So how appropriate would it be to ask a provider to take a picture with you? I want a picture to remember the good times with the provider bit does that pose privacy issues for the provider? What if we go on a vacation? Would it be ok to ask to take a pic with her? What is the correct eddiquitte for this? Also is it rude to ask for one for her panty? Any thoughts? This is mainly for providers that use aliases and blur thier face in ads. Thanks!

I am not ok with taking my picture with you or letting you take pictures of me.. EVER.. It is just to risky.. As to my panties... If you give me money to replace them and that one pair is not one of my favorites.. Sure you can have them...

but I think I'm a little less risk-adverse than most providers.  

I have also "sold" my used (usually soaked) panties - I think I've had 3 requests in the past year.

Yes, I commonly sell my panties... just not my favorite pairs, as another lady pointed out. Pics... unless you're a long time regular, who I know for a FACT is not going to do anything with them, yes.. otherwise, no.. I have plenty on my website to "remember" me by, lol.