First, it began almost 10 years ago and went on for years. She was a stripper, and gradually I began paying her for regular service, although I allowed her to continue working (including, I suppose, the "extras" that come with the job)and she had regular boyfriends as well. She was absolutely gorgeous, with a natural 36DD chest and a thin waist.
I paid her then what you pay now. But it gradually worked its way up to $3,000 per week as she became my mistress. Eventually, as you guys put it many times, I had to pay her the same to go away.
I would not recommend this to anyone else. This hobby, with its lack of strings attached, is the best thing, especially for a young man.
If so im very curious to know how much money you give her a week
for exclusive rights, and do you let her work at the club, or not.
I'm giving a K a week but I let her work at the club, but now I have met an cute euroasian MP girl that is to die for(Stephanie Swift is my ATF so Im so in love), and also I have another stripper that I want to see but she also wants a k a week.
I really dont make that much money I make regular money but I dirve a 95 oldsmobile and live with my parents so I pay nothing a month in bills, and also pay no taxes, I'm 30 and I love so much to feel like a big shot with a stripper girlfriend just with making a regular profesional salary.
If anyone wants pics of the girls I'm talking about I would be happy to share.
Thanks
what part of the country are they located in?
First, it began almost 10 years ago and went on for years. She was a stripper, and gradually I began paying her for regular service, although I allowed her to continue working (including, I suppose, the "extras" that come with the job)and she had regular boyfriends as well. She was absolutely gorgeous, with a natural 36DD chest and a thin waist.
I paid her then what you pay now. But it gradually worked its way up to $3,000 per week as she became my mistress. Eventually, as you guys put it many times, I had to pay her the same to go away.
I would not recommend this to anyone else. This hobby, with its lack of strings attached, is the best thing, especially for a young man.
Yep....been there done that and married her. I think the till is more than $1000 per week now LOL. Truly we are very happy after nearly 10 years, and we "hobby" together. Truth be told, most strippers are frigid in bed anyway!
If you are looking to be the envy of your friends, forget about it. Personally it seems to me that you are just paying $1000 per week for the privelege of living out your fantasy. Maybe I'm wrong, but I doubt it. What I do know is this.....I have met nearly a hundred girls through the years who are strippers, and I know them on a far different level. They will tell a guy anything they think they want to hear. If that is okay with you fine, but be prepared for the BBD (bigger better deal) to come along.
In my opinion, a provider with no strings attatched is a better deal. She will tell you what you want to hear, make you feel like the king of the world, and truth be told, probably a lot cheaper in the long run with less heartache. Besides....think what your friends will think about you when you tell them your girlfriend is an escort!
Good luck.
You seem to have had some fun I think it's time you take another look at what your doing. Your traveling down a dead end street and you just keep accelerating. Your 30 I'm 35 so I know exactly what your talking about and I have "dated" dozens of strippers over the years. Thanks to God, Allah, Budda or whoever you believe in and a lot of hard work I have more money than brains but nothing is going to keep you and the life your trying to lead going, it's just a game your gonna keep playing and sooner or later your going to loose and loose a lot.
If you were to take the money your throwing at her go to some of the best clubs in your area throw half of what your giving her at buying drinks and being a big shot there you'll be suprised at the quality women who you might meet. Then you starting on an even playing field and you have as much control as she does. Now she has all the control and your along for the ride paying for all the gas.
Hey you could also take that money sock it away and in 10 years you may actually be the big shot you want to pretend to be today.!! Either way good luck.
yeah man...throw some pics our way
Have had in the past - and can only say that I paid them nothing, they worked at the club... and they paid their own way. but hey - you work with what ya got!
My advice, think about where you want to be in 2 years, 5 years and 10 years.... still want to live with your parents? Who are your friends, what other hobbys do you have?
Think about it.
I did it for a year when I was 20 and it was a legit relationship, not a mistress type deal. I met her family (kinda awkward meeting her dad for the first time), we did holidays together and everything. She continued to work, I wasn't worried about 'extras' she offered at work because I was her best client for years and there just were not any extras on the menu (I certainly would have known)...She started focusing on school and less on dancing for a while, which was good, but eventually started dancing lots more. It ended up failing because of a drug habbit that really became a problem for her...the more I tried to help the more she distanced herself.
It was a blast for a while...nothing beats going to the club with your college buddies and knowing the owners, all the dancers etc...and of course, leaving with the hottest girl in the club at the end of the night. I now travel 5 days a week for work so I dont have time to become a regular at a club and work on a specific dancer, so I hobby.
... is someone to whom you pay $1,000 - $3,000 per week your "girlfriend"? This wage is certainly not integral to any GFE I'VE ever had. If you're paying to pop someone, she's a pro, not your girlfriend, and you're a client, not her boyfriend. This seems to me especially true if she's still hanging out with other boyfriends, or, perhaps, "boyfriends." This post isn't meant as a judgment, by the way. You might've been getting more mileage out of her than you would've had by paying that fee to several providers. But you don't pay a GF by the week, or the month, or the hour.
Wow, I had to read that a few times to make sure I got it right. 1K/Week= $52,000/year for "exclusive rights".
You have no bills and claim you pay no taxes but have a professional job? You either work for cash or taxes are deducted from your payroll. If you have no overhead (other than car insurance & living expenses like massage parlor fees, porn, internet access, strip club cover charges etc..) you still have to be making a hell of a lot of money to drop $1,000/week on a stripper who is giving you "exclusive rights". Sorry, I am chuckling as I type that!
"Fire" your stripper and buy something really nice for your mother and father. Or really impress them and move out of the nest and visit them often or have them to your place for dinner once a week. Start an IRA or other investment plan. Ask a girl out to dinner and get to know her, start dating and maybe she will take her clothes off for free. They will do that, you know.
lol
Hey That's a great concept.
Grow up, move out of parents house, pay my own expenses, do my own laundry, meet a regular girl who will take off her close for free or pay a stripper $1000/week- cash none the less.
Probably cheaper to get married than go out with stripper- Try mail order catalogue.
$1000-$3000 week for exclusive - but she goes out with other boyfriends. Operative word here is exclusive. I think you are getting taken, and she must be a brilliant business women if she is taking you and others for $1K a week plus working- Sign me up!
What a great guy you are. Does she need your permission for everything that she wants to do?
and have no say in the matter of where she works?
If it takes $1K per week to keep her around, then you need a regular provider and do two one hour dates with her per week at her hourly rate, and pocket the rest. The provider will treat you better.
and there all singles!
Booooiiiiinnng!
Cheers!
Hate to break it to, but you don't have a stripper girlfriend. You are a customer, maybe a very good customer but a customer none the less. Sorry, but my advice is get your own place, a better car, and if you really want a girlfriend, get one the old fashioned way. If you just want someone hot, stick to the hobby, it a more honest way of doing business. Cheaper in the long run too.
Then again, I didn't meet them in a strip club.
Sounds like your lifestyle is draining your wallet. If you are still living with your parents, you must be young. If you are young and broke, go to a dive bar and pick up some college girl. These girls are playing you for a chump. I wish you the best, I really do, pal.
to her. She's a real hottie and of course offers a free sex to him, always. In short, I'm sorry to say, you're a sucker.
looking for advice on how to save $52,000 a year? If you're getting value from this relationship, far be it from me to set you on a different course. I just hope that you're putting some money in your 401k for that rainy day that's sure to come.
No one 30 years old pays a stripper $4000 a month and brags about it.
Right?