Having hobbies for a good 10 years and having met a wide range of women, I am certain that for some providers, sex is just "the job"...their own personal enjoyment from it in some cases is practically zero but for some others, they really enjoy the sex and look forward to orgasming.  Given the wide range of interest they have, lets face it, the clients skills and abilities are also quite variable.  Some guys are really expert at it, others decent, and others not able to provide a woman with satisfaction if their life depended on it.

Your third paragraph is guy's dream ("...pleasure her all over again and told you...") but what you are asking her is to put herself in an extremely vulnerable position.

if it did..i certainly would not tell you..

The more perplexing question, since the providers are only in this for the money and "plan" to move on to their true passion in life when they sock away enough, how come it takes them so long and why are they always complaining about how hard it is to make next month's rent? lol

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well you could tell us all it happened and what the circumstances were but of course none of us would expect you to tell us what her name was....

Eisenhower was President and she wasn't exactly a professional provider

Are we guys really that insecure?

In any case, the answer is always about the same:

While we'd all like to think that this has or could happen, the reality is that barring a perfect polygraph test and the providers' willingness to take it (highly doubtful) we will never know for sure, so just enjoy the ride and stop thinking so much.

I'd like to propose that the whole topic be barred from future discussion, or a special board for this and other inane topics (bare back FS, etc.) be started so the rest of us can avoid these pointless debates.

He was a mid 20-something that completely lied to me about his age when we set up the date. I generally avoid seeing men so close to my age and I probably would've turned him away at the door if I wasn't so attracted to what I saw when I opened it. He was very clean cut, dark hair, blue eyes, awesome body, broad shoulders and clear, beautiful skin. I was so smitten with him visually. We had a great session together, he was surprisingly good at daty and he really made love to me the way I most enjoy it, slowly and deeply. He pulled me in so tightly in the missionary position, and our differing skin tones pressed against one another was so arousing to me.  I orgasmed twice during our hour together, and I felt so comfortable with him.  
I text him the next day and I asked if he'd like to hang out, he said yes and brought over wine and some carryout. We had sex and it was just as incredible as the first time.  
I did continue seeing him after that, but all the subsequent times were paid for. I did have to end our "relationship" eventually because I was so attracted to him visually and sexually, and his personality made me really want to pursue further things.. but I'm sure that wouldn't have worked out

thanks cutechick...great story,,,you have the right spirit for these boards!

..you have taken it to new level. Sheesh!

I have dated many hookers, but I can only think of one where the chemistry was instant and it was only a matter of a few days until money was no longer part of the equation.

So yes, i can say that it does happen, but VERY VERY rarely, at least to us mortals, I am sure mega studs like BobSugar might disagree, but I don't consider myself in THAT league. lol

I've had several ladies go overtime for extra play. Technically that might not be a free session, but a few minutes is really nice. What your describing I've enjoyed twice, with two different ladies. There was this third one, but outside your parameters.

So let the frog kissing continue.

Whomever he was. Surely one of the few who still post. Could have been a provider for all I know but that persona made my ass laugh a lot. I don't know why. Bob "Sugz" Sugar was so Hollywood and foolish. Love that shit!  

Amphibians rock.

A lot of us develop the attitude that it's ok to blow money because we will make more later.  Sometimes your phone is ringing off the hook and other times you hear crickets, thus the "I have no money to pay my rent" complaint.  It would be nice to make this a career that lasts a while but eventually you have to move on with your life.  I invested in a time locked slot safe recently to help with saving money; so far so good!

BTW they FAKE the Os. It's part of the deal. You pay them and they pretend to like you.  

No charge, are you serious?  
Even in the civvie world,  women don't just have sex for nothing.  They do it because they want a relationship.  
Why do you think women don't pay men for sex or go to see male strippers?  
Biology is just not like that.

ill buy this doormat.  Maybe my life will change and a hooker will far in love with me ...

Good thing you are probably cute.

Woman don't go see male strippers? Wow! So they were all TSs at that club I used to go to that had male strippers one night a week. Place was packed on those nights too.  

not just fantastic sex. No, that has never happened to me but a provider did tell me once that this guy came to her and from the first moment she saw him she wanted to fuck him and never charged him. The feeling I got is she wanted to 'build a relationship' with him, but as it turned out it never happened. I think today she wishes she did charge him.

... but only when I was doing BDSM sessions. A Mistress offered me a free session because her girlfriend wanted to watch. I didn't do it but probably should have.

I set it for the first.  When it opens I grab all the money I need to pay rent and bills and then I close it and set it for the next month.

Half the women going to regular clubs I patronize, are looking for NSA sex or trophy sex just like guys .
  I don't consider a one night stand a relationship.
  Granted, occasionally a  Party Gal will  try to turn a one night stand into something never to be, but she's an exception rather than the rule.  
   
    I know  a couple  strip clubs near the Beach that had one side reserved for women paying to watch male dancers, the other side of the club was female  strippers.
 Guys and gals could visit the side with female strippers.   Patrons on the female stripper side were 90% guys.  
   
   The side with male strippers ONLY allowed entry to women.  
   When the side with the women watching the male strippers closed, usually around 11 pm, many  of the Gals  would venture over to the female stripper side.  
  Those bars would pack to overflow with Gals on male stripper night.
 After the show many of those gals were primed and ready for adventure.
   
  Unfortunately those clubs  were eventually shut down. Some guys not willing to move to Key West, sued for discrimination, because they weren't allowed entry to see male strippers.  
 
  It's a bummer when  a few mess up something going so well for many.  

But had sex with a massage lady in a legit place several times on the massage table.
She was completely indifferent to the tip, but REALLY wanted to see me outside of there for sex.
A very horny little lady.
She was fun, but borderline crazy too, so I didn't indulge her wish to come to my house as a fuck buddy.

but I always always always charge.

I love this game but I need to have the discipline to be sure I pay my bills and buy the things I want/need. Only then can I pay for pussy.