I was just reflecting on my last few months of hobbying.  As I have a birthday coming up I was thinking getting older isn't so bad.  I have been with more beautiful women in the past 4 months than in the past 41 years.  Now I dont mean volume, I am strictly speaking of appearance / performance.

Have any of you guys ever thought about that?  The reward for getting older, wiser, more successful is a nearly inexhaustible source of incredible fun only limited by your imagination and budget.

I actually feel sorry for men who don't do this hobby, especially married men.  There but for the grace of God go I.

Are you kidding? Getting older is great, and the hobby just makes it that much better. Aside from the spetacular sex, in the past two years I have met some of the most interesing ladies, and it keeps getting better. I wasn't aware of how much some women really do prefer older men. If I hadn't tripped over this hobby, (quite by accident) I probably still wouldn't know.

As an older woman, older than the original poster by a couple years....I feel as if I'm in the prime of my life.  I may have a few lines that didn't use to be there. I may not have a body that is as hard and toned as it used to be. I'll tell you though......I am more content, happy and at peace with my life now than ever before. Sexualy....oh boy....I feel like a 17 year old. My drive and desire is higher than ever and still climbing. Go figure! I definatly think the hobby keeps me young in a lot of ways.

I'm sure I have a few more years and lines on me than you do, and yes, and I earned every one of those lines. I wouldn't have it any other way. As for the hobby---------YES!!!!!

Transcend2007 -

I feel the same way, now that you mention it.  Life is good!  I'm 50, and it's awesome to be with a woman half my age.

Very true.  These last 5 1/2 years have been awesome.  I too have met some truly outstanding women.  Thank you ladies.

Definitely been fun since hobbying, just wish the little guy could work just right- in the middle of the ages would be excellent!

When he was young, he came too soon, now that he's 55- he takes forever.  Crap- is there ever any balance in life?

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Hell, my daughter is 41.  Wait until you get to my age.  Then you will really reflect on how it is to get older while hobbying.   LOL

I've got several years to go before a get to that age. Just thinking of what I would do if I couldn't go out and hobby any more. Wouldn't be great to have an old persons home for hobbiests and providers together?

And I haven't got time for the "waiting game"!

Once I started flying solo I tried the Singles Scene and quickly came to the conclusion that; regardless of age, the civie life was too crowded with mating dances and head games.

It might have been cheaper dragging someone home for drunken-sex but that's not my style.

Beyond the gorgeous (within and without) ladies in this business, I've always felt lucky to be with someone who is "up-front" about this.

How great it is to be totally focused on one of life's great pleasures, both giving and getting. To think of all the people in the world who may never experience ONE, of even our minor episodes, makes me feel sad for them. (Lurkers included)

The "Civie" mentality would label this as a temporary fantasy at best. Living a lie or in a "dream world". But they've never been where we are. They will only dream themselves of what might have been while we have lived it.

So with that I give a big cyber pat on the back to everyone who is "active" in this, regardless of age!

I LOVE older men because they are usually there in the moment with me instead of living completely in their heads.
And I love the way more experienced guys pace themselves, therefore prolonging the enjoyment for everyone involved.
Yummmy

Speaking as someone that's hobbied since 17 (or was it 18-19 -- too much ex and booze back then...my subconscience needs to call me back and let me know..)

It's funny I've been with more 8/9/10's than the best looking of my friends. Yes, I paid for them. However, this does not take the fact away that I have been with more beautiful woman than most men can fathom (aside from hobbyists..), and I'm nothing special, so hell yeah it's 'not so bad'... Mind you I've never had a civvie over about a 7 -- but I'm not one who needs arm candy, and even if I did I could just pay the provider to join me for dinner as well.

Good times.

-M

unless he started banging the nurses on the way out LOL

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well, maybe not a problem.  Did I write that out loud?  What?  Give me my Goddamn Jello.

Hell the Hobby is what keeps this old guy young. Whenever I book an appointment with a younger Provider I will ask if they mind seeing older guys because I know of a few that won't, and I have never been turned down.

of all this elder sex - Viagra, et al.  Now I know from hobbying the past 2 years that a good provider can make up for a hobbyist's ED, but let's face it folks, it's a hell of a lot more fun to HARD!

I am not a guy, but I know I would not trade my wisdom and experience to be "young" again. These are the best times!

Come April this year, it will be 2 years since I started hobbying.  I have been with more beautiful women in that time than I ever was in civie life.  I just wish I could have started hobbying sooner (couldn't because of occupation).

I don't do the bar scene, don't try to pick up ladies at the grocery store or Wal-Mart.  I know you have all seen the little breakdown of the cost of a provider vs. a civie date just to get laid, and it's right on.  Why jump through all the hoops just to get a little lovin' when you can call a lady who will make you feel like a king, as opposed to one you have to beg to get her to kiss you or even touch you where you want to be touched?

Thanks to our lovely providers, I have had more sex in the last 2 years than the previous 14.

Love ya lots girls!

Swim

I was bored, depressed and thought, this is all there is...what the f*** did I work for all my life.  Then I discovered the hobby and it brought a lot of excitement into my life.  After I found out how to be selective and pace myself...lol...I have enjoyed it even more.
I feel sorry for the guys who don't know or are too scared to dive in.