Could you compartmentalize enough to separate your business life from your personal life?

Could you put your personal preferences aside well enough to entertain ladies you don't find very attractive physically?

Could you be a good enough actor to entertain someone you just met for an hour or two and have them leave feeling on top of the world?

Do you think that more women are 'naturals' at this than men?

Personally, I think I could act well enough and I'm bright and a good conversationalist but I don't think i could put aside my personal preferences as far as physical attractiveness. I'm a very visually oriented person and I don't think I could convincingly make love to a woman who I found physically unattractive.

So, I guess no providing for me, huh?

From personal experience, I know that I would have difficulty.  The no shows, and then having to be "chipper" to the next client along... the late clients who consistantly force me to either short their time, or to move my entire schedule back 15 min, 30 min or an hour...

the beautiful, but ill groomed client who reeks and needs a bath, douche and major dental work, but refuses my suggestion to "feel free to use the 'facilities'"

or the lady who shows up, seems nice and is attractice but wants to "manhandle" my business end in ways they use to make saussage....

the lady who shows up - and asks, I know you charge $$$1/2 and says "you know the ATMs only dispense 20s... so I brought $$$.40 figuring that is what you meant..."

I look at the scores of women - and by and large from this board, and from speaking with women who are the picture of discretion... but I do know that all this goes on... they just "suck it up" and move on to the next client and hope that he will be a gentleman indeed.... I hope that with all the ladies I've been with, that is what I provide to the hobby.  

I am keely aware that sometimes on this board, I may come off as harsh, but in the presence of a lady, I would hope that my reputation is that of a gentleman who keeps his word, shows up on time, and delivers as promised and makes the evening pleasant - even if it is only a fantasy for me, and a business for her.


this is true not just in escorting.. but also in stripping.... strippers tell me the same stories...

looks?  well, if they have something of a personality we could probably work around... but these other things would just distract my mind...  a bit much...
so....

no providing for me....  GREAT Question!

I give these girls a lot of credit for pretending they even LIKE many of these gross cretins!  By the same token, I couldn't get hard for many of the large dogs that pass for providers. Typical Hobbyist below.

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I could handle the questions of taste and distaste and my medical specialty was such that I dealt with very "difficult" people without a problem.  I understood where they were and was able to appreciate them for it.  My problems would be questions of skill and emotional strength.  

I am not speaking of physical skill, but the kind of psychological and emotional skill that the best of the ladies have. I doubt I could match them in that department.

I also can't imagine the personal emotional issues with which I would have to deal; I don't know if I would have the strength.  My practice had many terminally ill patients who became quite dependent.  I formed deep attachments and many of them died on me. but I did it for decades, still I don't know what emotional challenges providing would bring.

ladies of much different physical attributes, no, I could not be a provider. In the first place, have you ever seen me? The women aren't exactly beating my door down.

I couldn't even be a provider if I was a woman. If I was a woman, I'd have a pussy, and I'd never leave the house.

And finally, yes I think women are much more natural at it than men could ever be. The ladies I have met just seem to know exactly what to do, where I still have a lot to learn.

No Way....first time a women showed up with more hair on her face than i have....I'm "Heading for The Hills"...(lol).

Lets hear from the ladies....Would you do this person?...I know money is the bottom line....BUT,
isn't there a limit as to how far you will go?

The person i'm referring to,is the pic of the person in Heinous Anus's post!

I don't look anything like that. I'm taller and my hair is curly!

As one provider put it:

"All a woman needs is a smile and a bottle of lub."

Certain things have to happen for us to be able to slip our guns into their holsters.  While our guns work only a limited number of times in a day (at best), their holsters always work.

i mean really, i am young enough, still have a hardon when there is a stiff wind, and well some of the providers were not all that great but i still finished with a bang.  

but really i would rather do it with a twist.  initally would be a dinner at no charge (she would pick up the bill) and if we go to play then it would cost her. make it a little more personalized then just showing up, play to what they want and since i can no long read minds i think dinner and drinks would would best.

and if I got drunk enough to want to, I'd be too drunk to be able to. lol

I meant psychologically rather than physically.

Well reasoned!! LOL

I am so spoiled here.
The NYC clients are overwhelmingly SEXY.
Sometimes, I shake my head in disbelief because I have met some extremely hot men here (as clients).

It is always funny that clients love to ask in horror about my other clients.

Everywhere I go, all of the clients assume that the rest of my clients must be DISGUSTING SLOBS.

In truth, I am asked this question with far more frequency than I even meet a "gross" client.  (And, should that happen, I would know how to handle it.)

I have seen clients who are "too gross for me to see" so infrequently, I could count all of them on one hand.  However, I've been asked about these "unwanted clients" more times than I can count!  What is with the clients' obsession with "other clients who are gross" ???!!!  You guys think about "gross clients" way more often than it even happens to me.