I am always freshly showered just prior to the girls arrival for outcall and will generally ask for a shower for incall, pending the girls preference. Some will ask if they can shower before they leave me, during outcall, and I always say yes but I never suggest me joining her. That has to come from the lady, imo. Sometimes they ask me to join them, most times no. They are fun though!

Both before and after. Regardless of whether the shower is just about certainty of hygiene or also includes some play I've found that the starting shower is a good gauge for how the session will go.  

 
I have noticed that most of the time the lady will also reserve a few minutes alone to wash themself rather than doing so with me in the shower. That doesn't bother me as very rarely have the ones I've seen used it as a ploy to reduce the time at play.

Before a session, I insist on showering alone.  One, because I carry some long embedded body shame issues (irrational I know, she's going to see me naked in a minute anyway).  Two, because even if I'm seeing a provider whom I've seen before, I enjoy the ceremony of undressing one another as part of foreplay.  And three, because I perform an "intimate" hygiene routine with baby wipes (TMI - sorry).

 
I would be open to the lady joining me after the session.  But, I would not propose it.  And, no one has offered yet.

the best ice-breaker there is when seeing a provider for the first time.  Even if I just had a shower ten minutes ago, I will take another one with the provider just for the effect it has on starting things off on the right foot.   Any shyness or awkwardness instantly evaporates with a little mutual soapy touching.  For an exit shower, it doesn't matter to me whether she wants to join me or shower after I leave.

refuse a playtime shower!
Whether it's the get acquainted or farewell shower.
Always enhances the session for me!

Not counting Kgrils or Chinese massage parlors, which almost all do it, I find it rather rare that the provider joins me. Me showering at the start so I am fresh, that's pretty much a given unless I literally just showered before I come to her. But on the rare occasion I have a provider who showers with me, it's a huge turn on. Honestly, if I see in her reviews that she will shower with me, I might choose her over another provider or pay a little more. And, for me, it's before. Showering with me after doesn't do as much for me.

I expect the lady to be showered and ready before I arrive.  Then I shower alone to get clean.  At the end it's nice to shower together for additional time together.

I don't want to be the one not under the nice warm shower stream.  I'm greedy like that.

So it's not happening, lol! I do love making it up by giving you a massage and more!

See you soon lover,

 
Steph XO

It really depends....

I do like to shower with my guy..... unless he stinks coming in the door. If thats the case, he can shower before n wash that funk off. Haven't experienced this in years though but it has happened.  Otherwise,  I enjoy showering together ❤️

So, Shall We Shag Now, Or Shall We Shag Later?

On the topic of showers, Austin Powers noted:  

     "How Do You Like To Do It? Do You Like To Wash Up First? “Top and tails? A whore’s bath? Personally, before I’m on the  
       job, I like to give my undercarriage a bit of a ‘how’s-your-father.'"

That about sums it up!

“I Don’t Kiss And Tell. I Shag And Brag, Baby!”

ATTB

The mutual shower experience has been rare for me. I usually shower prior to the event and just role out afterwards.  

One of the best sessions I ever had was with a beautiful provider. She was terrific and got two cups out of me. I thought I was spent then. Went to take a shower, she hopped in. Next thing I know, round 3 was happening. I felt strong in that moment- best session. I walked out of there a new man. Lol.  

If it’s offered, I’ll take it based on my experience mentioned above.

This is as simple as a,b,c.

Shave down "there" before a session, then take quick shower to freshen-up when on-site. I recommend a fresh double-edged disposable for this purpose.

Life begins when you've had your freshly-shorn ballsack licked by a skilled provided! Of course the likelihood of this happening increases exponentially when you are shaved and clean. Look at it from the provider's perspective.

Happy Hobbying

ATTB

I always shower just before the date and appreciate when a gentleman has done to same or showers st the beginning of the date. It's definitely fun to shower together but I only do so if he mentions it as it's kind of intimate.

Are you worth me getting my hair wet?

I am more, than likely going to go with the good vibes & energy if it’s an overnight, or daycation. I am living in the moment. I am a big girl & can do my hair again for when you take me out to eat sitting pretty.  It might take me an hour to do my hair it’s work, so you have to be worth the extra work.  Lol Smile for me!

I'm a Leo.  We don't like to get our hair wet.  I'd prefer to put it up and jump in the bath together.

Smiles and Soft Kisses,
Anneke

Am outcall to me onl so always showered and ready....however

If it will be a part of the session or is she want me to join her I would  happily  obliged.  but would be concern about geting  carried away as condoms in the shower don't always work well or there may be none there to begin with. So maybe its best if I avoid showering before the session.