TER General Board
Its certainly true that going with a shade that is more natural, will appeal to a wider spectrum of onlookers.
But at the same time, when you've been a provider for a few years, you have to also find time to just be yourself. If everyday, you are only living in fear of what others think, then really, that is just not living a true and honest life. There does have to be a balance. Of pleasing others, as well as pleasing oneself.
One thing I learned as a teenager, was no matter how much you want it, or how hard you try, there will always be those who don't approve. Always be someone who doesn't like you. Its just impossible to have everyone like me. Even if I'm blond, I'm sure somebody somewhere is talking negative about me.
I think when I first started as a provider, I was worried too much about other's opinions. I felt pretty miserable with all the worry. Now I am a very happy person living a full and wonderful life because I take more chances for happiness. I think when you accept that not everybody will like you regardless of efforts made, and to just enjoy life and not think too hard on how to enjoy life.... that is the key to happiness. And happiness is appealing in itself, even if it has purple hair 
Its great to hear opinions. As it is also a bit of professional research for me to know the gent's outlook on this. I know many men like a natural women. Because I don't have implants, I did have clients who preferred a very natural look.
Hair is still dark violet. Being out in the Mountains and wilderness, I don't have to decide to quickly on this. I'll ponder it for a few days then decide if I want to look normal again or not
Thankyou I appreciate your opinion.
-- Modified on 11/26/2012 9:54:56 PM
Alternative hair coloring and styling is not so uncommon these days. It would really depend on what it does to the lady's overall look. Role play and costumes can also become much more interesting. I had a gf who dyed her hair orange and put on an outfit like the girl in "The Fifth Element" and opened the door like that when I came to pick her up. We stayed in 
Aww sweet. Xoxo
Yes violet hair, violet blue eyes, and a friend suggested violet eyeshadow with smokey eye. I'm on west coast and men are looking more then when I was a blond. Might keep it purple for awhile
-- Modified on 11/26/2012 1:07:27 PM
Its certainly true that going with a shade that is more natural, will appeal to a wider spectrum of onlookers.
But at the same time, when you've been a provider for a few years, you have to also find time to just be yourself. If everyday, you are only living in fear of what others think, then really, that is just not living a true and honest life. There does have to be a balance. Of pleasing others, as well as pleasing oneself.
One thing I learned as a teenager, was no matter how much you want it, or how hard you try, there will always be those who don't approve. Always be someone who doesn't like you. Its just impossible to have everyone like me. Even if I'm blond, I'm sure somebody somewhere is talking negative about me.
I think when I first started as a provider, I was worried too much about other's opinions. I felt pretty miserable with all the worry. Now I am a very happy person living a full and wonderful life because I take more chances for happiness. I think when you accept that not everybody will like you regardless of efforts made, and to just enjoy life and not think too hard on how to enjoy life.... that is the key to happiness. And happiness is appealing in itself, even if it has purple hair
Its great to hear opinions. As it is also a bit of professional research for me to know the gent's outlook on this. I know many men like a natural women. Because I don't have implants, I did have clients who preferred a very natural look.
Hair is still dark violet. Being out in the Mountains and wilderness, I don't have to decide to quickly on this. I'll ponder it for a few days then decide if I want to look normal again or not
Thankyou I appreciate your opinion.
-- Modified on 11/26/2012 9:54:56 PM
sounds lovely!! Enjoy it and have fun. Stick with it. I am sure you style your hair in a flattering way, so you have nothing to worry about. Plus it is winter and the holidays are here so it sounds perfect.
Someone mentioned why dye hair and wear wigs? I color my hair and it is healthy and soft and thick. I personally do not like wigs. I do not want an itchy, sweaty head. I prefer my real hair and I am sure my clients would agree. Many love to touch my hair, hold on to it, and they love running their fingers though my hair. I do not think they would enjoy doing any of that with a wig on.
Its very soft and silky, just like before. I feel very happy. I know not everyone will like it, but the ones who don't like it can wait till when I change it to a natural color again
I agree, I wouldn't be able to wear a wig. Only if one was requested for role-play scenarios. I also adore a man playing with my hair. Its very comforting to me.
You are right, It is the holidays, and I am festive looking now