Several times in the last couple years, a fairly high-end escort has cancelled on me without explanation.  Since I live in Hawaii, I frequent the great AMP scene here and do honest ratings on them.  They are not all 9s and 10s.  I have the feeling that some escorts don't want to see anyone that may not give all 9s or even all 10s.

thread below was from a provider that got all worked up over a couple of bad reviews out of dozens.  Also, many expensive providers (I eschew the term "high-end" because it usually ends up only being relevant to the price, not the service) think hobbyists that visit AMP's are out of their league with more expensive escorts.  They don't realize its not about the money, but what we sometimes prefer.

I've had plenty of cancellations over the years.  In a few cases, I'd swear the ladies cancelled once I mentioned my occupation.  I didn't initiate that conversation, it just came up, and then all conversation ceased.  Recently, I was texting with a provider, we went back and forth with 4 or 5 messages in about 20 minutes.  Then I didn't respond for about 20 minutes or so (you know, life comes up!) and she sends a text saying "I'll consider that a cancellation".  No idea where that came from!  I tried to contact her again, she refused to reply.  Just my experience, but I'd say the ladies on P411 or that otherwise appear more legit, so to speak, seem less likely to cancel for no apparent reason.

I have a number of reviews under my main account, and I think I might have lost potential appointments because they saw one of my honest reviews.
2 ladies ghosted me recently after providing references. We had friendly or flirty emails, then nothing.
I moved on, since there are plenty of hot chicks to go around.

In the grand scheme, it's still worth being a TER rater.
I want to keep providers honest and mongers informed, and hope other mongers think the same.  
There's nothing worse than reading an inflated review, only to have a shitty session with a top rated provider because she's gotten complacent, or has golden pussy syndrome.

END OF MESSAGE

If a provider is doing SOO much business that she can afford to exclude TER members simply because they give 6, 7, and 8 scores when justified....I have a feeling she and I wouldn't get along well anyway

Low review scorers are frowned upon, when choosing clients to rendezvous with.  Not my thing, but it is for many

Most men here appreciate honest unbiased reviews.  Not nasty or demeaning, but an honest account of your experience.  The long time members here know who the BS reviewers are that try to get freebies or discounts from the ladies.

It is hardly an issue with you NOT giving 9 and 10 ratings for everyone because providers aren't stupid OR that vain. (okay a few are but the same exception for WTF? exists on the other side of the fence with forum dwellers who write reviews as a social interaction)

If you, however, seem to be frequently broadcasting the details of your social life here on forum boards in review form AND you give unnecessarily critical reviews based on shallow, stupid or nitpicky considerations (and other arrested development BS), that is going to give the appearance that you, seriously, have no life, as well as no couth, or meaningful social interaction outside of porn, paid dates and other online trolls looking for free spank material through your free material known as reviews. No one likes to look at their audience as a bunch of pathetic losers because it makes it difficult to provide the best possible experience if our opinion of you ends up being this bad so we all look at what you write and how often you write and we make assessments of you based on what this tells us about you - as a person.

Remember, we aren't judging you by your looks or your bank account figures. We are trying to figure out if you are worth dealing with based on your personality and your character - and don't kid yourself into thinking that doesn't matter to a provider. We want our friends to have the best experiences with us and that is nearly impossible to provide that if we end up with a loser with the personality of a hateful, entitled manure pile that we often see too much of here in the forums and in the "sour grapes" spite/revenge reviews.

So yes, those reviews could be hurting you but not for the simplistic reason you are assuming it is

If not, does that mean you accept the fact that your reviewers just don't seem to be that enthralled with you in person?

On a related note, do you think your poor appearance scores tend to lower your performance scores, or do you believe your poor performance scores tend to have the effect of lowering your scores for appearance.

Or maybe you are completely BSC and  you believe all of your reviews are fake and spite/revenge based, is that the case with you? Enquiring minds want to know. lol

If you are going to try and make this sound like a personal issue, you are going to have to step up your game, improve your vocabulary and logic/debate skills and try again. I hate to say it but you and some of your online cronies are exactly the personalities that most of the providers avoid whenever possible. Anyone with as much free time to sit here on these boards and spew as much negativity as you guys do are not folks that inspire much enthusiasm in real life for better service, not that you would notice a difference, I am sure. But hey, just joking.. right?

As far as these scores, like most folks I think they are pointless because of their obvious limitations and misleading suggestions as a result.

I have no idea what BSC means and as far as reviews, I have been around a while and enjoy a really happy band of merry mates who are my regulars and they don't review or spend a lot of time in places like this because they have actual jobs and businesses that keep them busy enough that wasting time writing fap material on an online forum is a bigger joke than the idea that they have that kind of free time in the first place. I suspect you have a computer job or you are unemployed as those are the only explanations for your perpetual and constant online presence. If that is the case, remember that the world involves folks doing lots of other kinds of work for a living that doesn't make living here or even wanting to socialize here a desirable thing for someone enjoying even a small modicum of professional or social success in the world.

Of course, YMMV where the definition of success is concerned but in an effort to help other folks who actually want to be viewed favorably by potential providers, they might want to know what it really looks like from this side of the fence.

So bless your heart for responding and trying to engage or instigate, whichever it is this time. Have a great day now, ya' hear?

I've been told flat out by other providers they won't see someone who's a low rater. Personally who gives a shit; you guys, in most cases, are reading the VIP and judging overalls based on that. I don't know how many hobbyists I've came across that will mention how little stock they'll put into an individual rating, as opposed to an overall rating (just as in statistics, the larger the sample, the more accurate the confidence). Beyond that, I've read a ton of reviews that were a 5+ that deserved less based on what the VIP stated. It's all subjective, an a provider that is worried about a low rating here or there is putting too many eggs in one basket. Every provider has an off day, some hobbyists just don't mesh well with a certain provider, and some reviewers are just low raters. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

TER has a bad reputation when it comes to meeting quality dates and they represent something that we don't want to be associated with. I am extra picky about whether I will see a potential who happens to be an active TER. Generally if he is demanding, disrespectful, arrogant, or entitled I will not see him.