I’m contemplating full face. I posted asking others elsewhere and another provider pointed out that she made more $ full face out, but after blurring her face she gets more social dates & fun longer engagements.

I would hate to not get foodie dates, getaways, overnights & vacations because those are my ATF.

Most girls blur out something for lots of obvious reasons. It never stopped me. And I was rarely disappointed.

Thank you kindly for your honesty. I really respect your candor. Thanks. 😊

It helps.  Even with amazing reviews, your look still may or may not be someone's type.  Especially at the higher end of cost.  It creates an even higher expectation.  

If your body looks good and you have good reviews, I don’t need to see your face. But I’m sure if you have a pretty face it will only help you land more clients. Seems odd that it would negatively impact social dates.

Not necessary for me to see face.  
And as a general rule, I don’t think it’s a good idea to show face.

My experience has been that reviews are a better guide than photos, even though, for me a woman's face and eyes are the most important physical feature. I have no idea how this all would impact bookings.

Also, I have found Candid shots to be a better guide than pro glamour shots, IMHO

Privacy.  
💭  

It doesn’t seem odd to me that the gentleman paying for the pleasure of a ladies company in public would not want the added attention of a working woman who is full face out.

I've seen very few ladies who are face out and I never had a problem.  

 
For me it actually adds a bit to the excitement of seeing someone for the first time - imagining what they look like and then actually seeing them when I walk through the door.

Sure, some may. Some may also go as far as preferring UTR ladies who don’t have any ads. Those are ones who are being cautious. To be clearer, I understood this point. I was more leaning into you might also gain clients who want to know what your face looks like before booking you. It’s the old lose some, gain some, difference.  

 
Personally, if not for TER, I would probably lean more into needing to see face out. I would say this even for social dates. My way of thinking is I’m not overly concerned about someone who recognizes you because they saw your ads too. But I completely understand some do.

If they want to see my face before booking they can subscribe to my onlyfans it’s that simple honey. I’ve shown my entire face, since Covid on my OF.

Kind of like a present, or gift it’s a surprise!

Good to know my friend! 💋 🤗

Full face will definitely get more dates, but is it worth it when your kid google searches their mom in 10 years and all kinds of wild stuff pops up?

That will work for some guys. Some of us, me included, don't want to even have an OnlyFans account. I'm more concerned with an OnlyFans account leak than seeing providers or TER. OnlyFans is too popular and publically recognized. I won't go near it.

Don't do it. You already have many fans, and those who research will figure that out. You probably don't want to see those who do not research. Plus once you do it you can't get it back.  (kind of like my point of government ID)

This is such an important and layered question. There isn't a neat answer because it hits on safety, psychology, capitalism and self-worth.

 
When people say “face out makes more money,” they’re not necessarily wrong but they're also not entirely right. This is an industry built inside of unchecked capitalism and patriarchal fantasy, the closer you are to Western beauty ideals (thin, white, minimal tattoos, “clean” aesthetic), the higher your earning ceiling tends to be. Visibility amplifies those advantages... it doesn’t create them.

 
So when you step into visibility, you’re not just showing your face, you’re deciding what currency you’re willing to trade in. For some, our face becomes part of our brand, and being fully visible and standing unapologetically in who we are is either part of, or essentially, the brand. For others, their power lies in mystery, in the tension of not being fully knowable. Both can be magnetic.

 
When I went face-out, it wasn’t a casual decision. I knew my face card was and is valid, accepted wherever face cards are accepted. I also knew that for me, as a woman of color in a predominantly white industry, that was an advantage I could weaponize. Men could say what they wanted about my body and my size (I was much heavier at the time). They could say what they wanted about my race, or use the "strong, angry, aggressive black woman" trope when I held firm in my boundaries or had an opinion (and some did here). But my face was undeniable. It softened me where I wanted softness; it smoothed the rough edges and helped men realize I wasn’t an “angry, strong woman”, I was and am a soft, intelligent woman who happened to have an opinion and could usually back it up with fact. My face made me more approachable without diluting my edge and it often was a deciding factor as to why I was booked. I know because I used to have a question on my booking form asking clients to tell me the top two reasons they booked and the options were: face card, the curves, the wit, the reviews, something else. The "wit" and the "face card" were usually the top two choices.  

 
And I don’t think it’s a matter of choosing between being seen or being felt, because my brand is both. I’m face-out and still deeply felt. My brand moves through imagery, but also through emotion, language, tone, and presence.  

 
And yes being face out has brought me great bookings! The vast majority of my business (well over 60%) is extended dates (basically anything 6H+ including FMTY). But it also brought surveillance and exposure. And while I have more privilege as a U.S. citizen (& a member of my tribe) with dual citizenship, allowing more easy movement, that’s still scary. Facial-recognition technology is terrifying. I know so many Canadian, European, and Australian providers who’ve been stopped at borders and even U.S. providers who’ve been stopped entering other countries. Some are face-out, others blur their faces, and it still happens. Visibility doesn’t always protect you; sometimes it marks you.  

 
Even if I blurred my face tomorrow, I recognize that I’ll never have full anonymity again. I can mitigate it.... I can work with an IT team to scrub certain traces from the internet. But total invisibility isn’t possible anymore. And don’t get me wrong, I do sometimes think about going face-in simply because I know my business could sustain that, and because privacy has started to feel like such a luxury.

 
The question shouldn't  “does face-out make more money?” because the reality is, it depends entirely on the person and their branding. I know plenty of providers who make more now that they blur their faces. I think the real question is: What kind of freedom are you willing to trade for reach and does that exchange still feel worth it to the person you’re becoming?

 
I can only speak from experience, but the men who seek me out tend to be drawn as much to presence as to appearance. That’s the real alchemy.

Admire you. I love following you on X! You’re a rare breed indeed beautiful inside and out. You’re very articulate. I truly enjoyed your response. The way you worded your website is impressive. 🫶🏽

Considering the fun facts of life that I am truly a full-time single Super Mamacita who has no help & have raised amazing young men…. I think they will be proud.

To have a gritty Mother who continues to provide emotional & financially 365.  

There’s no love, like a son’s love for his Mamma who continues to sacrifice every single day. My struggles never go unnoticed.  

Still hot is what he would say & Mom’s face card never declines.  

On another note 📝 after looking at your reviews. I am a lifestyle Domina and have several BBC’s maybe you’re ready to rock? 🤘

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I blur my face it hasn’t hurt it’s actually helped. I have been told it’s seems exclusive more of a personal experience. I provide an experience it’s not about me and my personal needs. I provide what I am booked for nothing more or less. I am an adult entertainer. I guess it depends on what is important to you when you get down to it. Pros vs Cons … the Try and the Fail … never give up!  

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