Anyone ever asked a hot stripper at a gentlemens club if she provides or willing to make extra special activities outside of the club?  If so, what are the responses?

My wife couldn't get enough of this one stripper and after some amazing couples' lap dances she got her number. They texted back and forth for a few days trying to find a common schedule for all three of us. Eventually the girl clued my wife in that this wasn't free so she (wife) called it off.

The result in my case turned out to be a long discussion in the club's parking lot about how different things were in the clubs in New Orleans where she used to work compared to the clubs here in Los Angeles. I didn't end up making a date, and unless you count jawing over coffee and cigarettes OTC time, it was sort of a disappointing ending to the evening.

Here's some tips:

In my experience the more you spend on a stripper, especially in the VIP room buying lap dances, the more money she is going to want. You are giving her the idea that you have plenty of money, are pretending to be a big shot, and are willing to pay "top dollar" for off premise sex.

Where the fuck is Jack when you need him? because this class needs serious lessons in negotiation. The idea behind picking up a stripper is to not appear too cheap, but not looking like a sucker. A stripper would much rather bleed a sucker dry in the VIP room with out ever seeing his dick, much less having had to fuck him.

The other thing that will kill your chances in a strip club is to be "too eager" once again she will look at you as a sucker and do her best to separate you from all your money "In the club" and then you can join the crowd of losers waiting out in front of the club at closing time, while the dancers leave out the back to go party with their real Boyfriends and Dates who know how to play the game.

I have dated many strippers in my life, and I used to love to watch one of my exes "work the room" she would have three different guys thinking that they were going home with her, but every night she came home with me. I kind of felt sorry for the poor schmucks, but it didn't keep me from laughing at them. lol

...of them about 4 times outside of the club. I paid her the going one hour rate for my area. One other I saw regularly for about four months but we just used the VIP room in the club. I paid the club VIP room rate which is less than a session. The others that said yes wanted too much when compared to an hour with a provider.

Ok, maybe we don't disagree after all, does this mean I have to go find someone else to argue with??? lol

Guys who come to ogle your tits and ass, would like to have sex with you away from the club.

i remember being on a business trip in San Antonio and several of the strippers and one waitress were offering to come to our "hotel" after hours for a 100 over the local rate. I couldn't figure out why our table was getting so much attention until one of the guys fessed up. He asked, and accepted, the higher rate and buddy fucked the other guys at the table. Prick!

You're pretty much supporting what I was saying.

...in the negotiation process. Although my presence in the clubs is unique and my approach is slightly different, it boils down to the same thing- not spending too much $$$ on dances, not appearing too eager or (god forbid) desperate, and being willing to negotiate. I sometimes don't have to pay at all since some dancers just want to hook up or are bi curious and just want to try dipping their toe in the lady pond (woo hoo!), but even the ones that want payment will respond much better to someone who at least appears to know what they are doing in setting it up OTC.

The club rules said "no tricks."  But she wanted to fuck for money, so she did.  Right there at the club.  Soon, she said, all the girls were doing it.  She loved the idea she'd blazed a new trail.  But that's her kink: she's well off and doesn't need to fuck for money.  The idea of it just turns her on.  Lord, I miss her.

Give it five minutes, we'll disagree on something else, again, lol.

Once in Las Vegas. Ended up seeing her every time I was In Vegas for about 3 years until she priced herself out of my range.

Nah, can't be the same girl.... LOL     I know a woman who has a very similar story.  Started out in a strip club, she would get so horny by the end of the evening, that if the last guy she danced for had a pulse, was clean and had cash in his wallet, he was gettin some of that pussy.  She decided “why bother with the the club?” and set out on a very successful run as an escort.  Was a fave of mine for a long time.  She would do a private lap dance that was so fucking sexy and as she ground her pelvis into mine put her hands on my shoulders and whispered dirty secrets into my hear as she made my head swim.. Ha, just writing this I can almost feel her presence and remember her scent, she was an erotic dynamo...

Mine was from upstate NY and a bit away from your stomping grounds.  She was quite the little sex machine.

Your post just brought back great memories and the woman I was thinking about was also "quite the little sex machine".   Let's face it, some of the women who come through our lives make very strong impressions, the good ones like these two and of course the others...oh well, that's a whole other thread topic.....  LOL

And I've been to Tootsies.
I'm gay, and wimpy..... I know.

cannot hurt to ask, it is usually cheaper that spending $ at the club with no chance of getting laid there.

I wish we could trad places for a month.
This way. You could make my body rich, and I could make your body..
Ummm. Drunk?

I asked one. She said yes, and gave me her number. Unfortunately, she didn't answer her phone when I called, so that was the last time. With the thousands of ads, we don't really need to hit on the strippers anymore. Besides, in some places...........well you know what I mean.

Yep, I once asked a stripper if she would allow me to pay her $300/hour for her "time".  I wasn't expecting her to say yes, and my expectation was accurate. She politely declined. Because she was nice about it and didn't try to get me thrown out of the club or arrested, I paid her for a lap dance.  

Once had a gal give me her number without ever asking... We hooked up a couple of times outside the club... at no cost, and this same gal would give me extra dances for free... Never understood what this young slim blonde saw in me, but I wasn't going to complain... LOL.

so a lot of the prestige and bragging rights of getting a strippers digits is long gone. They often have separate phones just for customers so that they can get them back to the club to get more money out of them. The promise of OTC fun is never usually realized, but the PL has no clue until he/she has spent a ton of money in the club and finally gets tired of being strung along with no chance of an OTC hook up.

Disagree on point three.

Your mistake was likely asking her BEFORE you had paid for a few lap dances -- but not TOO many.  Once you've had a few lap dances and she knew that you were a nice guy and not a jerk, she might have been more likely to say yes if she escorted off the clock.  But without a few lap dances first, she was very unlikely to say yes, because you might have seemed desperate or potentially LE.

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"If there aren't already girls offering "extras" at the club, then don't even ask." My successes have always been at clubs where girls are not offering extras.  
 
"If you haven't already spent an absolute minimum of $100 on her, don't even ask." Once you've spent that kind of money in the club it will take you far more away from club and BCD than you need to pay.

you my flatulent friend, "get it" lol

good post

All the time & they always go super big.  I have been quoted $500 to 5k & I assume it is 1 pop.  What until closing time, then inquire the rate declines dramatically.

you just gotta learn what makes people tick.

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mostly they say no they don't but every once in a while one will say yes and give you a number....and then the number is fake and you spent those dollars in the private room counting on more later.  Also, once I texted one and got a response, but we never met up and she kept texting trying to hook up.