I've been a hobbyists off and on for over 20 years, and in that time I have never rejected a provider or MP girl at the initial viewing, no matter how disappointed or deceived I felt.I think it's because I don't want to make a commotion, or I'm hoping it will be better than it appears, or more probably because my immediate need was greater than any common sense. Without sounding insensitive or politically incorrect (Yes, I know providers are human beings, not commodities)... Is it ever proper to reject a provider at first sight?

Yes it is OK under some circustances and mandatory under others. Don't accept someone who is obviously drunk or drugged out. It's going to be bad and get worse and you may find your self in the company of someone who is carrying drugs. The other problem is if they use intervenious drugs they have a high risk of HIV or AID's. If you feel you are being had, the girl doesn't match the pictures of the site, or being ripped off. Say "Sorry babe. Heres $20 for gas. Bye." I have done it in the past and will in the future. I have never rejected a provider basied on looks alone, and have been pleasently surprized by some less than model type girls.

Not lately, but I did back in my "street" days.  Sometimes what looked good from a distance under a streetlight can look pretty bad, or pretty scary, up close and personal.  I now hang out with a better class of providers and the issue has never come up.  However, I think it would be rude to turn away from an incall/outcall girl, or an MP girl based just on looks.  But if she were really hideous, or dirty, or a DUDE, I'd probably do like that guy in "Ladies Man" when he told the trannie, "please don't be offended, but I'm going to run like hell now."

Some ladies (and agencies) play games with "Bait'n'switch" (sending a different lady than the photo), or use fake photos "representative"of what the lady looks like.give'm 50$ and send'm pack'n!

I would not be offended personally if I got turned down on first sight.  I would re-think my ad and consider a photo that depicted any physical changes I may have gone through.  After all I have seen some HOMELY looking girls advertise on the net and they seem to do just fine.  There is someone for everyone.  I would prefer being turned down from the get-go rather than to go ahead and receive a bad review.  Of course my feelings would be hurt, but its better to get turned down than get a bad review.

I have never rejected anyone either, but I do not think that it would be out of line if the person is obviously not the one in the ad and the question had been previously raised...are you the person in the ad photo?. I would simply say...I'm sorry, but you are not who was represented in the ad. Of course, this would not apply in a MP situation.

I have and have also had providers refuse to see me based on my looks (race).  Although it very well may make the other person feel an inch high, in the end both parties have that right.

A....Who in their right mind would ever turn you down?Coach

Only when they didn't look anything like their picture.  Rationale:  If it just isn't their pic, "verified" or not, that is dishonest from the outset and probably an indication of what is to come (or not c*m).  Also, the provider has a responsibility to keep their pic reasonable accurate.  If I'm looking for a real hardbody, she says it's her, and find she has put on 15 lbs, that too is dishonest.  That said, I have few strict rules on the looks of providers I see, eg.  no 5oclock shadow or dangling things...lol.Thing is, there are so many providers who can be seen quick, that the "bird in the hand" thing makes no sense.  Turn around and spend the $ on someone who is more likely to give you the bang your buck should buy. ~

I've rejected several ladies and I've accepted several ladies that I should have rejected.  In other words, its catch as catch can in this business and I haven't found the photos to be of much use as they are almost always wrong to me.  I am particular, especially about weight and almost everybody lies about it.  In any case, I keep the phone number of a somewhat reliable russian agency and I know couple of good mp so that if my incall doesn't look like what I expected, I give a polite no thank you and head off to an alternate although second choice adventure.