woman I'm with feel sexy or good, give it to me! Now I will say that there are ideas that someone might come up with that are not appealing to me, but if it made her hot…. I would remind myself I have been in worse places and had to do worse things and go for it.
I have read that nursing causes the uterus to contract rhythmically and has caused women to orgasm. Sounds like a winner to me!
Pregnant is extremely sexy. Lactating is great! Just say where, please.
Anon
Put it in your coffee?
One morning after my first child was born and I was nursing, I made coffee and realized we were out of creamer.
My (then) husband saw the light bulb go on over my head, and that wicked grin and he said 'you're not..are you?' and I put some in our coffee!
Like it makes MORE sense to have a COW in my coffee?
Thick, creamy and better than store bought! LOL
Disgusting Sedona...
Also for the guys who like this fetish...you reap what you sow...
Think some lactating privider also gives bbbj. Now your going to ingest her bodily fluids?? Same thing with daty. remember the 4 fluids that carry the HIV VIRUS. Mothers milk, blood, vaginal fluid, and semen. Go on drink it up...it's your life.
for nursing women. They even make BUTTER out of breast milk!
And, as I said, we are used to drinking from a cow, which isn't even our species and that's supposed to make sense?
And I was talking about with my husband, not with a client - this was 20 years ago - and he actually loved it. Would have me express some of my milk into a glass and drink it.
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This cow thing is a great point I hadn't even thought about. It really illustrates how odd reality is. The milk of a soft, sensuous woman = "eeewww." The milk of a large, hooved ruminent = "yum."
My contention is that the bravest man that ever lived was the first guy to eat a chicken egg. A non-discript orb falls out of a chicken's ass. Some poor hungry bastard decided to open it and eat the contents, and the rest is history.
I don't OmegaZap. I feel nursing isn't for adults. Do you think the same guy who ate the first egg was also working the teet?
I begged her to continue nursing the kids simply because it was the best sex we had had in a while. She on top CG, her nipple in my mouth, sucking away.
I stayed hard for at least 2 rounds every single time.
Of course Golden and Brown showers are sick and perverted to me, but everybody is different of course.
Yes. I'd like to see you, or anyone else who is lactating. [email protected]
This story is from several years ago, and while it involved a lactating female, she wasn't a provider, but I couldn't resist passing it on.
Went on a group type tour to an island, and one of the girls on the trip was a really sweet single mom who had given birth 3 or 4 months before. Her family was watching the kid, and had sent her on the trip to relax and re-charge her batteries. Long story on how we hit it off, but mostly due to the fact that everyone else was a couple and we were the two singles. I noticed a couple of days into the trip that she looked like she didn't feel well and was in some discomfort. Asked what the problem was, and she was a bit embarrassed but finally admitted to me that her breasts hurt like hell, and she felt like she had a fever. Said she was breast feeding, and had rented an electric pump back home, and had left a week's worth of milk in the freezer for her child (my sister had done the same, so I knew this was a normal practice when mom's will be away). For the trip, she had brought some little hand pump that looked like one of the old snake bite kits, and she said it not only hurt like hell, but it didn't work very well. I made a poor joke about being happy to lend a hand, and promptly forgot it.
The next morning, she called my room and asked if I could come see her. Went and she said she was embarrassed as hell, but would I be willing to try to help her get the milk out. She wasn't having any luck. Uh, is this a trick question? I said sure, and sure enough, she produced the pump and told me how it was supposed to work. The thing would really put the suction to the point of pain, and low and behold, less than a spoon of milk would come out each time. To end this novel, I'll skip to the part where we finally decided that I use my mouth. Man, I was in heaven. But there was one side effect I never counted on. Each time I would do this, I would finish and pass out like I had taken half a bottle of sleeping pills. And I mean every time! No wonder nursing kids are better behaved in public, the little guys are put to sleep.
Sorry for the long story, but I still laugh about it when I think back. Never did see much of the island, but boy was I rested when I came back. But yes, I'd guess that there are plenty of men who would love to have a "drink" at the world's most beautiful container. Just make sure they have some coffee before they hit the road.
H.