My SO and I tried something similar- we both wanted to up "the weekly quota" to at least 4- lasted a week. It was great while it lasted but we missed the "sponteity" of it all. Personally, it was too much of a routine.
I imagine, doing it everyday with the same person will get "old"- need a break or lots of toys : )
My SO and I Do have sex at leats once if not more times every day. I have no complaints. We have a great connection and true deep Passion. It has not gotten old and I doubt it ever will...it's amazing each time. I think it has to be relaxed and just "happen" naturally otherwise I could see it may feel preassured.
We all seem to forget in many relationships all the niceties of when you first met that keep the spark in it. We sleep naked every night, he holds me all night. One hand on my ass all the time the other wrapped around me. Always tells me how he feels about me and touching, its an all the time thing. We hold hands always, sit on the same side of the booth in a restaurant, we share laughter daily. We sit in the same chair even if we are just watching the news. Intimacy is Not segmented to the bedroom alone and I think if throughout your day if you were Intimate in other ways like not letting the humdrum of lifes tramas steal that away from you, A kiss a hug a sweet smile a glance a soft touch...it may allow that intimacy to naturally flow into all aspects of your relationship as well as and not just the bedroom. I crave his touch, his laughter is music to my ears...hes a sweet man and we have found our way to hold that Desire for one another strongly intact. I believe it will always feel that way with him. It has not lost its shine.
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No offense to the SO. I love her dearly. But after 24 years, there's not Viagra on this planet that would make me want to do her every day for a year.
And, believe me, she wouldn't feel any differently. Now sex every day with a different woman, no Viagra and no problem! Guess I'm a typical guy.
one should take a day or two off a week for rest. My Mr. Happy concurs with that position... especially since I'm in my 40's now.
But back in my 20's... fond memories.
My favorite Coupling but the british version was great. Just imagine all the funny provocative scenes. Do we have a brillant writer here on TER that wants to give it a try???
Kisses Haley
Talk about turning something pleasurable into a chore. I love sex and I try to have sex at LEAST daily, but with the same woman??? No way.
I think under the best of circumstances,IOW with a woman that really turns me on, daily sex might last several months at best. It usually starts with sex 2-3 times a day for a week or two, down to daily sex with an occasional two-fer for another few months, then down to 2-3 times a week after that. I just can't imagine having sex every single day for a year with the same woman, maybe that's why I am happily divorced.
I listen to her sexy accent on Left, Right, and Center every week. And she's brilliant. Actually, I disagree with her all the time, but with that voice, who cares?
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giving it might be something entirely different. I find my SO to be hot, and if I can be spontaneous with her, and she throws in a lot of massages, which usually gets my interest up, I think I could give it a go. But, to be giving her sex everyday for a year would be difficult. She is often tired, and though sex is really good with her, we're talking a good 45-60 minutes of foreplay before the main event. That's a lot of energy and focused attention on my part. I can usually muster that 3-4 times a week, but seven seems unlikely.
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is about the best I'm gonna do. It ain't happenin' at home, and I sure as hell don't have that kind of money, so I'll be content with my little fantasies every couple of months.
I love to go to stripclubs... and ask the hottest dancers (by the way, that does not necessarily mean the best looking babe, but it does mean a lady who is comfortable with her body) for private dances... and I know that some will be duds.... mr. Happy is not.
some women however, know how to seduce - a totally lost art. if it was a year with a woman who knows how to seduce... yea... would never get old - but if it is with someone (no matter how hot she looks) who is "comon - get it done"- it wouldn't even make it through the first night.
this hobby has taught me that there are women who really do know how to seduce you.... make you believe you are the only man in the world - that that she would die for just you... and we all know that not to be the cased... but there for a brief instant - you believe it - and she has you - more importantly - she has you engaged in a way that sex is just incredible...
to have that everynight...? Well that would be great.... that and lactating boobs with large areola that are highly pigmented with large suckable nipples.....
In your senario are the fish biting? Might get distracted.
