There's a hobbyiest on the Atlanta board worried because he came after "only" 10-15 minutes of daty, bbj, cg and acg. I don't know about you, but that sounds like a helluva session to me. But then again, I'm sure I'm known as Quick Draw McGraw to the ladies. I'm sure that's why I'm so popular with providers. Seriously, what is normal ?
10-15 minutes isn't very long if you count 14 minutes of DATY. lol
I last anywhere from 10-60 minutes of actual penetration, no real "normal" even when comparing myself to myself. lol
I will attest to the fact that while many ladies profess to liking a guy that can last two hours. In the real world, I have found very few women who actually like to get pounded for that long. Even the "troopers" tend to get tired after about thirty minutes of actual penetration.
Of course there are those special few who actually love marathon sex sessions, I had to train myself to last longer when I was involved with a lady who required at least thirty minutes to cum. Maybe it was because I have a tiny dick, lol but I learned to last as long as I needed to with practice. She was thankful, but the legions of providers I have seen since aren't always so happy, especially the ones who start in with that "cum for me baby" about five minutes into the session. lmao
I guess i'd be considered a quick draw,i usually pop in 10-15minutes.if I can muster up wood for a 2nd pop,thats when I will at least go for 30 minutes.doesn't happen very often these days,except for a select few girls who get me wriled up enough.
If you're actually TRYING not to pop, the trick is, once you feel it coming on, close your eyes and picture something really disgusting. Always does the trick; gotta build it up all over again.
I can think of a couple of easy ways to last longer if you so wish. One is Viagra, many if not most guys have a hard time cumming when taking it, so it should allow you to last longer. The other is alcohol. I find a few drinks desensitizes me to a certain extent making it more difficult in my case, allowing you not to cum so quickly in your case.
I am sure a bunch of anti-drug, anti-alcohol, wannabe abuse counselers will come out of the woodwork giving you all sorts of reasons about how dangerous or unnecessary these solutions are, but both of them are effective in my experience.
The buzz kills your erection if you're not careful. That's what you call "whiskey dick". The only thing liquor has ever done for me sexually is make the chick look more like Halle Berry and less like a wilderbeast.
What you say about Viagra is true. Try popping a Viagra in conjunction with an X pill, which is called "sextacy" - then you will get...nah, I won't spoil it. TRY it. Works for women too.
I'll usually go for the 15min quick sessions when I'm on my way out for work in the morning. It's all in knowing your body. In the morning when I wake up I'm already at my sexual peek. Therefore a 5min CBJ, and between 5 to 10mins of solid penteration I'll pop, and I'm out the door.
There's nothing wrong with coming in 15mins if you pay for 15mins, But I see it as a problem if you pay for 60mins, and you climax with in those first 15mins, and the provider only allows one pop.
My two ATF's knows exactly how to CBJ me and position during k-9, or mish to make me pop quickly.
I usually always climax within 15 minutes, but have booked for an hour. Usually the provider would be willing to allow another pop, but at this stage of my life I need more refractory time.
most likely on TEH Board, and I believe the average was found to be around 7 minutes.
But, the issue is really whether we are happy with how things go or not.
There are ways to prolong the duration. Tantric providers, for example, are excellent at teaching various exercises to learn how to avoid premature ejaculation. Extremee tantra, in fact, calls for NO ejaculation. (Not sure how I feel about that one.)
I found a way to prolong by masturbating almost to the point or ejaculation, then stopping until my penis began to go limp, then staring over again. By repeating this cycle about 3 or four times, I became aware of the feelings that associate with ejaculation and change my rhythms accordingly.
There's a hobbyiest on the Atlanta board worried because he came after "only" 10-15 minutes of daty, bbj, cg and acg. I don't know about you, but that sounds like a helluva session to me. But then again, I'm sure I'm known as Quick Draw McGraw to the ladies. I'm sure that's why I'm so popular with providers. Seriously, what is normal ?
Is there a normal? I generally last longer than I use to. But it varies. Who I'm with. What we are doing. How we are doing it. I know the condom makes me (or helps me) last a little longer. Could be the Viagra, but I've never used Viagra at a time when I didn't use a condom so I can't be sure. Could be age. I always last long enough for me. Like a poster just said if your happy with the good time you had that's what counts. I enjoy the talk and cuddle time so it's all good to me. Sometimes one pop sometimes more. More is more likely if one is a BBBJTC. ( Thus the idea the condom may be the culprit.) Variety is the spice of life.
Finishing in the first 15 minutes can be a real drag if you booked an hour and the provider does not offer multiple cups. I was this way, and didn't even realize I had it in me to go again within an hour. Not until I met a fantastic lady who practically insisted I have another cup. Ever since then things have been much better, and I always get a second.
I can empathize with the Atlanta board guy. I'm at the age (44) where multiple pops in an hour is a very rare thing indeed. If a lady offers a half-hour session, many times I'll take that instead of a full hour (a few of the ones I've seen offer this, though they generally don't advertise it), but if that's not in the cards, I usually try to prolong the session as much as I can (DATY, kissing, etc., and having her hold off during a BJ when I'm close to the peak) before popping. My current ATF offers a three-hour dinner date for a very reasonable price; we'll play for a while, then have dinner, and finish off by playing some more. On those dates, popping twice is much easier as the interlude gives us both time to "recharge the batteries."
There's a hobbyiest on the Atlanta board worried because he came after "only" 10-15 minutes of daty, bbj, cg and acg. I don't know about you, but that sounds like a helluva session to me. But then again, I'm sure I'm known as Quick Draw McGraw to the ladies. I'm sure that's why I'm so popular with providers. Seriously, what is normal ?
I think if you want to last longer you need to control the pace. If I'm pounding away, it could be 5 minutes or less before I pop. But if I control the pace, slow some times, fast some times, stopping, changing positions, etc, I can go indefinitely.
I've used the "think about something gross technique," and it works to some extent but I prefer not to think gross thoughts during sex. Better yet is to focus all your attention on something not related to your groin or her breasts. Try to really get close and feel her hair against your eyelids or something like that (still inside but not moving in and out too much). Focus on that feeling and you'll forget about your groin. Once you calm down, go back for some more in and out action, build up and then relax.
Also, breathing helps. Do some deep breathing like you would in yoga. That controls your heart-rate which keeps you from getting overly excited.
Today, I popped 3X in 1 hour with a extra-ordinarily sensual lady. So I must have averaged 15 min per session and 5 minutes rest in between, or 20 minutes per pop.
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