I recently saw my ATF whom I've been seeing regularly for 3 years. I usually just place the donation next to her purse after our session. Well this time she had gotten caught in a traffic jam on the way and was about 45 minutes late arriving. Not a problem but it did put me in a bit of a rush when we were through as I needed to get home. In a hurry to leave, I totally forgot the donation. I honestly think she forgot too cause we are close enough that I'm sure she would've mentioned it before we left the hotel room. Anyway, we are walking separate ways in the hall(I'm parked in back and she in front) I hear her coming back and she motions me to come back. I thought at first she might have left something in the room. When we come together she whispers the donation. I said "oh shit I am so sorry I forgot". Couldn't do exchange in the hallway obviously and she even offered to just settle up on next visit. I said no just walk to my car and I'll take you to your car and handled the exchange discreetly before I dropped her off. She was cool about the whole thing but I must admit I was a little embarrassed that I put her in an awkward position.
Guys, have you ever forgotten the donation?
Ladies, ever had something like this happen with a regular? Should I do something extra for her next time?
... I frequently forget all about the donation as soon as I enter the room. Too excited I guess. Sometimes I remember during pre shower. Sometimes, while getting dressed to go. Once had to actually be reminded. The ladies have always been cool about it much to their credit. I am always embarrassed but like I said, too excited, not thinking of money, just sex.
Any mistake can be fixed.
When I walked into the room I set the envelope on top of a dresser type thing. The girl was standing right there and saw me do it (or so I thought).
About 15 minutes after I left the girl called me and she was fn' letting me have it. She was not a very tall girl and apparently couldn't see the envelope setting there and she had forgotten that I put it there when I first came in the room.
She did apologize for the way she started off on me when I answered the phone LOL!!
You forgot, she forgot. She remembered before you did. You gave it to her. You don't owe her anything extra.
By the way, you can avoid this by putting the envelope out in plain site before she gets there.
She was a fabulous provider who made me feel especially comfortable with her extremely relaxed personality.. She was the type lady who went well over the agreed upon time together and when I reminded her, her response was,
" Yes, I know but I'm not ready to leave yet, do you want me to leave ? "
When it was time to call it a day she gave me a soft kiss and was on her way. That's when I noticed the envelope still sitting on the table. I opened the door and caught her at the elevators and with a smiled hugged her and place the envelope in her jacket pocket.
She just smiled and was on her way.
I had this happen the last time I saw one of my favorites. I had the envelope out in plain sight on the coffee table sitting next to a small gift I had gotten for her. After the session she picked up all her things ans somehow left the envelope sitting there. I walked her to her car at the Valet helping to carry some of her stuff.
When I got back to my room I noticed the envelope sitting there, and I thought she must have just taken the cash out of it and left it there. When I picked it up is when I realized she had forgotten it. By the time I got a hold of her she was a long ways away and couldn't turn back because she was late for a birthday party because she has spent a little to long with me. That's the only time I learned a ladies real name. I was leaving the next morning and she gave it to me so I could put it on the envelope so she could collect it from the front desk, and show her real ID to get it.
but I have left it in the car and had to go back and get it once or twice. One time, I was setting up a date with a provider that was a pretty good drive for me, so I decided to go for two hours rather than one. Well, the day came, I drove the hour plus to her house, and at the end of the hour she made no move to end the session. I just went along and at the end of two hours, I left, all the time thinking she must have liked me to let me stay so long. Just thinking she was being nice, but wondering at the same time.
When I got home, I got an email asking about the donation, it seemed I only put in enough for one hour. She asked what was wrong, and why didn't I give her what we had agreed on for 2 hours. It seems that in the days between setting up the date, and the actual visit, my feeble brain forgot that we going to do 2 hrs and not just 1. I know what some of you are thinking, Swim was drunk when he made the arrangements and in his drunken stupor forgot that he scheduled 2 hours instead of 1. Well, sorry to disappoint you, I was totally sober. I had never done a date for more than one hour, and just forgot.
How did I fix it? She gave me her real name, I already had her address, since she used her home as her incall, and I mailed her a check for the balance. She had knocked $25 off the rate for me and I added that back on when I wrote the check. Figured that was only fair. She said I didn't have to do that, but I did it anyway.
Swim
Of course not. Then again, I've never forgotten to get a paycheck that I'm entitled to either.
Guys, have you ever forgotten the donation?
Ladies, ever had something like this happen with a regular? Should I do something extra for her next time?
The very first thing that I insure is on my person in my clothing or wallet is the donation. The second item that I ensure is on me is my cell.
One of the best provider experiences I ever had. All her ratings are like it was with me. She was just wild into the sex until she wore me out. I left, a dehydrated shell of myself. She'd been so into it, that she caught up with me in the hall, thinking I'd forgotten the donation. I went back with her and showed her the envelope. She was so sweet, she called me in 10 minutes and wanted to get together the next night. One of the biggest mistakes in my life is that I didn't. I was on a variety trip at the time and ended up with junk the next night. I've always wished I could go back on that one!
before putting it in the envelope. One time I was seeing a lady I had several dates with previously and had left the $ in my car. When I was ready to leave I said, "Oh shit". She asked me what was wrong and I told her I needed to go to my car and get her donation. Luckily her incall was a 1-story condo unit so I didn't have to go through a big hotel lobby several times in a very short period of time. We have seen each other since but unfortunately, she has moved out of the area.
No need to be embarrassed..
Being genuine and forgetting is one thing
being a dog and trying to get aways with something is another deal all together
and it is usually really obvious...
Just don't forget next time.. No big deal...
Not only did I once forget a $1500 donation, by the time I realized it, I'd already left the hotel and was down the road.
After burning rubber back to the hotel, to my horror, I found that my hotel room had already been stripped and the trash removed. (I left the donation in a shopping bag that they thought was trash.)
Luckily, a housekeeper showed me to go the dumpster to retrieve my "trash". The bag and money was found.
Thank god!!!
Guys, have you ever forgotten the donation?
Ladies, ever had something like this happen with a regular? Should I do something extra for her next time?
...the donation. I realized it when I was walking up to her place. I told her upfront and said I would bring it next week. We had seen each other weekly for about 6 months so she knew I wasn't trying to rip her off. She insisted I go home and get the $ before the session. Maybe she needed it to pay the rent but it sure opened my eyes.
I imagine your weekly visits ended shortly thereafter.
...from her so it was no biggie to go back. She was always late with her bills, so waiting a week when she was counting on the $ would have thrown her for a loop.
The session was so amazing when we were done I got up and walked out the door and got into a cab with wabbling knees..the chemistry was amazing. In the cab, checking my pocketbook I was like wtf! I called him and he checked and said yes, lol..its right here on the counter..I came back and he booked 3 hrs for the following night..again..another wabbly evening..he became my atf..and still is..........That was 2 yrs ago...and i see him regularly 
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Just had such a great time, I simply forgot.
I sent her a simple "thank you, was great to see you!"
She sent back "Was great to see you too...but...I think you forgot something."
I felt bad, but we know each other well and she had no problem letting me take care of it the next time.
I really did "Forget it was a service!"