Question for the ladies.
Have you ever been to a swinger's club posing as a monger ' s wife or girlfriend?  

and most screening is done on the men all they want from the really private ones are pics of the girl.  

Where I go, it's more of a club, and the woman holds the membership. She can bring whomever she'd like, but they do check drivers licenses at the door. I've seen young BP girls with older guys all the time, and obvious couples that "looked like he paid her". I haven't been to too many private parties, not sure what they require other than pics of who is coming. Most swinger spots are very relaxed and no one is really worried about the other or what the relationship is, it's more focused on pleasure.

I know alot of gals who do swinger club dates....most pose as a couple

What state you are in, how public/private a club is.  Some want a phone call some only care that you pay the donation at the door.

The blonde and I are involved with a private, invitation only group in the Chicago area. If a guy brought a paid companion he would be dropped from the list. That is a major deal breaker for a lot of lifestyle women. They want people to be there because they want to, not because they are being paid.  

It's nobody's business and from my experience they don't make it their business either!
Happy swinging!